• When Holiday Stress Turns Into Something Deeper
    Nov 21 2025

    “Even the smallest moment can open a much bigger story—one we didn’t see coming until we’re already in it.”

    In this intimate, unfiltered conversation, Theresa and Walker explore what happens when a simple exchange becomes something deeper, touching the tender places we don’t always speak aloud. What begins as a moment of misunderstanding unfolds into a vulnerable dialogue about reactivity, emotional safety, family dynamics, and the quiet fears we carry beneath the surface.

    They trace the path from a passing look to a much larger conversation about past hurt, holiday expectations, the pain of estrangement, and the longing to feel understood. It’s a real-time example of how quickly our nervous systems can shift and how compassion, curiosity, and honesty can guide us back to connection when everything feels charged.

    This episode is an invitation to slow down, notice your internal reactions, and stay present when conversations turn in directions you didn’t expect. There is wisdom in the pause, clarity in the reflection, and possibility in the choice to listen inward.

    What you’ll learn:

    → Why seemingly small moments can hold deeper emotional meaning

    → How fear, grief, and past experiences shape our reactions

    → Why clarity helps us name what’s underneath defensiveness

    → How to stay grounded when conversations feel charged

    → What repair looks like when both people feel vulnerable

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    Episode Chapters

    00:00 Holiday stress + the moment everything shifted

    02:00 A look that meant more than it seemed

    06:00 Feeling on edge and trying to name it

    11:00 Boundaries, holidays, and old wounds

    16:00 Abandonment, perfectionism, and inner stories

    22:00 What repair asks of us

    28:00 Fear, tenderness, and choosing compassion

    33:00 How to support someone you love

    44:00 Unexpected openings + emotional honesty

    45:30 Closing reflections

    Topics we explore in this episode include:

    emotional reactivity, unexpected conversations, nervous system awareness, abandonment wounds, relationship repair, holiday stress, compassionate communication, curiosity, vulnerability, inner knowing

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    46 mins
  • Seeing More Clearly with Dr. Brent Metz
    Nov 14 2025

    “Facts are facts. Some things happened or didn’t happen, and when we’re willing to see clearly, we give ourselves the possibility to choose differently.”

    In this conversation, Theresa and Walker sit down with Dr. Brent E. Metz, a sociocultural anthropologist at the University of Kansas, to explore what it truly means to learn, reflect, and view the world—and ourselves—with greater compassion and clarity.

    Dr. Metz shares stories from his early life, his years of fieldwork in Latin America, and the teachers who quietly shaped the course of his life. They talk about the courage it takes to question what you’ve been taught, the power of curiosity, and the unexpected places where wisdom shows up.

    They explore how culture shapes our understanding of intelligence and emotion, why discomfort is often a doorway to growth, and how the next generation is carrying a remarkable sense of ethics, awareness, and possibility. This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen inward, and notice the places where your own knowing is asking for space.

    What you’ll learn:

    → Why reflection helps us make wiser, more grounded decisions

    → How culture shapes our understanding of intelligence, emotion, and success

    → Why humility and curiosity create space for deeper insight

    → How mentors influence our lives in ways we don’t always see

    → Why younger generations offer real hope for the future

    About Dr. Brent Metz

    Our guest is Dr. Brent E. Metz, a sociocultural anthropologist at the University of Kansas and Director of the Center for Latin American & Caribbean Studies. His work bridges long-term field research with the heart of a teacher—guiding first-year students, mentoring study-abroad groups (including Fulbright fieldwork in Guatemala), and helping people see from perspectives beyond their own.

    He shows up for students as whole people, naming what they carry, encouraging curiosity, and modeling reflection, steadiness, and emotional honesty.

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    Episode Chapters

    00:00 Welcome + introducing Dr. Brent Metz

    02:00 Early life, learning, and cultural identity

    11:00 Mentors, teachers, and unexpected wisdom

    18:00 Reflection, emotion, and becoming aware

    26:00 Choosing a path + the cost of commitment

    33:00 Curiosity, worldview shifts, and inner knowing

    44:00 Hope for the next generation

    58:00 Closing reflections + gratitude

    Topics we explore in this episode include:

    wisdom and self-awareness, cultural identity, emotional reflection, learning and curiosity, mentorship, growth across generations, compassion, clarity, inner knowing

