Episodes

  • 13. Marriage in the Mess: Part 3
    Nov 24 2025

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    In this engaging conversation, Briana, Cody, Megan, and Ben discuss the intricacies of marriage and parenting, emphasizing the importance of communication, intentionality, and serving one another. They share personal anecdotes about parenting challenges, the significance of marriage check-ins, and how love languages play a role in their relationships. The discussion also touches on the need for conflict resolution and the value of showing up for each other, especially during the chaotic toddler years. The episode concludes with rapid-fire questions that reveal fun insights about their relationships.


    Takeaways:

    Communication is key in any relationship.

    It's important to have regular marriage check-ins.

    Parenting challenges can lead to messy moments.

    Serving each other strengthens the marriage bond.

    Conflict resolution is essential for a healthy relationship.

    Understanding love languages can enhance connection.

    Intentionality in parenting is crucial.

    Seeing your partner as a parent deepens love.

    It's okay to not have everything figured out.

    Friendship is a foundation for a strong marriage.


    Keywords:


    marriage, parenting, communication, love languages, conflict resolution, family, relationships, check-ins, serving each other, intentionality




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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • 12. Marriage in the Mess Part 2: Megan and Ben's Journey
    Nov 17 2025

    In this episode of 'Met in the Mess,' Megan and Ben share their unique journey of marriage, focusing on the importance of faith, communication, and navigating the challenges of family life. They discuss how their relationship has evolved, the role of God in their marriage, and the significance of finding a supportive church community. The couple emphasizes the need for open dialogue, regular check-ins, and the implementation of faith-based practices to strengthen their bond and raise their children in a loving, faith-filled environment.


    Takeaways:

    Two are better than one in marriage.

    Navigating messy moments is part of the journey.

    Faith plays a crucial role in relationships.

    Finding the right church is essential for family growth.

    Open dialogue with children about faith is important.

    Weekly check-ins can improve communication.

    Prayer together strengthens the marriage bond.

    It's vital to address issues before they escalate.

    Marriage requires ongoing effort and commitment.

    God should be the center of the relationship.


    Keywords:

    marriage, faith, communication, family, church, relationships, conflict resolution, parenting, prayer, growth







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    44 mins
  • 11. Marriage in the Mess Part 1: Cody's Testimony
    Nov 10 2025

    In this conversation, Briana and her husband explore their unique journey of faith within their marriage. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of navigating spiritual beliefs together, especially when one partner comes to faith later in life. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of prayer, personal testimonies, and the role of divine timing in their relationship. They also offer encouragement to others who may be struggling with their faith or seeking a deeper connection with God.


    Takeaways:

    Their story is unique as one partner found faith later in life.

    Prayer played a significant role in their spiritual journey.

    The importance of being equally yoked in relationships.

    Personal testimonies can inspire others on their faith journey.

    Divine timing is crucial in spiritual growth.

    Encouragement is essential for those questioning their faith.

    Reading the Bible can provide clarity and guidance.

    Surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals fosters growth.

    Everyone deserves a second chance at redemption.

    Faith can transform relationships and personal outlooks.


    Keywords:

    marriage, spiritual journey, faith, personal testimony, prayer, divine guidance, relationships, Christianity, growth, encouragement







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    46 mins
  • Welcome to the (Mini) Mess!
    Nov 6 2025

    Welcome to the Mini Mess!


    Introducing another opportunity for us to connect with you all right here in the mess! We will be dropping mini episodes (Mini Messes) in your podcast feed a few times per month. These episodes will be much shorter than our normal Messy Monday Episodes and will give us a chance to discuss some of the more fun and light hearted topics that we love!


    Stay tuned and keep an ear out for our first (of many!) Mini Mess very soon!

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    2 mins
  • 10. Not Every Testimony is Fireworks
    Nov 3 2025

    Your Story Matters.


    In this episode, Briana and Megan discuss the significance of personal testimonies in faith, emphasizing that not every testimony needs to be on a grand stage in order to be meaningful. They share personal anecdotes and biblical references, such as Zechariah 4:10 and 2 Corinthians 4:5-11, to illustrate how simple acts of faith can have profound impacts. The conversation encourages listeners to share their stories, no matter how small they may seem, and highlights the importance of community and support in spiritual journeys.



