• Antonio Brown’s Journey from Poverty to Purpose
    Sep 17 2025

    In this episode of My Cotton Patch Moment, I sit down with Antonio Brown, entrepreneur, activist, and the first LGBTQ person of color elected to Atlanta’s City Council. From growing up with parents cycling in and out of prison to dropping out of high school at 15 to support his siblings, Antonio’s story is a testament to resilience, faith, and the power of possibility.

    He opens up about surviving childhood trauma, carrying adult responsibilities far too young, and transforming pain into purpose. Antonio went on to build a nationally recognized fashion brand, raise millions in investment, and step into political leadership—using his platform to champion equity and justice for marginalized communities.

    This conversation dives deep into the intersections of poverty, incarceration, identity, entrepreneurship, and public service, offering lessons in grit, faith, and self-belief.

    Three Key Takeaways

    • Resilience Through Adversity

    Antonio’s early years—marked by incarceration, abuse, and poverty—shaped his drive to overcome obstacles and refuse the label of “statistic.”

    • Faith as a Foundation

    He shares how faith, even as small as a mustard seed, fueled his determination to build businesses, uplift communities, and keep going when the odds were stacked against him.

    • From Survivor to Trailblazer

    Antonio’s journey from Kroger bagger to fashion brand founder, and ultimately to City Council, illustrates how lived experience can be transformed into leadership and advocacy.

    Why Listen

    If you care about justice reform, breaking cycles of generational hardship, LGBTQ leadership, or the power of faith and perseverance, this episode will move and inspire you. Antonio’s life proves that no matter your beginnings, you can rise to leadership and create lasting impact.

    Find Antonio Brown in these places:

    Website: https://www.stirhouse.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stirhouseatlanta/

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" and when her new book, The Hope Club, publishes here.

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    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    29 mins
  • From Prison Bars to Power: Robyn Hasan-Simpson's Rise to Lead and Liberate
    Sep 3 2025

    In this episode of My Cotton Patch Moment, I sat down with Robyn Hasan-Simpson, Executive Director of Women on the Rise GA and co-founder of HOAPE (Helping Others Achieve Power and Equity). From serving 10 years in prison to becoming a leading voice for criminal justice reform, re-entry advocacy, and women’s empowerment, Robyn shares her powerful journey of resilience, faith, and leadership.

    She opens up about the emotional toll of incarceration, raising her daughter from behind prison walls, and how she turned her sentence into a mission to uplift women inside and fighting for systemic change outside. From launching a prison newsletter to co-authoring laws that protect survivors of domestic violence, Robyn embodies what it means to rise, lead, and liberate.

    This conversation dives deep into the intersection of mass incarceration, motherhood, re-entry, faith, and advocacy, offering both personal truth and actionable hope.

    Three Key Takeaways

    1. Resilience is Revolutionary

      Robyn’s story proves that even in the most dehumanizing systems, purpose and community can blossom. Her leadership began behind bars—helping women earn GEDs, creating a newsletter, and mentoring others.

    2. Motherhood and Incarceration

      Robyn reflects on raising her daughter from a distance, the painful role shift from “mother” to “sister,” and how honesty and open communication kept their bond alive.

    3. Advocacy Creates Change

      Today, through Women on the Rise GA and HOAPE, Robyn is reshaping laws, addressing mass incarceration in Georgia, and restoring voting rights for thousands of formerly incarcerated citizens. Her work is a testament that storytelling and advocacy can transform entire communities.

    Why Listen

    If you care about justice reform, women’s empowerment, faith through struggle, or the healing power of storytelling, this episode will inspire and challenge you. Robyn’s rise from prison bars to national leadership is proof that redemption and resilience are possible—and necessary—for building a more just society.

    Find Robyn Hasan-Simpson in these places:

    Women on the Rise GA: https://www.womenontherisega.org/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenontherisega/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/women-on-the-rise-ga/

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" and when her new book, The Hope Club, publishes here.

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    If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

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    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    33 mins
  • Unshackled: Amy Ard’s Fight for Incarcerated Mothers and Their Children
    Aug 20 2025

    In this episode of My Cotton Patch Moment, I sit down with Amy Ard, the executive director of Motherhood Beyond Bars. This organization is rewriting the narrative for incarcerated mothers, their children, and caregivers. Amy’s journey into this work began with one unforgettable—and heartbreaking—moment: witnessing a woman give birth while shackled to a hospital bed. That image sparked a mission that would change laws, build support networks, and offer real hope to families facing unthinkable challenges.

    Amy shares how Motherhood Beyond Bars provides holistic family support, from childbirth education inside prisons to supplying diapers for caregivers on the outside. We talk about the reality that every baby in their program is born with two adverse childhood experiences (ACEs): an incarcerated parent and separation from their primary caregiver within days of birth. Through advocacy, education, and direct aid, her team works to preserve and strengthen those fragile parent-child bonds.

    We also explore Amy’s wish list for systemic change, which starts with diverting mothers from prison into treatment—addressing the root causes of incarceration, such as trauma and substance use disorders, rather than simply punishing. From anti-shackling legislation in Georgia to groundbreaking research with Harvard on the impact of incarceration on infants, Amy’s story is a testament to the power of action, compassion, and relentless advocacy.

    This conversation will open your eyes to the hidden ripple effects of imprisonment—and inspire you to see justice not as punishment, but as restoration.

    Three Key Takeaways:

    1. Justice Must Be Restorative: We need alternatives to incarceration for mothers, especially when root causes like trauma and addiction go unaddressed.