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  • Unfolding into the Forest | Reflections from Our First Oregon Retreat
    Nov 7 2025
    “Watching everybody find a little bit more freedom—it’s powerful to see people willing to step in and see themselves more clearly so they can see others more clearly.”In this episode, Theresa and Walker revisit Unfolding into the Forest—their first My Inner Knowing retreat held on the Oregon Coast. What began with a sprained ankle, heavy rain, and last-minute construction became a sacred unfolding of trust, transformation, and connection.They share stories of grounding meditations in moss, energy release practices that brought deep emotional breakthroughs, and the magic of witnessing strangers become family. They explore how nature mirrors healing, how safety invites courage, and how surrender creates space for joy, laughter, and release.What you’ll learn:→ How community, safety, and curiosity create the foundation for healing work→ Why embodiment and energy release are vital tools for emotional freedom→ How nature amplifies self-awareness, trust, and integration→ Why authenticity and compassion guide every My Inner Knowing retreatAbout this episodeTheresa Hubbard and Walker Bird, co-founders of My Inner Knowing, reflect on their first Oregon retreat at C4 Sanctuary, a lakeside property nestled between forest and ocean. Through stories of healing, laughter, and transformation, they reveal the heart behind creating spaces where people can reconnect with their bodies, their breath, and their inner knowing.🎓 Special Holiday Offer: Get 25% off The 10 Essential Skills to Build Stronger and Healthier Relationships course! The discount is automatically applied at checkout.Episode Links & Resources🌿 Explore upcoming retreats🧘 Read the latest blog✨ Mentioned in this episode:💆‍♀️ Wren Quinn | In The Teahouse🪶 Styx, Stones and Bones 🏜️ Sandland Adventures | Florence, Oregon | More than the Oregon DunesConnect with My Inner Knowing📨 Join our newsletter + get a free meditation🔗 Explore our website📱 Follow on Instagram📘 Connect on Facebook💼 Follow on LinkedIn🎧 Listen on Apple PodcastsEpisode Chapters00:00 Welcome + reflections from Oregon02:00 Preparing the retreat space + unexpected challenges07:00 Healing through a sprained ankle + lessons in slowing down11:30 C4 Sanctuary + the magic of the Oregon Coast15:00 Arrival, community, and the first night gathering17:30 Conversations on perfectionism by the fire20:00 Grounding meditations in moss + connecting with nature24:00 Energy release practice + emotional breakthroughs30:00 Holding space for trauma and collective healing33:00 Music, laughter, and spontaneous connection36:00 Closing circle + gratitude for transformation40:00 Looking ahead to future retreats and lessons learnedTopics we explore in this episode include:healing retreats, emotional release, safety in community, embodiment and awareness, nature and spirituality, personal growth, curiosity, compassion, vulnerability, inner knowing
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    49 mins
  • From Vision to Divine Provision with Linda Howard
    Oct 31 2025
    “You can’t just pray about it, you have to be about it.”In this episode, Theresa and Walker sit down with Linda Howard, attorney, compliance leader, and author of From Vision to Divine Provision: The Islamic Art of Sacred Manifestation. Linda shares the seven-step framework that has guided her through decades of professional and personal transformation—rooted in visioning, belief, action, patience, and gratitude.They explore what it means to align ambition with faith, how to trust the timing of your life, and why clarity and intention matter more than hustle. From law and ethics to spirituality and self-discovery, this conversation bridges the practical and the divine, reminding us that integrity and curiosity are inseparable parts of growth.What you’ll learn:→ How Linda’s seven-step manifestation process blends vision, belief, and action→ Why trusting divine timing changes how we approach goals→ How clarity and integrity create alignment between values and outcomesAbout Linda HowardLinda Howard, JD, is a multi-faceted leader with over 35 years of experience spanning law, compliance, diversity, equity, inclusion (DEI), and multicultural competency. She earned her law degree from the University of Pennsylvania Law School and went on to serve as Senior In-House Counsel for Ernst & Young and as Chief Compliance and Impact Officer for major organizations.She currently serves as President of the Board of Directors of the National Wellness Institute (NWI) and Co-Founder of its Multicultural Competency Committee. A respected consultant, author, and speaker, Linda has led organizations through transformational change, advised globally on ethics and equity, and designed NWI’s groundbreaking High-Level Wellness Through Multicultural Competency Certificate program.Through her company, With Linda Howard, she provides advisory services in multicultural competency, DEI, anti-racism, and business ethics—helping organizations build cultures of true inclusion and accountability.Episode Links & ResourcesFrom Vision to Divine Provision by Linda HowardCrescent Over Crossroads by Linda HowardVisit Linda’s websiteExplore the 30-Day Relationship LifelineConnect with My Inner Knowing!Watch the episode on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Full episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for the My Inner Knowing ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and receive a free 30-minute meditation!Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome + conversation with Linda Howard02:15 The inspiration behind From Vision to Divine Provision06:10 The seven-step process of sacred manifestation12:48 ...
