In this video I continue my reconstruction of pickup artistry by addressing the fact that men are not often given grace for their struggles in dating. We are often framed as villains for not knowing how to flirt, but then not given any real education. Is it any wonder when we seek help from the very same men who cause many of the problems that women vilify all men for?

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I’ve struggled with social anxiety my entire life—sometimes so intensely that even walking into a party could trigger dissociation or a panic attack. So, how are men like me supposed to navigate dating, flirting, and romance in today’s world?

According to Alex of Date Psych, over 50% of men haven’t approached a woman in the past year, and 86% report being single due to poor flirting skills. Yet, 77% of women aged 18–30 say they want to be approached more often. Clearly, something deeper is going on beneath the surface of modern dating culture.

This video marks the beginning of my new series, “Reconstructing Pickup Artistry,” where I explore:

Why pickup culture both exposes and worsens men’s confusion about intimacy

How incels, “naturals,” and the “creepy guy” reveal a larger social crisis

Why men’s fear of social consequences stops them from developing real romantic skills

How we can build a post-patriarchal approach to dating education rooted in care, competence, and respect

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Pickup artistry promises to turn lonely, awkward men into charismatic “alpha males” who can attract beautiful women. But what if the real machinery behind pickup isn’t empowerment, but a system that dehumanizes intimacy, reduces women to technical problems, and traps men in a cycle of conformity and shame?

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