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Ever been told “I need space”—but your phone still lights up with requests for rides, food, money, or favors? This episode breaks down one of the most confusing and exhausting relationship gray zones: when boundaries get announced, but benefits never stop.

Using a listener’s letter, we expose the core truth most people avoid—space requires distance, but perks require access. You can’t have both without creating a one-sided deal that drains the person who keeps giving. If someone asks for space but still leans on your time, wallet, or car, you’re not in a healthy pause—you’re in convenience mode.

We walk through the clearest red flags that tell you this isn’t about reflection or healing:

• You’re still on call when they need something
• Your generosity is treated like an obligation
• The emotional door is closed, but the benefits stay open

This episode gives you a simple, respectful boundary reset that works fast: match your actions to the boundary that was requested. When someone asks for space, honor it fully. No rides. No cash. No late-night food runs. Not out of anger—but out of self-respect and clarity. That single move reveals intentions quickly and stops resentment before it builds.

You’ll learn how to communicate the boundary calmly, why mixed signals create unhealthy patterns, and how to reset your standards so generosity doesn’t turn into self-betrayal. If reconnection is real, it will happen honestly. If not, you’ll walk away with your dignity—and your resources—intact.

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