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  • What 100 Episodes Have Taught Us | Theresa & Walker Reflect with Mandy Froehlich
    Oct 24 2025
    "Growth is hard, and not growing is hard. Choose your hard."In this special 100th-episode celebration, the tables turn as Theresa and Walker become the guests. Their very first guest, Mandy Froehlich, returns to interview them about what a hundred conversations have revealed—about healing, curiosity, and the courage it takes to stay on the path of self-discovery.They talk about the power of rest, the wisdom in pain, and why staying curious is the foundation of real growth. From personal reflections and therapy breakthroughs to behind-the-scenes lessons from the podcast, this episode is a look at what it means to live, and keep learning, with awareness.What you’ll learn:→ What 100 episodes have taught Theresa and Walker about growth and vulnerability→ How pain and rest shape the process of healing→ Why curiosity remains at the center of transformationAbout Mandy FroehlichMandy Froehlich is an educator, author, and advocate for emotional wellness in leadership. A returning guest and longtime supporter of My Inner Knowing, she joins this milestone conversation to reflect, celebrate, and remind us that self-discovery is never finished—it’s a lifelong experiment in curiosity and courage. Learn more about Mandy.Episode Links & Resources📘 The Unshaming Way by Dr. David Bedrick📘 The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer📘 The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk📘 When the Body Says No by Gabor Maté🌿 Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program🎓 Explore the 30-Day Relationship LifelineConnect with My Inner Knowing!Watch the episode on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Full episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for the My Inner Knowing ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and receive a free 30-minute meditation!Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome + 100th episode introduction03:01 Favorite episodes and moments of growth06:30 Lessons from two years of conversation13:38 Taking breaks and honoring rest19:50 Pain as a catalyst for change24:39 Walker’s health journey and self-discovery36:25 Theresa on parenting and self-compassion44:58 Books that changed their perspective48:00 Most uncomfortable episode moments52:12 Biggest lessons and blind spots01:05:09 What’s ahead for 2026 + closing gratitudeTopics we explore in this episode include:personal growth, self-compassion, emotional healing, vulnerability, nervous system awareness, rest and resilience, inner knowing, relationships and healing, curiosity in growth, purpose and change
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  • The Unshaming Way with Dr. David Bedrick
    Oct 17 2025
    “Maybe our symptoms aren’t mistakes to fix, but messages waiting to be heard.”What if the parts of us we’ve labeled as broken were never problems at all?In this conversation, Dr. David Bedrick joins Theresa and Walker to explore how shame, resistance, and even pain can be invitations into deeper awareness. They talk about the courage it takes to listen to our body’s “no,” the power of staying curious instead of corrective, and how presence becomes a path to healing.Dr. Bedrick shares stories from decades of therapeutic work, including one woman’s profound relationship with her body’s refusal to eat, and how honoring what’s true, rather than forcing change, opens us to compassion, self-trust, and insight. The conversation touches on trauma, embodiment, and the intelligence within our symptoms—and what it really means to unshame the human experience.What you’ll learn:→ Why our symptoms often carry wisdom, not pathology→ How shame disconnects us from our inner knowing→ Practices to listen to the body’s “no” with compassionAbout Dr. David BedrickDr. David Bedrick is the founder of the Santa Fe Institute for Shame-Based Studies, where he teaches therapists, coaches, and healers to approach human struggle through curiosity and compassion. A counselor, teacher, and attorney, he writes for Psychology Today and is the author of The Unshaming Way, praised by Gabor Maté as “a workable, practice-based, and accessible path to divesting ourselves from shame.”Subscribe, share, and leave a review to support the show.📨 ⁠⁠Join our free mini-course on healthy relationships⁠⁠Start the 30-Day Relationship LifelineIf you’re ready to strengthen the way you listen, communicate, and connect in your relationships, start the 30-Day Relationship Lifeline today — a self-paced course designed to help you calm reactivity, deepen listening, and build everyday connection.💛 ⁠Start the course⁠Episode Links & Resources📘 Order The Unshaming Way🌐 Learn more about Dr. Bedrick📖 Read Dr. Bedrick’s articles on Psychology Today📱 Follow Dr. Bedrick on Instagram📘 Connect with Dr. Bedrick on FacebookConnect with My Inner Knowing!Watch the episode on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Full episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for the My Inner Knowing ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and receive a free 30-minute meditation!Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome + introduction to Dr. Bedrick02:20 The story of “no” and inner resistance07:44 How shame hides inside the body12:30 Listening ethically in somatic work18:40 Firewalking, courage, and trust25:15 The body’s wisdom and emotional safety33:10 Learning to hear the intelligence in ...
