In this episode of "The Might Delete Later Podcast," Derrick and Shana discuss personal life updates, gaming culture, and the rise of streaming platforms like Twitch. The conversation shifts to serious topics, including gun violence, societal desensitization, and a viral video of a pastor promoting racism. They critique the misuse of religion for bigotry, analyze political polarization, media influence, and redistricting tactics, and express concerns about rising extremism and misinformation. The episode blends humor and honest commentary, encouraging acceptance and awareness while previewing future discussions on social and political issues.

Life Updates and Catching Up (00:00:20)
Derrick and Shana discuss recent life events, stress, relationships, and getting caught up on bills.

Gaming and Streaming Culture (00:01:51)
Conversation about gaming habits, favorite games, and the idea of streaming on Twitch for money.

Monetizing Online Presence (00:04:52)
Joking about making money online through Twitch, TikTok, and selling feet pictures.

Recent Shootings and Desensitization (00:06:08)
Discussion shifts to recent shootings, especially school shootings, and society’s numbness to these events.

Gun Violence and Mental Health Debate (00:06:59)
Debate about mental health as a cause for gun violence, gun laws, and international comparisons.

Gun Laws and Military Access (00:09:00)
Exploring background checks, military and veteran access to firearms, and differences in regulations.

Viral Racist Pastor Clip (00:11:04)
Introduction and reaction to a viral video of a pastor making racist statements about black people.

Religion, Racism, and False Prophets (00:12:52)
Critique of religious leaders using faith to justify racism and the concept of false prophets.

Rise of Open Bigotry and Political Influence (00:18:51)
Discussion on the increase in open racism, influence of right-wing media, and political polarization.

Drama in Politics and Media (00:21:13)
Reflection on the public’s preference for drama in politics, media coverage, and presidential scandals.

January 6th Pardons and Conspiracies (00:23:44)
Talk about the pardoning of January 6th participants, conspiracy theories, and normalization of extreme events.

Redistricting and Political Strategy (00:25:50)
Explanation of redistricting in Texas, its impact on elections, and Trump’s strategy to maintain power.

Conspiracies Around Political Violence (00:28:22)
Speculation about political assassinations, distractions from scandals, and the Epstein files.

Viral Violence and Racial Narratives (00:29:36)
Discussion of viral violent incidents, media framing, and racial stereotypes in crime reporting.

Wrap-Up and Next Episode Teaser (00:31:14)
Closing remarks, plans for a longer part two episode, and social media promotion.

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In this episode of the "Might Delete Later Podcast," Derrick flies solo with his high school buddy D-Shean (no Shana this week!) for a candid, sometimes hilarious, sometimes heavy conversation. They swap pandemic survival stories, debate superhero movie logic, and share family updates—D-Shean’s now a Grandpa! The mood shifts as Derrick sounds the alarm about rising authoritarianism and “Project 2025,” warning listeners about threats to democracy. The episode wraps with a raw, real talk on fatherhood, toxic relationships, a break baby, and the emotional landmines of modern parenting. It’s equal parts political wake-up call and cautionary tale—served with a side of laughs.

Welcome and Guest Introduction (00:00:20)
Derrick introduces the podcast, explains Shana's absence, and welcomes D-Shean as a special guest.

Catching Up & COVID Experiences (00:01:24)
Derrick and D-Shean discuss how they and their families coped during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Family Updates & Grandparenting (00:06:15)
D-Shean shares updates about his children, becoming a grandfather, and how grandparenting differs from parenting.

Entertainment Talk: Movies & TV (00:02:59)
They discuss catching up on TV shows, rumors about a "Last Dragon" remake, and critique recent Superman movies.

Transition to Political Concerns (00:07:57)
Derrick shifts the conversation to the current state of the country and his concerns about political polarization.

Authoritarianism & Project 2025 (00:08:57)
Discussion about the rise of authoritarian tendencies, Project 2025, and the replacement of officials with loyalists.

Warning About Democracy’s Future (00:16:19)
Derrick warns about the potential end of democracy, referencing control over government institutions and the Supreme Court.

Generational Reflections on Politics (00:18:08)
Three generations discuss never having seen such political turmoil, emphasizing the seriousness of the current moment.

Encouragement to Research & Stay Informed (00:19:08)
Derrick urges listeners to do their own research on Project 2025 and not just take his word for it.

Main Topic Introduction: Sons Without Fathers & Men’s Mental Health (00:19:53)
Derrick introduces the main topic: the impact of growing up without fathers and men’s mental health.

D-Shean’s Experience Growing Up Fatherless (00:22:24)
D-Shean shares personal experiences and challenges faced growing up without a father.

D-Shean’s Discovery of an 18-Year-Old Daughter (00:24:51)
D-Shean reveals he discovered he had an 18-year-old daughter from a previous relationship.

Family Reactions & Strain (00:25:41)
D-Shean discusses telling his wife and family about his daughter and the resulting emotional and financial strain.

Challenges of Co-Parenting & Child Support (00:34:35)
D-Shean explains difficulties with child support, legal issues, and the mother’s interference in his relationship with his daughter.

