Episodes

  • 246: Strange Creatures, Aren’t We?
    Aug 20 2025

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    Lee and Simon muse on the strangeness of plastic-covered furniture and saving things for best, linking it to habits of consumerism and care.

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    25 mins
  • 245: Are you asking the dog?
    Aug 13 2025

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    Lee and Simon discuss how their understanding of success has changed, from youthful drive and ambition to the satisfaction of doing things well.

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    27 mins
  • 244: I’m Just Going to Put Myself into Flight Mode
    Aug 6 2025

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    Lee and Simon discuss podcast recording quirks, Italian language and food, the difficulty of finding good restaurants in Rome, and the virtues of immigrant-run eateries. They detour into cocktail adventures, running habits, architectural quirks in old houses, and auditory remedies involving bad covers of Sade's Smooth Operator.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    27 mins
  • 243: Rock-a-bye Beer Beer
    Jul 30 2025

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    Lee and Simon reflect warmly and self-critically on moments of unintended unkindness, exploring how irony, tone, and long-honed habits can cause harm even when the intention is to connect. They discuss the complexities of authenticity, performance, and informality—especially in academic or professional contexts—while gently mocking themselves and each other with characteristic affection (at least that's what chatGPT said).

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    23 mins
  • 242: Giving Someone the Bicycle
    Jul 23 2025

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    Lee and Simon navigate tech issues, family estrangement, censorship, and a terrible Wimbledon defeat.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    30 mins
  • 241: A Massive Discrepancy Between My Email and My Face
    Jul 16 2025

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    Simon and Lee swap stories about how AI makes writing easier and helps smooth out prickly emails, even if they feel a bit uneasy about it all. They also talk a bit about underpants, academic jargon, and the oddities of midlife.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    25 mins
  • 240: Threadbare smalls and other legacies
    Jul 9 2025

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    Lee and Simon discuss whether they’re in a second act or nearing the end of their working lives. They reflect on legacy, how little most of us are remembered, and how not having children changes that.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    26 mins
  • 239: Commando at Five O’Clock in the Morning
    Jul 2 2025

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    Simon reflects on feeling in and out of control while managing tinnitus; Lee discusses boxers, rewilding sleep, and lime wall repairs.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    24 mins