Episodes

  • The Insecure Man Fund

    The Insecure Man Fund
    Jan 20 2026

    Chesko and Regan dive into a Reddit "Am I the Asshole" post about financial deception in marriage. They discuss financial abuse, manipulation, entitlement in relationships, and why this husband's behavior is a major betrayal of trust.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • You're Not Like Other Girls (You Let Me Treat You Like Shit)

    You're Not Like Other Girls (You Let Me Treat You Like Shit)
    Dec 16 2025
    In today's episode, Chesko and Reagan eventually get to the main segment that tackles a viral thread asking: "What do men think is attractive but actually gives women the ick?" From "I'm not political" Tinder profiles to unsolicited hunting trophy photos, loud car exhausts, and bragging about fighting prowess, they dissect why these masculine displays consistently miss the mark. Along the way, they share personal stories about family dynamics, childhood rebellion, and why saying "you're not like other girls" is actually a massive red flag.

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    Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • "Where Are the Diapers?" A Love Story

    "Where Are the Diapers?" A Love Story
    Nov 24 2025
    Regan and Chesko tackle the frustrating trend of men who weaponize incompetence in their relationships, and worse, convince their partners to find it endearing. They break down a viral podcast clip where men suggest moms "secretly hope" the house falls apart when they leave, exposing how this narrative justifies incompetent parenting while shifting focus from men's failures to women's reactions. They discuss real examples of fathers who can't handle basic childcare for a few days, the manipulative patterns that make women defend objectively bad behavior, and why being appreciated shouldn't require watching everything fall apart.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • "I'm Not Racist, But My Group Chat Is"

    "I'm Not Racist, But My Group Chat Is"
    Nov 3 2025
    Regan and Chesko dive into the disturbing world of men's private group chats after young Republicans' racist messages leaked online. They discuss why so many guys are suddenly admitting their own group chats would look "pretty bad" if exposed, and what that reveals about toxic masculinity in isolated spaces. The hosts break down a cringe-worthy clip from the Whatever podcast where a guest confidently shares his sexist and racist views about female pilots and mechanics, sparking a larger conversation about microaggressions, performative allyship, and the obsession with being seen as "good" rather than actually doing good.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • The Episode Where Chesko Becomes a Crypto Bro

    The Episode Where Chesko Becomes a Crypto Bro
    Oct 27 2025
    This week, Chesko and Regan tackle what happens when a comedian calls someone out on stage. Was it funny or did it cross a line? Along the way, expect plenty of tangents (so many tangents), from fake radio show phone calls to crypto confessions, and more.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Last Minute Cruise, Long Term Consequences

    Last Minute Cruise, Long Term Consequences
    Oct 20 2025
    Chesko and Regan dissect a viral story about a husband who claims his dad spontaneously gave him three cruise tickets on his birthday, leaving his wife to handle their four kids and her job while he jets off to Mexico for five days. They debate whether the "surprise" cruise was actually planned in advance, discuss the logistics of last-minute cruise bookings, and explore broader relationship red flags including lying, manipulation, and the importance of communication in partnerships. They also touch on narcissistic behavior patterns, the influence of manosphere content on modern relationships, and why respecting your partner's feelings should be non-negotiable (even about seemingly small things).

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • I Bought Flowers Once and Now I Hate Women

    I Bought Flowers Once and Now I Hate Women
    Oct 13 2025
    Chesko and Regan unpack a comment from a guy who swore off buying flowers for women after one bad experience, exploring why some men treat rejection as proof that "all women are evil." They discuss toxic dating advice, the pressure to perform rather than connect authentically, collective illusions about dating, and why vulnerability is essential for real relationships. They share personal stories about being broke in relationships, misreading romantic signals, and why treating women as individuals (not a monolith) actually leads to finding love.

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    57 mins
  • Giving Your Girlfriend A Curfew (And Other Red Flags)

    Giving Your Girlfriend A Curfew (And Other Red Flags)
    Oct 8 2025
    In this episode, Chesko and Reagan dive into the problematic world of men who confuse boundaries with control. They break down a viral video of a self-proclaimed "six-foot-five millionaire" who gives his girlfriend a curfew and compares her to his Lamborghini, sparking a larger conversation about financial abuse, manipulation, and how some men use wealth as a weapon in relationships. The hosts also discuss NBA player Michael Porter Jr.'s story of weaponizing a lease agreement against his ex, and explore why these men set up rules designed to be broken so they can justify their controlling behavior.

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    57 mins