Attempts to Build a Relationship with His Daughter (00:37:08)
D-Shean describes his efforts to connect with his daughter and the obstacles he faces.

Reflection & Closing, Plans for Part Two (00:43:32)
Derrick and D-Shean reflect on the conversation, hint at a future episode with more perspectives, and close the show.

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In this episode of "Might Delete Later Podcast," hosts Derrick and Shana catch up after Shana’s camping trip at Folsom Lake, discussing family fun, wildlife encounters, and her fear of bees. The conversation turns serious as Shana recounts a traumatic incident involving a violent neighbor. The hosts then debate self-defense, public shaming apps, age gaps in relationships, and toxic masculinity. They share personal stories about parenting, friendships, and navigating gender roles, ending with reflections on changing relationships and the importance of empathy and respect. The episode blends humor, vulnerability, and candid social commentary.

Welcome Back & Shana’s Vacation (00:00:12)
Derrick welcomes Shana back; Shana recaps her camping trip at Folsom Lake with family and friends.

Camping Mishaps & Lake Conditions (00:00:54)
Stories about lost items, swimming, and the notably low water levels at Folsom Lake.

Camping Costs & Nature Experience (00:03:40)
Discussion about the expenses of camping, connecting with nature, and the value of disconnecting from technology.

Wildlife Concerns: Rattlesnakes & Bees (00:04:44)
Debate about the presence of rattlesnakes at Folsom Lake and Shana’s fear of bees and wasps.

Bee Sting Trauma & Childhood Stories (00:07:13)
Shana shares her history of being stung by bees and related childhood experiences.

Stabbed by a Neighbor: Shana’s Story (00:09:54)
Shana recounts being stabbed by a former neighbor with mental health issues and the aftermath.

De-escalation vs. Self-defense Debate (00:17:26)
Hosts discuss responses to being attacked, self-defense, and the complexities of de-escalating violent situations.

“Tee App” & Online Reputation (00:21:43)
Conversation shifts to the “Tee App,” online groups where women warn others about men, and the risks of false accusations.

Defamation Lawsuits & Public Shaming (00:26:07)
Discussion of a real-life defamation lawsuit involving Shannon Sharpe and the impact of public shaming online.

Age Gaps & OnlyFans Relationships (00:29:25)
Debate about large age gaps in relationships, dating OnlyFans models, and societal perceptions.

Toxic Masculinity & Raising Sons (00:33:34)
Exploring toxic masculinity, gender roles, and the challenges of raising boys with healthy masculinity.

Role Models & Parenting Styles (00:39:55)
Shana compares her ex’s toxic traits with her current partner’s positive influence on her children.

Balancing Masculinity & Empathy (00:44:33)
Derrick and Shana discuss the struggle to balance traditional masculinity with empathy and emotional openness.

Gender Roles & Household Chores (00:49:24)
Conversation about changing gender roles, sharing household duties, and expectations for men and women.

Friendship, Betrayal & Wedding Snub (00:55:14)
Derrick shares a personal story about feeling hurt after being snubbed at a close friend’s wedding.

Reflections on Friendship & Closing (01:03:13)
Hosts reflect on friendship, unresolved feelings, and wrap up the episode.

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In this episode of The Might Delete Later Podcast, Derrick is joined by special guest co-host Mari, filling in while Shana vacations off-grid. The duo dives into recent celebrity deaths (RIP Malcolm-Jamal Warner, Ozzy Osbourne, and Hulk Hogan—sort of), debates separating art from the artist, and laments the streaming era’s impact on artists’ wallets. Things get juicy as they dissect modern dating, emotional vs. physical cheating, and the wild world of unsolicited DMs. Expect laughs, hot takes, and a healthy dose of “Did they really just say that?” banter.

Shana on Vacation & Introducing Mari (00:00:14)
Derrick explains Shana's absence, introduces guest co-host Mari, and sets up the episode.

Celebrity Deaths & Legacies (00:01:22)
Discussion of recent celebrity deaths: Malcolm-Jamal Warner, Ozzy Osbourne, and Hulk Hogan, including their legacies and controversies.

Separating Art from the Artist (00:05:14)
Debate about whether you can separate problematic artists (e.g., R. Kelly, Diddy) from their work.

Radio, Streaming, and Music Consumption (00:07:22)
Conversation about the decline of terrestrial radio, rise of streaming platforms, and personal listening habits.

Physical Media vs. Streaming (00:08:11)
Discussion on the decline of Blu-rays/DVDs, convenience of streaming, and challenges finding certain movies.

Impact of Streaming on Artists (00:11:21)
How streaming affects artists’ income, the writers/actors strike, and the economics of digital media.

Shorter Songs & Streaming Economics (00:14:14)
How streaming has led to shorter songs and changed how artists get paid.

Main Topic Introduction: Cheating (00:14:51)
Host introduces the main topic: who are better cheaters, men or women, and shifts to why men and women cheat.

Social Proof & Relationship Dynamics (00:16:14)
Clip from Olivia Alexa about women desiring men with social proof; discussion on attraction and competitiveness.

