Welcome to Episode 14 of the Business Oddcast! This week we get brutally honest about holidays — the so-called “relaxation myth” and why they can be anything but restful for neurodivergent brains.

From the social script of “Going anywhere nice?” to packing panic, airport queues, security pat-downs, and the existential crisis of the wrong mustard, we unpack how novelty, noise, and lost routines turn “time off” into full-body admin.

We talk control, safe exits, sensory landmines, and why some of us need a toolkit, a multi-tool (…and apparently a scalpel) just to stay calm. We share family-trip war stories (Center Parcs wins, enforced fun loses), why solo recharge time matters, and how “doing” holidays tied to special interests beat “being” holidays on a beach.

Takeaways: plan outs, protect routine anchors, design trips around genuine interests, and remember — rest isn’t a location, it’s a condition you create.

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TIMELINE

00:00:00 - Introduction. 00:00:43 - Hannah's update 00:02:22 - TOPIC OF THE WEEK - The Neurodiverse Hell of Holidays 00:04:24 - Lets look at what a "Holiday" actually is? 00:06:10 - Looking at our past holiday traumas 00:09:20 - Preparing to go on holiday and the packing conundrum 00:10:19 - What clothes do you pick? 00:11:03 - The stress of the airport, flying, security interrogations & queues 00:13:32 - Stuart's Disney story and airport security breach 00:19:25 - Why you need a scalpel in Disneyland 00:20:02 - How holidays remove your control and affect your regulation 00:22:17 - Hannah's French holiday overwhelm story 00:23:50 - Level of prep and stuff that you need to know 00:25:10 - Coping with the vastly altered routine 00:26:05 - Dealing with your partners differing holiday expections 00:27:06 - Cognitive load and how that shows up on a holiday 00:29:04 - The FAMILY holiday... 00:29:54 - The pressure & stress to fit in and look "normal" 00:31:50 - Stuart's childhood holiday story 00:34:03 - Hannah's family holiday story 00:35:57 - Centre Parcs - Stu'd brief review of family holidays 00:37:47 - Changing routines on holiday 00:39:12 - Stu's meltdown, small issues magnified by being on holiday 00:40:40 - What does holiday look like for Hannah & her family? 00:44:30 - A week in hospital 00:45:48 - Diffeing needs for Stu and his wife on holiday 00:47:10 - The hell of "relaxing" and "doing nothing" 00:48:40 - Stu's recollections of globetrotting 00:50:55 - After the holiday, returning to routine on your return 00:52:15 - Does the problem start when you choose a "standard" holiday? 00:56:18 - Holidays used as a measure of success 00:57:02 - Round up and conclusions... 00:57:44 - Send us your holiday stories 01:01:30 - Next Week's Topic - Reunions

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