When you’ve been the target of a narcissistic smear campaign, the urge to defend yourself can feel unbearable.

You want to explain, correct the record, and be believed. But here’s the truth: healing after narcissistic abuse isn’t about proving your innocence. it’s about reclaiming your peace.

In this episode of Mother Mayhem, we unpack what happens when daughters are scapegoated, misunderstood, or cut off after setting boundaries with a narcissistic or emotionally limited parent.

We talk about how to stay grounded in your truth without getting pulled back into the family system’s chaos You’ll learn:

Why smear campaigns happen and how they exploit fear, loyalty, and the need for belonging.

What to do when you’re misrepresented by a narcissistic mother, father, or sibling.

The difference between silence and suppression and how to know which serves your healing.

How to decide who has earned your vulnerability (and who hasn’t).

Ways to stay regulated when others spread lies or twist your story.

How to rebuild safety, self-trust, and peace after family estrangement or going no contact.

This is real talk for daughters who are ready to stop defending themselves and start living their truth

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What happens when you’ve survived the chaos but still don’t feel safe inside your own skin?

In this episode of Mother Mayhem, we unpack what it really means to reclaim safety, power, and self-trust after trauma, especially after growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally limited mother.

You’ll learn:

*Why your nervous system still scans for danger even when life is calm.

*How to tell the difference between trauma brain and wise mind.

*What integration actually looks like: when your body starts to believe what your wise mind already knows.

*How boundaries protect your peace (and why pushback means they’re working).

*Practical steps for rebuilding self-trust when control used to equal safety.
This is a look at the messy middle of healing, that in-between stage where trauma isn’t running the show anymore but it’s still backstage waiting for its cue.

If you’ve ever wondered why peace feels uncomfortable, why your body doesn’t believe your progress, or how to feel safe in your own story again, this episode is for you.

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Sometimes it isn’t about trauma brain or nervous system talk. Sometimes it’s just about life being messy and complicated and still leaving you asking, what the hell am I supposed to do with this?

In this episode, I answer two big questions from a daughter:

Trust after rupture: What do you do when someone you love, someone you thought was safe, lashes out, apologizes, and takes responsibility…but you’re still hurt and not sure where to put it? We talk about what it means when trust gets shaken in relationships, how to stop pretending everything’s “fine,” and why real healing comes from honest conversations, not band-aids.

Self-doubt at work: What happens when you’re offered a leadership opportunity you’ve always wanted but instead of celebrating, you’re stuck in fear of messing it up, losing respect, or not being “ready”? I share the real talk about stepping into leadership, owning your power, and saying yes to more without waiting to feel 100% confident first.

If you’ve ever struggled with rebuilding trust, navigating self-doubt, or stepping into leadership while carrying the wounds of being a daughter of a narcissistic or emotionally limited mother, we’ve got you covered today.

You’ll walk away with:

-Clarity on why ruptures in close relationships matter (and what to do about them).-Practical ways to rebuild trust without gaslighting yourself.-Real talk on how to step into leadership even when fear and insecurity show up.-Encouragement to stop waiting to feel “ready” and start saying yes to the life you want.

Because sometimes it’s not trauma. It’s just life. And you still deserve to know what to do next.

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