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My Secret Seduction

My Secret Seduction

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 A lifestyle podcast by two relatively new swingers who started later in life. Join us as we share our journey with our fun, sexy adventures.

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  • New Year, New Play - Lifestyle Resolutions for 2026

    New Year, New Play - Lifestyle Resolutions for 2026
    Jan 25 2026
    New Year, New Play - Lifestyle Resolutions for 2026 🎊Join John and Susan as they head to IPG's New Year's Eve hotel takeover in Scranton, PA! But before the party starts, J and S get real about their lifestyle resolutions for 2026—from being more outgoing to better communication at events. Plus, they hit the party floor to ask other couples about THEIR sexy resolutions, and the answers might surprise you!In This Episode:🎯 J and S's Resolutions:Being More Outgoing: John admits he can be a wallflower at events and resolves to step up his game without being aggressive. Time to ask those couples to dance!Mastering the Flirt: Sue wants to work on her flirting skills and that transition from friendly conversation to sexy suggestionBetter Communication: The big one—talking to each other IN THE MOMENT at events instead of asking "did anyone catch your eye?" afterwardsSelf-Care & Confidence: Both commit to better diet and exercise habits (after the holidays, of course!) to feel their best💬 Resolutions from the Party Floor: Hear from real lifestyle couples sharing their 2026 goals.The IPG New Year's Experience:🎉 What IPG Does Right: John breaks down why IPG events are worth every penny—from trivia and speed dating to Swingo, comedians, magicians, and that epic New Year's ball drop with LED accessories, champagne, and non-stop entertainment🏊 Pool Party Perfection: Clothing-optional volleyball, "eye candy" ball retrieval, heavy petting, and connections that last all weekend🎤 Karaoke & Courage: Sue conquers three songs (including "Kiss Me Deadly" with backup singers), John finds his liquid courage for two performances, and everyone closes with "Closing Time"Sexy Storytime - Triple Play:The real magic happened after midnight when J and S had not one, not two, but THREE incredible play sessions:🔥 Session 1 - JNS: Back in their hotel room, things finally clicked with friends they'd been flirting with all weekend. Full swap, amazing chemistry, and Sue conquering her 69 anxiety!🔥 Session 2 - The Six-Way: BNG's room turned into a party with a spontaneous six-way featuring multiple couples and discovering that the "side position" is their secret weapon🔥 Pool Time Almost: Would've been a perfect triple with I&I in the pool, but everyone was happily exhausted by 2am💡 Pro Tips Revealed:The Side Position: John and Sue's favorite finishing move that not enough people know about—ladies on your side, legs spread slightly. Game changer!Edibles Done Right: Half a gummy instead of a full one = perfect mellow vibe without being too zoned outMorning Reconnection: The importance of that special wake-up call to reconnect and reassure each otherUpcoming Events:📅 February 14 - Cupid's Shaft (Valentine's Party) at Wicked Fun Club📅 March 14 - Erin Go Bra-less: Scream of the Banshee (St. Patrick's Party) at Wicked Fun Club📅 Early April - 2069: The Sex Odyssey (Sci-Fi Night) at Wicked Fun Club📅 May - MILF Madness (third time's the charm!)Plus: Potential Friday night watch parties and planning for Naughty in New Orleans!Get all the details and sign up at wickedfunclub.com - one-month memberships and single-day passes available!Sign up for our monthly newsletter at mysecretseduction.com to stay updated on all our comings and goings!Got questions or want to share YOUR lifestyle resolutions? Email us at jandsexplorers@gmail.com or leave a voicemail on our website!Connect with us:SLS | SDC | Fetlife | TelegramSearch: JandSExplorersHashtags:#LifestylePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #NewYearsResolutions #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestyleCouple #IPGEvents #HotelTakeover #LifestyleGoals #SwingersAdvice #LifestyleCommunity #SwingersLife #CNM #ENM #SexPositive #OpenRelationship #LifestyleTips #NewYearsEve #SwingersClub #AdultLifestyle #FullSwap #BlissCruise #LifestyleParty #MySecretSeduction #WickedFunClub #SexPositiveResolutions #LifestyleConnections #CoupleGoals #SwingersNewYear #PoolParty #HotelTakeover2026 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    54 mins
  • Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle

    Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle
    Dec 12 2025
    Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle 👻Join John and Susan for a real-talk episode about one of the most frustrating experiences in the lifestyle: getting ghosted! From no-shows at planned meetups to communication that suddenly goes silent, J and S break down why this behavior is so damaging to the community—and share their own ghost stories that'll make you shake your head.In This Episode:👻 The Ghosting Epidemic: John and Susan's personal experiences with being ghosted—not just radio silence during chats, but full-on no-shows after making concrete plans to meet. Hear about the couple who left them waiting at a bar in the city and the recent hot date that never materialized despite confirmed arrangements.🤬 Why It's So Damn Rude: Whether it's the lifestyle or a job interview, basic courtesy matters. J and S explain why ghosting is worse than just changing your mind—it's about respect, communication, and treating people like actual human beings.🔍 What's Really Going On?: Are they picture hunters? Is one partner communicating without the other's knowledge? J and S explore the possible reasons people ghost—but emphasize that NONE of them excuse failing to send a simple "sorry, can't make it" message.💡 Pro Tip - Day Use Hotels: Quick recommendation for dayuse.com if you're looking for affordable hotel blocks (4-5 hours) for daytime meetups. Perfect for those afternoon adventures without breaking the bank!Sexy Storytime - Sadie Hawkins Success:After a week's delay (they were too busy enjoying their afterglow!), John and Susan dish on their incredibly successful Sadie Hawkins party at Wicked Fun Club! This ladies-choice event featured games, prizes, and some seriously hot encounters:🔥 Sue's Adventures: From oral play with gorgeous single guy R (who definitely knew how to do the "hello"!) and friend A to a private room session with R that left everyone satisfied🔥 John's Surprise: Despite not planning to play, John got seduced by a friend who knew exactly how to push his buttons (literally!). Missionary, doggy style, and a five-way that had the whole club buzzing🎮 The Perfect Mix: Veterans and brand-new couples mingling naturally, confident single men who approached correctly, and enough chemistry to light up the whole clubUpcoming Events:📅 December 13 - Secret Santa/Sexy Santa Christmas Party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 30-31 - IPG New Year's Eve celebration in Scranton, PA (2-day event with clothing-optional pool!)📅 January 3 - Swinger Match Game Night at Wicked Fun Club (Newlywed Game, Match Game, Win Lose or Draw - plus J and S's birthday celebration!)Coming Soon: Sci-Fi Night, Valentine's Day, St. Patrick's Day, MILF Madness (May), possible Friday night watch parties, and planning for Naughty in New Orleans!Check out all the details at wickedfunclub.com - one-month memberships and single-day passes available!The Bottom Line: DON'T GHOST! Even a polite excuse is better than leaving people hanging. Be honest, be respectful, or at the very least—make up a decent lie. The lifestyle is built on communication and respect, so let's all do better.Got questions, ghost stories, or topic ideas? Email us at jandsexplorers@gmail.comVisit our website at mysecretseduction.com for all episodes, blog entries, and to leave us a voicemail!Connect with us:SLS | SDC | Fetlife | Saints and Sinners | Wicked Fun Club | Club4PlaySearch: JandSExplorersHashtags:#LifestylePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestyleCouple #Ghosting #LifestyleEtiquette #SwingersAdvice #Communication #LifestyleCommunity #SwingersLife #LifestyleEvents #SadieHawkins #CNM #ENM #SexPositive #OpenRelationship #LifestyleTips #SwingersClub #AdultLifestyle #RespectMatters #MySecretSeduction #WickedFunClub #LifestyleParty #ClubLife #HotDate #NoShow #LifestyleRules #SwingersEtiquette #BeARespectfulSwinger #DontGhost Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    26 mins
  • The Hello

    The Hello
    Nov 9 2025
    The Hello - Breaking the Ice in the Lifestyle 🎙️
    Join John and Susan for an honest conversation about one of the most crucial (yet often overlooked) aspects of the lifestyle: simply saying hello! Fresh from hosting a meet and greet in New Jersey, John and Sue break down why that first introduction matters so much—and why some people struggle with it more than others.
    In This Episode:💬 The Power of "Hello": Why the simple act of introducing yourself is the foundation of every connection in the lifestyle—whether it leads to friendship, play, or just a great conversation. Remember: Hello doesn't mean you're entitled to anything; it's just a greeting!🎉 Meet and Greet Mastery: Behind-the-scenes insights from hosting their recent New Jersey event with Passions Playhouse. From the couples who instantly connected to those who stayed frozen in the corner, John and Susan share what they observed and how they helped facilitate introductions.😬 Breaking Through the Awkwardness: Understanding why saying hello can feel intimidating (especially for newbies!) and practical tips for pushing past that initial discomfort. Spoiler: Complimenting someone's shoes works wonders!🤝 Etiquette Matters: The right way to approach couples in the lifestyle, why it's important to greet the man first, and how to avoid coming across as aggressive—especially for single men.💭 No Expectations Rule: Why going into any lifestyle event with zero expectations is key to actually having a good time. Not every hello leads to play, and that's perfectly okay!
    Sexy Storytime:Sue shares the story of their first hotwife party and how one gentleman—we'll call him "C"—did the hello just right. From that initial friendly conversation to their recent fifth meetup (featuring some creative coconut oil usage!), this is a testament to how genuine connection starts with simple respect and good manners.
    Upcoming Events:📅 November 15 - Bucket and Suckin' Cowboy Birthday Bash at Wicked Fun Club📅 November 22 - Sadie Hawkins Party at Wicked Fun Club (ladies, YOU'RE in control!)📅 December 6 - Slumber Party hotel gathering with Passions Playhouse in Fishkill, NY📅 December 13 - Sexy Santa Secret Santa party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 30-31 - IPG New Year's Eve celebration in Scranton, PA
    Get all the details and sign up at mysecretseduction.com - check out the blog, take our podcast survey, and sign up for our newsletter!
    Got questions, comments, or topic ideas? Email us at jandsexplorers@gmail.com - we'd love to hear from you!
    Connect with us:SLS | SDC | Fetlife | Saints and Sinners | Wicked Fun Club | Club4PlaySearch: JandSExplorers
    Hashtags:#LifestylePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestyleCouple #SwingersAdvice #MeetAndGreet #LifestyleEtiquette #NewbieAdvice #LifestyleCommunity #SwingersLife #HotWife #LifestyleEvents #CNM #ENM #SexPositive #OpenRelationship #LifestyleFriendship #CommunicationSkills #MySecretSeduction #WickedFunClub #PassionsPlayhouse #LifestyleTips #SwingersClub #AdultLifestyle #LifestyleConnections #SadieHawkins #HotelTakeover #LifestyleParty #CoconutOil #NoExpectations

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    19 mins
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