Whether you’re a parent, a non-parent, wanted kids, didn’t want kids, or are still figuring it out — midlife hits everyone with a wild identity check.

In this episode, Breezy (the mom) and Cher (the non-mom) break down the judgment, the freedom, the grief, the hormonal chaos, and the midlife transformation that happens to ALL women, no matter their path.

From postpartum rolling straight into perimenopause, to navigating social pressure, to redefining legacy and womanhood, this is the conversation we’re finally having out loud.

Parent or not-parent — you’re still valid, still whole, and still a bad bitch.

We used to chase chaos; now we chase peace, sleep, and stable nervous systems. Breezy and Cher unpack the evolution from “fun girl” to boundary-setting, zero-bullshit grown woman—why we partied so hard, what it cost us, and how healing made us hotter than hangovers ever did.

Aging isn’t just wrinkles and night sweats—it’s a spiritual awakening where your tolerance for bullshit evaporates. We’re done caring about the wrong things, and honestly? It feels incredible. From friendships to work to aging bodies, Breezy and Cher dive into the zero-f*cks mindset that turns midlife into a glow-up—messy, funny, unfiltered.

Breaking Generational Taboos About Therapy, Meds & Mental Health.

In this episode, Breezy and Cher crack open the taboo: from antidepressants to ADHD meds, from therapy breakthroughs to childhood baggage we’re still dragging around. We talk about why so many of us were raised to “suck it up,” why we internalized shame around getting help, and how our generation is finally rewriting the script—out loud, with memes, meds, and a copay.

Expect: dark humor, real talk, a few hot takes, and zero judgment.

Whether you’re medicated, therapized, or just trying to survive the intrusive thoughts of 2025, this one’s for you.

We're baaaaccccckkkkkk!

Breezy and Cher reflect on some of the more ridiculous aspects of aging that they had no way of preparing for.

What happens when Breezy innocently asks Cher what her ADHD is like? It accidentally becomes a main topic in the ep. We could have edited or re-recorded this one, but sometimes chaotic convos are part of life.

We eventually get to what we meant to discuss: The Warped Tour, fillers, and facelifts.

Jane’s Addiction cancels their tour after Perry Farrel’s disturbing behavior. Plus: our first guest! Our friend Raquel Bruno joins us to share her path to motherhood and talk about how everything's changing all the time, including us.

We talk about the trad wife trend that's everywhere and whether it's really how it seems.