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  • How Convenience Is Rewiring Our Minds
    Oct 10 2025
    “Scrolling on your phone in the morning or at night sounds like a horrible idea. Horrible.”We live in a world that makes almost everything easy—meals delivered, problems solved with a click, answers at our fingertips. But that ease comes with a cost. Our brains are built for creativity, problem-solving, and connection, yet convenience often keeps them on autopilot.In this conversation, Theresa and Walker talk about how convenience culture shapes our attention, energy, and even our emotional health. They share what happens when our minds stop being challenged, why scrolling feels comforting but leaves us dull, and how they’re experimenting with simple changes—like keeping their phones outside the bedroom—to bring back curiosity and real rest.It’s a thoughtful look at what we trade when we trade effort for ease and how reclaiming small, intentional habits can wake us up again.What you’ll learn:→ Why bedtime scrolling can disrupt sleep and mood→ How convenience culture weakens curiosity and creativity→ Ways to bring more presence and imagination back into daily life→ Why awareness matters more than discipline when changing habitsSubscribe, share, and leave a review to support the show.📨 ⁠Join our free mini-course on healthy relationships⁠Start the 30-Day Relationship LifelineIf you’re ready to strengthen the way you listen, communicate, and connect in your relationships, start the 30-Day Relationship Lifeline today — a self-paced course designed to help you calm reactivity, deepen listening, and build everyday connection.💛 Start the courseEpisode Links & Resources📺 Watch our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube series⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with My Inner Knowing!Watch the episode on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Full episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for the My Inner Knowing ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and receive a free 30-minute meditation!Episode Chapters00:00 The question: Is convenience good for us?05:00 How our brains learn through practice and effort08:40 Imagination vs consumption16:30 Why scrolling feels soothing—but isn’t19:40 Restoring your brain before bed22:10 The experiment: Phones outside the bedroom26:00 Recognizing subtle dopamine patterns33:40 Curating your feed with awareness36:30 Reclaiming attention and community42:30 Learning your body’s needs again46:00 What convenience costs—and what it givesTopics we explore in this episode include: attention and awareness, convenience culture, digital mindfulness, nervous system regulation, sleep and technology, curiosity and creativity, conscious habits, community connection, mindful living
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    48 mins
  • The Freedom of Being Disliked
    Oct 3 2025
    “There is freedom in being able to be disliked, but I put effort into not being careless with it.”Most of us long to be liked, but that desire sometimes keeps us quiet, reactive, or people-pleasing. What if the path to freedom lies in speaking with integrity, even when it means being disliked?In this conversation, Theresa and Walker explore the tension between people-pleasing and presence, why abandonment fears often fuel silence, and how practicing honesty with kindness can reshape our relationships. They share vulnerable personal stories—from navigating client feedback to family disagreements, and even the moment of saying goodbye to their beloved dog—that reveal how self-trust, curiosity, and compassion guide us through the discomfort of not being liked.What you’ll learn:→ Why the fear of being disliked is often rooted in abandonment and nervous system patterns→ How to distinguish between reactivity and integrity in communication→ Ways to practice having a voice with kindness, responsibility, and careWalker and Theresa bring decades of professional and personal experience into this conversation, offering insight into how presence, maturity, and self-love help us reclaim our voices without falling into aggression or avoidance.Subscribe, share, and leave a review to support the show.📨 Join our free mini-course on healthy relationshipsEpisode Links & Resources💌 Start the ⁠⁠⁠⁠free mini-course⁠⁠⁠⁠📺 Watch our ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube series⁠⁠⁠⁠→ The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz→ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Read The Depression Cure by Dr. Stephen Ilardi⁠⁠Connect with My Inner Knowing!Watch the episode on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Full episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for the My Inner Knowing ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and receive a free 30-minute meditation!Episode Chapters00:00 What freedom in being disliked really means03:20 Speaking truth as a lawyer and beyond07:00 Integrity, hesitation, and finding your voice14:59 Online comments and “what about me” reactions23:38 When clients or friends don’t like you33:00 Walker’s story of Hughie and protecting a loved one42:00 Practicing honesty in vulnerable spaces50:00 Choosing responsibility over people-pleasingTopics we explore in this episode include: freedom of being disliked, people-pleasing and abandonment, nervous system patterns, compassionate boundaries, integrity in communication, practicing honesty, curiosity in conflict, resilience in relationships
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    57 mins