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Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

By: Ramit Sethi
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Get Ramit's new book, Money for Couples at iwt.com/moneyforcouples. From Ramit Sethi, host of Netflix’s ‘How to Get Rich’ and author of NYT bestselling books, ‘I Will Teach You To Be Rich,’ and ‘Money for Couples’… Imagine listening in on raw, unfiltered conversations with real couples, to explore how money psychology affects their everyday lives. Ramit talks with couples from all walks of life, helping them to get past guilt, resentment, & fighting over purchases, to help them create a shared vision for their Rich Life. Ramit asks the questions we wish we all could ask, presenting a new philosophy on money: spend extravagantly on the things you love, and cut costs mercilessly on the things you don’t. Follow Money For Couples on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and X to start living your rich life today. In Money for Couples, Ramit delves into the often-hidden dynamics around money issues in marriage, which can be some of the biggest challenges couples face. Money psychology impacts everything from everyday decisions to long-term dreams, and Ramit's finance coaching sessions with couples offer an eye-opening look into the deeper emotions behind financial choices. Whether you're wondering how to save for a big goal, how to invest in a shared future, or simply looking to understand personal finance in a relationship better, this podcast delivers practical, actionable insights. Each conversation reveals that money in marriage isn't just about numbers—it's about values, trust, and working together toward a Rich Life that's unique to each couple. Ramit provides a safe space for couples to unpack the beliefs and habits that may hold them back financially, guiding them toward a shared vision for their lives. With humor and empathy, Ramit's finance coaching shows couples that they can learn to save and spend in ways that enhance, rather than hinder, their relationship. Money for Couples is not only a finance podcast but a journey into what makes a marriage strong, financially and emotionally. Through the lens of personal finance, Ramit provides a blueprint for couples to navigate the challenges of managing money together, offering tools to make confident, aligned choices. So, whether you're a fan of the Ramit Sethi podcast or new to his philosophy, tune in and learn how to save, how to invest, and how to create a financial future with the person you love. Ramit's unique approach to money psychology helps couples overcome common money issues in marriage, from guilt and resentment over purchases to aligning on long-term financial goals. By exploring real couples' stories, Ramit offers insights into how money mindset affects everyday decisions and bigger life dreams. His finance coaching provides couples with a safe space to unpack their beliefs and habits around spending, saving, and investing. Rather than focusing solely on the numbers, Ramit emphasizes the importance of values, trust, and working together toward a shared vision for a Rich Life. Couples will learn practical strategies for managing money as a team, from saving for big purchases to building investment portfolios. Ramit's philosophy of "spend extravagantly on the things you love, and cut costs mercilessly on the things you don't" empowers listeners to make financial choices that enhance their relationship. Money for Couples is an essential listen for any married or committed pair looking to improve their personal finance skills and deepen their emotional connection. Ramit's finance coaching and the real-life stories of the couples he features offer a blueprint for navigating the challenges of money in marriage. Whether you're a long-time listener of Ramit's work or new to his approach, this podcast will transform how you think about spending, saving, and investing as a couple.c0c586c0-d600-11f0-806a-8f7132ddc1c5 Economics Personal Finance Relationships Social Sciences
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  • 270. “We’re sacrificing our retirement to pay for our kids’ college”
    Jul 21 2026
    Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Mia and Jake, a couple in their late 30s and early 40s in a blended family with three children. Mia wrote in because she’s afraid paying for their children’s college will cause resentment in their relationship. With no idea how much they are spending, why, or what they truly want their money to do for them, Ramit helps them uncover the root of their money woes. Will they finally get on the same page, create a financial system that works, and feel confident making money decisions together? In this episode we uncover: • How financial discussions lead to frustration and anxiety • The surprising cost of their previous “dream” home • Why they sold their house and downsized • The connection between “feeling” and making financial decisions • How money scarcity is fueling guilt and fear • Why Jake doesn’t understand how to make his money work for him • A deep dive into Mia's family money rules • Why Jake was afraid to talk about money • How their pension influences their financial outlook • The hidden costs of everyday living • Why just “cutting costs” isn’t a long-term solution • The powerful connection between clarity and confidence Chapters: (00:00:00) Introduction (00:02:54) “I feel resentment from my husband because our money supports my kids” (00:08:00) Mia and Jake’s money conversations (00:10:28) Mia and Jake bought a huge house they couldn’t afford (00:13:38) Moving on from the house-broke mistake (00:23:23) Mia’s old budget felt like “paper pushing” (00:38:43) Why does Mia feel scared about money? (00:41:39) Adjusting their fixed costs (00:48:43) Why cutting costs is easy for Mia and Jake (00:50:33) Their pension: a financial safety net (01:03:03) Trading anxiety for guilt (01:06:35) Jake’s money messages (01:07:54) What is your rich life vision? (01:13:40) Mia and Jake’s money system (01:25:10) Building Jake’s confidence with money (01:32:20) How Mia and Jake feel about their money now (01:35:22) Mia and Jake’s next steps This episode is brought to you by: Leesa | Go to https://leesa.com for 25% off mattresses PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code RAMIT, exclusive for my listeners Trust & Will | Protect what matters most in minutes at https://trustandwill.com/ramit and get 20% off Gelt | Gelt is taking on new clients now. Find out if you qualify at https://joingelt.com/ramit Facet | As of the date of this recording, Facet is waiving the enrollment fee for new annual members, and for my audience, Facet is offering $300 into your brokerage account if you invest and maintain $5,000 within your first 90 days. Head to facet.com/ramit to learn more about which membership option is best for you. Offer has been extended to 12/31/2026. #FacetAd If you’re part of a small group listening to this podcast that is willing to take action, I built Road to $100K for you - a step-by-step program on how to reach $100K. Join Rich Life: Road to $100K at iwt.com/100K. Connect with Ramit • Get my new book, Money For Couples • Join my Rich Life: Road to $100K program • Download the Conscious Spending Plan • Listen to my book—now on Audible • Get my New York Times best-selling book • Get my no-numbers journal • Other episodes • Instagram • Twitter • YouTube Apply to be coached for free on this podcast at https://iwt.com/apply
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    1 hr and 39 mins
  • 269. "I want to retire, but my wife is too scared"
    Jul 14 2026
    Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Meg and Jo, a married couple in their 60s with more than $6 million in net worth, strong incomes, and a retirement problem that is not really about money. Meg is ready to stop working. Jo wants to retire too, but feels terrified of making the wrong decision and carrying the responsibility for their investments alone. Despite having millions, speaking with financial advisors, and living well below their means, they remain stuck between fear, resentment, and “vibes.” A special thanks to Facet for sponsoring this episode. As of the date of this recording, Facet is waiving their enrollment fee for new annual members, and for Ramit’s audience, Facet is offering $300 into your brokerage account if you invest and maintain $5,000 within your first 90 days. Head to facet.com/ramit to learn more about which membership option is best for you. Offer has been extended to 12/31/2026. #FacetAd Facet is a SEC registered investment advisor. Ramit is not a member of Facet, and has an incentive to endorse Facet as he has an ongoing fee based contract for cash compensation based on this endorsement. All opinions are his own and not a guarantee of a similar outcome. In this episode we uncover: • Why Meg feels entitled to retire and Jo feels alone carrying the financial responsibility • How Jo became the financial gatekeeper in their relationship • Why Meg has avoided learning the details of their investments • How different childhood experiences with money shaped their fears • Why Jo’s experience during the 2008 financial crash still affects her decisions today • How emotional labor around money can quietly create resentment in a marriage • Why their disagreement about renovating their home is really about control and security • What their $6.1M net worth, pension, investments, and spending actually allow them to do • Why working longer could leave them with $14M they may never use • The three retirement scenarios that show they can retire sooner than they thought • Why Ramit says Meg needs to “step into her wealth” • What Meg and Jo decided after seeing the numbers clearly Chapters: (00:00:00) Introduction (00:02:26) Meg wants to retire, but Jo is hesitant (00:05:40) How Jo became the financial gatekeeper (00:10:19) “I wish you were a partner” (00:19:18) Why Jo is scared to manage retirement alone (00:27:22) Jo’s scarcity mindset and family history (00:41:02) Renovating the house reveals deeper resentment (00:46:46) “What do you base that on?” “Vibes.” (01:01:24) The 2008 crash and Jo’s fear of losing security (01:04:57) Their Conscious Spending Plan (01:09:07) “I spent for dopamine. I gambled like an addict.” (01:16:57) They have enough money but do not believe it (01:19:22) Three retirement scenarios (01:30:01) Why Meg thought Jo was saying they could not retire (01:30:49) “God, I wish you were a partner” (01:32:38) Choosing their retirement timeline (01:36:07) Creating a retirement paycheck (01:40:48) What happens if one of them dies? (01:48:21) Meg and Jo’s follow-up (01:49:54) “We have more money than time” This episode is brought to you by: MasterClass | For unlimited access to every class and at least 15% off any annual membership, go to https://masterclass.com/ramit DeleteMe | Get 20% off all consumer plans when you go to https://joindeleteme.com/ramit and use promo code RAMIT at checkout Fabric by Gerber Life | Go to meetfabric.com/RAMIT and apply today, risk-free LMNT | Get a free LMNT Sample Pack with any order at https://drinklmnt.com/RAMIT NetSuite | If your revenues are in the seven figures, go to https://netsuite.ai/ramit to try NetSuite Next for free Ready to stop wondering where your money goes and start building your first $100K? Join Rich Life: Road to $100K at iwt.com/100K. Connect with Ramit • Get my new book, Money For Couples • Join my Rich Life: Road to $100K program • Download the Conscious Spending Plan • Listen to my book—now on Audible • Get my New York Times best-selling book • Get my no-numbers journal • Other episodes • Instagram • Twitter • YouTube Apply to be coached for free on this podcast at https://iwt.com/apply
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    1 hr and 55 mins
  • 268. "We Make $150K… So why are we broke?"
