If you’ve been told that autistic women can’t lead, command a room, or inspire a crowd, this episode is for you.

Dr. Kathy Marshack dives into the "myth of the proper autistic woman" through the lens of a fictional, yet deeply resonant character: Poppy Lee from Apple TV’s Mythic Quest. We break down the iconic "Sequins and Sob-stories" speech, a moment of total, unmasked vulnerability that didn't just earn applause, but started a revolution.

We explore the brilliant strategy behind Poppy’s "messiness," the exhausting reality of "bro culture" in Silicon Valley, and why the most powerful thing a neurodiverse woman can do is say: "Here I am. Take it or leave it."

Whether you are a woman in tech, a parent of a one-of-a-kind daughter, or a professional trying to bridge the gap, join us as we celebrate the marvelous, unpolished truth of the NeuroDiverse heart.

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

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In this episode, Dr. Marshack takes us deep into the Radiant Empathy universe to introduce two pivotal archetypes: H.H. The Dissembler and Number One, the Engineer of Empathy.

When one partner in a NeuroDivergent relationship begins to expand into their authentic self, the other often reaches a crossroads. We explore why some adults "dismantle" what they cannot comprehend (routines, plans, and emotional intimacy), not out of malice, but because they lack the internal scaffolding to grow.

Contrast this with "Number One," the archetype of the adult who bravely constructs the internal structures needed for reciprocal connection. Learn why you cannot "save" a partner who is in developmental collapse, how to recognize which trajectory your partner is on, and why your own internal compass is the only guide you need to rise into the life calling you.

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/

We often spend our lives over-explaining, over-accommodating, and performing just to feel like we belong. But what if your presence alone was an invitation?

In this episode, Dr. Marshack looks to her dog, Kokomo, as a master teacher of "Witnessing Without Words." Kokomo doesn’t bark for attention or negotiate his worth; he simply positions himself where connection can occur and trusts that he will be seen.

Dr. Marshack explores why this embodied way of being resonates so deeply with the NeuroDiverse mind, which often finds the "theatrical" social world of humans exhausting, and why NeuroTypical partners so often lose their "spine" by trying to be louder or smaller to stay connected.

Discover how to move from a lens of control to a lens of trust, and why the most powerful form of witnessing requires no words at all.

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/