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More Than an Inmate’s Girlfriend

More Than an Inmate’s Girlfriend

By: Jae Ely
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Host Jae shares the real, raw side of loving someone behind bars—like Nicholas Ely, serving a life sentence for a crime he didn’t commit. With co-host AJ popping in to offer insight, they explore prison relationships, stigma, penpals, extortion, and justice reform. Hear exclusive interviews with incarcerated individuals and their loved ones. Whether you're just curious or living this life yourself, More Than an Inmate’s Girlfriend is a judgment-free space for truth, love, and advocacy. New episodes weekly.Jae Ely Relationships Social Sciences
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  • The Canadian Prison Wife's Perspective- Kelsey's Story
    Oct 30 2025

    This week, we’re crossing the border—north of the border—to hear a story that’s both familiar and completely different. Kelsey, a Canadian woman who married her husband while he was incarcerated, joins us to share her journey of love, loyalty, and learning what it really means to be a “prison wife” in Canada.

    From how they met to navigating marriage inside a correctional institution, Kelsey opens up about the unique realities of Canada’s prison system—regular visits, conjugal visits, policies, and other differences from the American system. She also reflects on how her family and friends reacted, what support looks like on the outside, and how love can survive and thrive despite the walls.

    Next month, we’ll be joined by her husband himself, who will shed more light on life inside a Canadian institution and why reintegration—and real change—seem more possible there.


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    Follow Jae's husband Nicholas Ely on Facebook "⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠More Than An Inmate⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠" or the Facebook group "⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠End Felony Murder Rule in Nebraska⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"


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    43 mins
  • Sentenced To 241 Years and Free Today- The Bobby Bostic Story
    Oct 23 2025

    At just sixteen, Bobby Bostic was sentenced to 241 years in prison for crimes committed as a teenager—told by a judge that he would die behind bars. But Bobby refused to let that sentence define him. From within the Missouri prison system, he devoted himself to education, personal growth, and writing, publishing multiple books that reached beyond the walls meant to contain him.


    In this episode, Jae sits down with Bobby to talk about how he transformed pain into purpose, how his discipline and faith led to legislative change in Missouri, and what it felt like to finally walk free after twenty-seven years. Together, they explore the meaning of redemption, the power of words, and how one man’s determination rewrote not only his own future—but the law itself.


    My interview with Mansa Musa on The Real News Network

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    Follow Jae's husband Nicholas Ely on Facebook "⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠More Than An Inmate⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠" or the Facebook group "⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠End Felony Murder Rule in Nebraska⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"


    Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BestSelf Publications⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to purchase books by incarcerated authors and help in supporting their rehabilitation.


    Our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠

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    50 mins
  • Guilty Until Proven Innocent- The Day Claire's Love Story Changed Forever
    Oct 16 2025

    Claire thought she was meeting someone new when she was set up on a blind date — until she realized years later (and a wedding ring), Jake, was the same man she’d met briefly a decade earlier at a college bar, the “beautiful stranger” he never stopped talking about. Their love story came full circle: they built a life together, bought a home, and dreamed of their future.


    But one tragic day changed everything. When Jake went to collect his belongings from his ex’s house, Claire got the call no one ever wants — he’d been shot. What followed was a nightmare: confusion, misinformation, and media headlines that painted Jake as a criminal instead of a victim.


    Now, as he faces charges for trying to enter his own home, Claire speaks out about how the system — and the public — often treat people with a record as guilty until proven innocent. She shares how damaging false narratives spread online, how judgment replaces truth, and why justice should begin with facts, not assumptions.


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    Follow Jae's husband Nicholas Ely on Facebook "⁠⁠⁠⁠More Than An Inmate⁠⁠⁠⁠" or the Facebook group "⁠⁠⁠⁠End Felony Murder Rule in Nebraska⁠⁠⁠⁠"


    Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BestSelf Publications⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to purchase books by incarcerated authors and help in supporting their rehabilitation.


    Our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠

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    51 mins
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