    Jul 7 2026
    Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Lauren and Mick, a married couple in their 30s with two kids, $93K of debt, and a dream of moving into a bigger home. They earn around $150K a year combined, but with 89% of their take-home pay already going to fixed costs, just $5K in savings, and years of impulsive spending, their money is stretched far beyond what their lifestyle can support. Both Lauren and Mick have ADHD, which they say makes it harder to manage bills, avoid dopamine spending, and follow through on financial systems. Ramit acknowledges those challenges while encouraging them to explore a deeper issue: ADHD can make money management more difficult, but finding ways to navigate those challenges is still an important part of making the financial decisions their family depends on. In this episode we uncover: • Why Lauren and Mick earn $150K but still only have $5K in savings • How $93.5K of debt is keeping them trapped • Why their 89% fixed costs make a bigger house impossible right now • How ADHD affects their impulse spending, overdue bills, and financial systems • How consolidating $35K of credit-card debt did not solve the behavior behind it • Why they have avoided fully combining their finances after seven years of marriage • How Mick losing his job for a year changed their relationship with money • How both of their childhoods shaped their current spending habits • Why wanting a third child and bigger home is creating pressure they cannot afford • Why small cuts will not fix a structural financial problem • Why Ramit says their household needs a clearer path to $200K in income • What it takes to turn a fantasy of a better life into a real financial plan • How Lauren and Mick responded after the conversation Chapters: (00:00:00) They admit their biggest money mistake (00:01:18) Meet Lauren & Mick (00:02:04) Their shocking financial numbers (00:05:05) How ADHD affects their spending (00:07:08) LEGOLAND, LEGO, and impulse purchases (00:12:22) How job loss changed everything (00:17:38) Breaking down their finances (00:21:22) "Do you respect money?" (00:24:40) Why 89% fixed costs is a disaster (00:26:24) Breaking down $93,500 in debt (00:33:15) Why they still want a bigger house (00:35:11) How childhood shaped their money habits (00:42:43) Why they keep resisting a financial plan (00:53:00) Rebuilding their spending plan (01:02:21) Can they earn more money? (01:08:36) Ramit rebuilds their budget (01:14:16) The income they actually need (01:16:56) Their new financial plan (01:21:23) Lauren & Mick's biggest takeaways (01:24:17) Ramit follow-up: ADHD & money This episode is brought to you by: Grow Therapy | Visit https://growtherapy.com/ramit to find a therapist today Factor | Head to https://factormeals.com/ramit50off and use code RAMIT50OFF to get 50% off and free daily greens per box, with new subscription only, while supplies last until 09/27/2026. (See website for more details) Trust & Will | Protect what matters most in minutes at https://trustandwill.com/ramit and get 20% off DeleteMe | Get 20% off all consumer plans when you go to https://joindeleteme.com/ramit and use promo code RAMIT at checkout Wispr Flow | Try Wispr Flow for free at wisprflow.ai/ramit When will you finally feel rich? Join Ramit’s free live event on July 13 and learn how to build real financial security and more options with your money. Save your seat at iwt.com/liveevent Connect with Ramit • Get my new book, Money For Couples • Get Money Coaching with Ramit • Download the Conscious Spending Plan • Listen to my book—now on Audible • Get my New York Times best-selling book • Get my no-numbers journal • Other episodes • Instagram • Twitter • YouTube Apply to be coached for free on this podcast at https://iwt.com/apply
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    1 hr and 29 mins
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