    2. Connection Is Survival: Maintaining the bond between incarcerated mothers and their children is essential for breaking generational cycles of incarceration.

    3. Support Changes Outcomes: From diapers to legal advocacy, targeted support can stabilize families and protect children from lifelong trauma.

    Find Amy Ard in these places:

    Motherhood Behind Bars

    Website: https://www.motherhoodbeyond.org/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/motherhoodbeyondbars/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motherhoodbeyondbars/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@motherhoodbeyondbars3544

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" and when her new book, The Hope Club, publishes here.

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    If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

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    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    30 mins
  • Missing Mama: The Toll of Maternal Incarceration
    Aug 6 2025
    Welcome to Season Four of My Cotton Patch Moment. I’ve spent the summer reflecting deeply—on healing, justice, and the stories we rarely tell. Inspired by Nelson Mandela’s quote about knowing a nation through its prisons, I knew I had to begin this new season with the voices and stories that are too often ignored: the children of incarcerated mothers. This episode is one of the most personal and powerful I’ve ever shared. As I worked on my upcoming children’s book, The Hope Club, I kept thinking about the ripple effects of parental incarceration—especially when it’s Mama who is missing. What happens when the woman who sings lullabies and packs lunches is suddenly gone? The silence that follows isn’t just emotional—it’s structural, societal, and generational. In this episode, I introduce you to children like Adam and Ava—bright, imaginative three-year-old twins who had their world turned upside down when their mother was arrested for trying to steal diapers and formula. They didn’t understand sentencing; they only knew no one was there to kiss them goodnight. We’ll also look at the staggering truth: over 150,000 women are incarcerated in the United States, and nearly 80% of them are mothers—many of whom were the primary caregivers when they were arrested. Most are in prison for nonviolent offenses tied to poverty, addiction, trauma, or survival. This episode is my Cotton Patch moment. I don’t just want to inform—I want to invite you into reflection and action. I believe we must redefine justice—not simply as punishment, but as restoration. We must stop treating these women as disposable and start recognizing their need for healing, support, and dignity. And we must hold space for their children—because they deserve stability, connection, and love. This season, we’ll hear from counselors, nonprofit leaders, family court judges, and the people who have been behind the bars. We’ll explore trauma, resilience, and the sacred work of storytelling. Whether you’re walking this journey yourself or standing beside someone who is, this space is for you. Three key takeaways from this powerful beginning: 1. Justice Should Be Restorative, Not Just Punitive: Incarcerated mothers are often survivors themselves. They don’t need more punishment—they need paths to healing, rehabilitation, and reconnection. 2. Children Deserve More Than Silence: Kids don’t wait for justice—they wait for their mama. We must advocate for policies and practices that keep families connected and supported. 3. We All Have a Role in This Work: From making visits possible to supporting reentry programs, each of us can make a difference. Let’s stop letting children fall through the cracks and start building bridges of hope. If today’s episode touched your heart, I invite you to share it, rate it, and subscribe. And always remember: Just because you were born in the cotton patch doesn’t mean you have to stay there. 📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖 This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years. You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" here. 📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖 If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces: Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook X Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word. The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.
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    11 mins
  • Season 4 Trailer
    Jul 16 2025

    In Season Four of My Cotton Patch Moment, host Mildred J. Mills returns with a powerful new arc exploring the ripple effects of parental absence. What happens when a mother or father is no longer home? How do families rebuild? Where does healing begin?

    This season honors the voices of survivors and lifts the veil on stories once buried in silence. From childhood wounds to generational scars, each episode reveals a map of resilience, hope, and the ongoing journey toward healing.

    ✨ What to Expect This Season:

    • Stories of trauma transformed into purpose

    • Conversations on family separation and emotional resilience

    • Reflections on childhood, legacy, and loss

    • Tools for healing across generations

    Whether you're navigating your own journey or supporting someone who is, this podcast offers space to listen with your soul.

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    Mildred recently completed her manuscript, a memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots." You can be the first one to know when it is available for purchase by following her here.

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    If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

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    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from royalty free music from Epidemic Sound. The intro and outro music is called We Win (More than Able) by AFTR . Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    3 mins
  • Summer Special: For My Anniversary - He Showed Who He Was Replay
    Jul 2 2025

    In honor of my anniversary, I am re-sharing one of my favorite episodes dedicated to my husband, Darryl Mills. The episode is He Showed Me Who He Was! This was episode 3 of Season 1.

    Thank you Darryl for your support and your encouragement. Your love changed my life.

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" here.

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    If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

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    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    18 mins
  • Father's Day Special: Things My Father Taught Me
    Jun 11 2025

    In honor of Father's Day, I am re-sharing one of my favorite episodes dedicated to my Daddy: Things My Father Taught Me! This was episode 8 of Season 1.

    If your father or the man who raised you is still alive, this episode is a reminder to tell him that you love him and you appreciate all the things he taught you.

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" here.

    📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖

    If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

    Website

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    X

    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    18 mins
  • Mother's Day Special: Things I'm Glad I Asked My Mama!
    May 11 2025

    In honor of Mother's Day, I am re-sharing one of my favorite episodes dedicated to my Mama: Things I'm Glad I Asked My Mama! This was episode 5 of Season 1.

    If your mother or the woman who raised you is still alive, this episode is a reminder to talk to her and let her share her stories with you. Pull out your phone and record her sharing these moments. They will be cherished memories when she is gone.

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    This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father’s farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

    You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy’s House: A Daughter’s Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" here.

    📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖

    If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

    Website

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    Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

    The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.

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    18 mins