    Takeaways:

    • Our testimonies are foundational to our relationship with God.
    • Not every testimony is dramatic, but all are valuable.
    • Simple acts of faith can have profound impacts.
    • Sharing your story can inspire others, even if it seems small.
    • God uses our stories to connect with others.
    • Community and support are vital in spiritual journeys.
    • Comparison can diminish the value of our own testimonies.
    • Our testimonies are about God's work in our lives, not us.
    • Prayer and simple acts of kindness are powerful testimonies.
    • Encouraging others in their faith journey is a shared responsibility



    Keywords:

    testimonies, faith, Zechariah 4:10, 2 Corinthians 4:5-11, personal stories, community, spiritual journey, sharing faith, simple acts, impact


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    41 mins
  • 9. Wrestling With Doubt; When Faith Feels Fragile
    Oct 27 2025

    In this conversation, the hosts explore the complexities of faith, doubt, and the importance of community support during challenging times. They discuss personal experiences with unanswered prayers, the vulnerability required in prayer, and the necessity of trusting God's timing. The conversation emphasizes that wrestling with faith is a common experience and that finding strength in moments of weakness can lead to deeper connections with God and others.


    Takeaways:

    Wrestling with faith is a common experience.

    Doubt can make faith feel fragile.

    Unanswered prayers can lead to feelings of isolation.

    Vulnerability in prayer is essential for growth.

    Community support is crucial during times of doubt.

    Strength can be found in moments of weakness.

    Trusting God's timing is vital for faith.

    Prayer is a powerful tool in overcoming doubt.

    Personal experiences can provide valuable lessons.

    Surrendering control is necessary for spiritual growth.


    Keywords


    faith, doubt, prayer, community, vulnerability, healing, trust, God, struggles, belief







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    46 mins
  • 8. Why is Saying "No" So Hard?
    Oct 20 2025

    In this episode of Met in the Mess, Briana and Megan discuss the challenges of saying no and the impact of people-pleasing tendencies. They explore the importance of setting boundaries, both in parenting and in personal relationships, and how faith plays a crucial role in this process. The conversation emphasizes the need for a supportive community and the significance of self-respect in maintaining healthy relationships. The episode concludes with a prayer for strength and discernment in setting boundaries and navigating relationships.


    Takeaways:

    Saying no is a complete sentence and doesn't require justification.

    It's important to set boundaries for personal well-being.

    People-pleasing can hinder personal growth and relationships.

    Faith can provide strength in setting boundaries.

    Community support is essential for navigating challenges.

    Children need to learn the value of gratitude and limits.

    Setting boundaries is a form of self-respect.

    It's okay to prioritize your needs over others' expectations.

    Healthy relationships allow for open communication about boundaries.

    You are not responsible for others' feelings or salvation.


    Keywords:

    parenting, boundaries, people-pleasing, faith, community, relationships, self-care, personal growth, motherhood, setting limits





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    49 mins
  • 7. More Than Small Talk: Real Friendships in Adulthood
    Oct 13 2025

    In this episode, Megan and Briana explore the complexities of adult friendships, discussing the challenges of making connections as adults, the importance of vulnerability, and the role of faith in building meaningful relationships. They share personal anecdotes about navigating friendships during different life seasons and offer practical tips for fostering connections. The conversation emphasizes the need for community, kindness, and the understanding that not every friendship will last a lifetime, but each interaction can have a purpose.


    Takeaways:

    Adult friendships can feel daunting and complex.

    Making friends as an adult is similar to dating.

    It's important to have friends in similar life seasons.

    Vulnerability is key in building strong friendships.

    Not every friendship will last forever; some are for a reason or a season.

    Community is essential for women and mothers.

    Take the pressure off when trying to make new friends.

    Look for common ground to build connections.

    Pray for the friendships you want in your life.

    Be kind and open-hearted in every interaction.


    Keywords:

    adult friendships, making friends, vulnerability, motherhood, community, faith, parenting, loneliness, connection, relationships







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    42 mins