Insecurity and Relationship Sabotage (00:21:16)
Exploring how insecurity in relationships leads to self-sabotage and unhealthy dynamics.

Social Media & Modern Dating (00:26:07)
Impact of social media and digital connectivity on relationships, competition, and dating culture.

Unsolicited DMs & Online Behavior (00:27:37)
Stories about unsolicited explicit messages, online boundaries, and changing social norms.

On-Demand Culture & Patience (00:32:19)
How on-demand media consumption affects patience, attention spans, and expectations in life and relationships.

Ideology of Men Who Cheat (00:33:10)
Clip and discussion about why men cheat, compartmentalization, and emotional unavailability.

Ideology of Women Who Cheat (00:37:52)
Clip and discussion about why women cheat, emotional infidelity, and relationship dissatisfaction.

Emotional Cheating & Relationship Intimacy (00:43:10)
Exploring emotional cheating, intimacy needs, and differences in how men and women experience infidelity.

Cultural Norms & Cheating Acceptance (00:48:07)
Discussion of cultural acceptance of infidelity, generational differences, and family dynamics.

Wrap-Up & Where to Find Mari (00:48:52)
Closing remarks, where to find Mari on social media, and preview of next week’s episode.

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In this lively follow-up episode of the Might Delete Later Podcast, co-hosts Derrick and Shana welcome Shana’s boyfriend, Kahari, for a candid (and hilarious) deep dive into interracial dating in 2025. The trio swaps personal stories about awkward work romances, nosy grandmas, and the wild opinions of Dr. Umar Johnson. With playful banter and sharp wit, they tackle cultural identity, family expectations, and whether being a millionaire would change their dating game. Spoiler: Shana’s still hunting Kahari down, Derrick’s ready for six wives, and everyone’s got jokes—plus a few spicy takes on love and tradition.

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In this episode of the "Might Delete Later Podcast" co-hosts Derrick and Shana interview Nae, who shares her experiences working as both an escort and in hospice care. Nae discusses the challenges and dangers of her profession, her journey into escorting, and the lessons she’s learned about financial management and personal safety. The conversation also touches on her aspirations for a better future, her role as a mother, and her reflections on personal growth. The episode offers an honest, insightful look into Nae’s unique life and the complexities she navigates daily.

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In this moving yet uplifting episode of "Might Delete Later Podcast," Shana & Derrick welcome Jessica, who bravely shares her journey through grief after losing her son, Matthew. With humor and honesty, Jessica discusses the messy realities of healing, the power of yoga, and the magic of supportive communities (shoutout to the Goddess Wisdom Council!). Alongside co-hosts, they tackle motherhood, self-care, and the importance of asking for help. Jessica’s resilience shines as she reveals her creative projects and hard-won wisdom, reminding us all that healing is tough—but a little laughter and a lot of love go a long way.

Introduction and Setting the Stage (00:00:00)
Host introduces the episode, shares personal connection, and introduces Jessica and her story.

Jessica’s Family Tragedy (00:01:36)
Jessica’s loss of her son Matthew in 2013 and the impact on the community.

Initial Grief and Support System (00:03:07)
Jessica discusses her immediate response to tragedy and the people who supported her.

Healing Journey and Spiritual Growth (00:06:41)
Jessica describes her healing process, spiritual community, and tools for coping.

Role of Yoga in Healing (00:10:13)
Jessica shares how yoga became a key part of her healing, both before and after her loss.

Coping and Growth of Her Older Son (00:11:57)
Discussion about Jessica’s older son, his therapy, and how he coped with the tragedy.

Guilt, Karma, and Writing as Therapy (00:13:53)
Jessica reflects on feelings of guilt, changing beliefs about karma, and writing as a healing tool.

Book Writing and Reliving Trauma (00:17:50)
Jessica talks about writing her book, the challenges, and how it brings up past trauma.

Finding Spiritual and Writing Communities (00:20:16)
Jessica explains how she found her spiritual and writing communities online and their impact.

Struggles with Addiction and Perseverance (00:22:26)
Jessica discusses her struggles with addiction after her loss and the journey to sobriety.

Personal Transformation After Loss (00:23:51)
Jessica describes how the tragedy changed her as a person and her desire to help others.

Family Impact and Generational Grief (00:28:00)
Jessica shares how her extended family was affected and how her mother is also writing a book.

List of Healing Tools and Inspirations (00:32:04)
Jessica reads a chronological list of things and people that helped her heal.

Community and Sisterhood (00:38:50)
Discussion about the importance of women’s communities and sisterhood in healing.

Advice for Others Experiencing Grief (00:42:20)
Jessica offers advice to others dealing with similar loss and grief.

Closing Remarks and Reflections (00:43:03)
Hosts and Jessica reflect on her strength, inspiration, and the importance of support.

Outro and Support Hotlines (00:45:01)
Host closes the episode and shares domestic violence and child abuse hotline information.

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If you or someone you know has been involved with or a victim of child abuse, call the Childhelp National child Abuse Hotline.

If you or someone you know is involved with or a victim of domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233

Shana and Derrick discuss the pros and cons of interracial dating in 2025

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