Episodes

  • Cyndi Freeman: Leadership, Engagement & Lifetime Lessons
    Feb 5 2026

    Kurt invites his first conduct supervisor, Cyndi Freeman, to reflect on her journey and philosophy in student conduct and engagement. They discuss memorable discipline cases, the importance of educational outcomes, and the role of mentorship in shaping future conduct officers. They note the significance and long-lasting impact of safe spaces for dialogue for all. Cyndi talks about the relevance of popular culture in education and the imperative of modeling a civil community for students. **NOTE** Don't forget, Colette and Kurt will be at ASCA next week giving out Ms. Behavior swag. If you won't make it to the conference, use our Fan Mail link to text us, and we might just surprise you!

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    Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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    47 mins
  • The Day the Hate Group Came to Campus
    Jan 29 2026

    Colette and Kurt engage in a deep conversation with Emily, a student conduct and care professional, about her experiences managing a crisis on campus involving a hate group. They discuss the importance of community communication, the emotional toll of such events, and the strategies for processing and coping with the aftermath. Emily shares insights on the significance of being present, maintaining a focus on our institutional values, and the necessity of self-care in the face of adversity. The conversation highlights the challenges and responsibilities of those in higher education to honor First Amendment rights while also fostering a safe and learning-centered environment for all students.

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    Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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    43 mins
  • ASCA, ICE, TIX and Our Acronym-Related Dilemmas
    Jan 22 2026

    In this episode of "Ms. Behavior," Colette Shaw and Kurt Doan dive into the complexities of attending the National ASCA Conference in Washington, DC. They discuss the excitement of reconnecting with Association of Student Conduct Administrator colleagues, the challenges of navigating ICE-related concerns, and the importance of activism and dialogue in today's educational landscape. Join them as they explore the intersection of personal convictions, institutional policies, and the ever-evolving role of student conduct professionals.

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    Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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    39 mins
  • New Year's Resolutions, Hobbies and Pop Culture Conduct Inspirations
    Jan 15 2026

    Former college deans Colette and Kurt reflect on their New Year experiences, discuss personal resolutions, and delve into the themes of the show 'Pluribus.' They explore the importance of hobbies and personal interests in maintaining mental health and well-being, particularly in the context of their roles in college administration. The conversation wraps up with a look ahead to the new semester and the excitement of engaging with students.

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    Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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    21 mins
  • Processing the Brown Shooting: Looking for Community in Chaos
    Dec 16 2025

    Ms. Behavior hosts Kurt and Colette discuss the recent tragic shooting at Brown University and its implications for campus safety and community. They explore the challenges of communication during crises, the desensitization of students to violence, and the importance of mental health support. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive leadership and self-care in the wake of such events, highlighting the role of community in fostering resilience and support among students and staff.

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    23 mins
  • Conduct Lessons from Abroad: Kiwi RJ, Campus Complicity and Guns
    Dec 11 2025

    Co-host Colette spent multiple weeks in New Zealand this semester and found educational takeaways in the most interesting places. Lessons from Kiwi universities, government and historical tours were just the start. As New Zealand grapples with decisions about arming security, Kurt and Colette reflected on gun culture on US campuses.

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    41 mins
  • Yoanna Lee: From Conduct Violation to Conduct Vocation
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode of Ms. Behavior, Yoanna Lee shares her journey as a student navigating the complexities of student conduct at college. From her personal experiences with consequences for her actions to her role on the conduct committee, Yoanna emphasizes the importance of empathy, transparency, and the human side of disciplinary processes. She reflects on how her experiences have shaped her perspective on accountability and the benefits of a more compassionate approach to student conduct.

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    44 mins
  • Thanksgiving 2025: Families, Spankings and Gratitude
    Nov 20 2025

    In anticipation of the holiday, Kurt and Colette reflect on supportive colleagues and family members. In reflecting on their lives as the children of educators, Kurt shares a personal experience from his school days, reflecting on the dynamics of authority between teachers and students. He discusses the impact of a teacher's threat to inform his father about his behavior, highlighting the emotional weight such interactions can carry for young students.

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    Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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    39 mins