In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen continue Season 2 by diving into Chapter One of Becoming a Man After God. They reflect on the joy of recording together again, share gratitude for the Men After God community and Patreon supporters, and explain the renewed direction of the ministry—producing free, accessible content while staying surrendered to where God is leading.

The conversation centers on what it truly means to be a “man after God’s heart” by examining the life of David. Rather than viewing David as a flawless spiritual hero, Dustin and Luke unpack how David’s identity was shaped by repentance, humility, and persistent pursuit of God—even in failure. They challenge the idea that background or upbringing determines spiritual potential and emphasize personal responsibility, repentance, and ownership as key markers of spiritual maturity.

The episode closes with a direct challenge to men: stop blaming your past, take responsibility for your walk with God, and recognize that your relationship with Him will only grow as deep as your willingness to repent.

00:00 Welcome back, Season 2 energy, and recording together again
01:06 Gratitude for Patreon supporters and the Men After God community
03:30 Vision for Season 2 and introducing the “Becoming” series
03:56 Why Chapter One matters: From History to His Story
05:14 Who the book is for—and why it applies beyond men
05:45 What Dustin wishes he had added to Chapter One
08:09 David’s life, failure, and the myth of spiritual perfection
10:00 What “a man after God’s heart” actually means
11:26 Pursuing God vs. achieving fulfillment
13:30 Why there is no finish line apart from God
14:50 The advantage New Testament believers have through the Holy Spirit
17:13 Becoming is a choice, not a personality trait
17:43 Repentance, responsibility, and owning your life
20:13 Why repentance is the gateway to restoration
21:32 Final thoughts and closing encouragement

• Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley
  https://a.co/d/iA5BV3q
• Group facilitation guides for the book (free PDFs available by request)
  📧 dustin@menaftergod.net
• Riverside FM for podcast recording
  https://riverside.fm
• The Diary of a CEO podcast
  https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen talk about why most New Year goals die fast and what to do instead. They unpack the difference between setting goals and building daily disciplines, then pull back the curtain on the origin story of Dustin’s book Becoming a Man After God. Dustin shares how a season of overload pushed him to the edge and how one question shifted everything from doing things for God to learning how to do life with God. Together, they challenge men to prioritize what matters, build rhythms that protect their walk with Christ and their families, and pursue holistic stewardship that includes spiritual, mental, and physical health. They close with a simple reflection tool that turns listening into action so growth becomes real and repeatable.

Chapters

00:00 Why goals die by January 5 and why daily agenda matters
02:01 Dustin’s goals and the action plans behind them
04:48 Spiritual goals at home and intentional discipleship with kids
05:26 Luke’s goals, Working Genius, and teaching core principles to children
07:12 Why Dustin wrote Becoming a Man After God
08:55 The overload season, the warning signs, and the breaking point
13:30 The five part framework that shaped the book
18:00 Who you are becoming and how decisions shape identity
20:37 Discipline, rhythms, Daniel 1, and the power of small choices
23:42 Why you never arrive and why that is the point
27:56 Holistic stewardship and why spiritual, mental, and physical are connected
29:59 Reflection questions that turn content into change

Resources mentioned in this episode
Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley - https://a.co/d/5KZkPq0
Working Genius assessment and certification - https://www.workinggenius.com/
John Beasley, Mind and Body Fitness - https://mindandbodystrength.com/
Greater Oaks Foundation and Spartan fundraiser - https://fundraise.spartan.com/page/Dustin-26972750
Dustin’s Airbnb in Kissimmee Florida - https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/1569707871787434572?source_impression_id=p3_1767051701_P35rKxpUcJYzGAiH

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen kick off Season 2 by looking back on what God did in Season 1 and casting vision for what is next. They talk honestly about real life constraints, why they are shifting toward shorter episodes, and how the goal stays the same: serve men, strengthen families, and equip leaders with practical, biblical help. A major focus is Dustin’s book Becoming a Man After God and how churches can use it as a mens ministry resource through the included group facilitation guides. They also highlight the value of reflection after listening, the need for rest as worship, and how God sometimes leads by stopping you, not just by accelerating you.

Chapters

00:00 Season 2 kickoff and life updates
04:39 Season 1 recap, wins, losses, and what God taught them
10:23 Vision for Season 2 and the shift to shorter weekly episodes
13:06 Overview of the book Becoming a Man After God and the five principles
22:02 How to use the book and facilitation guides in a mens ministry or Bible study
28:58 The 15 minute format and how to turn listening into action
34:36 Valleys, being stopped by God, and the book Deeper
38:10 Shout outs, non sponsor promotions, and ways to connect

Resources mentioned in this episode
Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley -https://a.co/d/iA5BV3q
Group facilitation guides for the book, available by request as free PDFs - dustin@menaftergod.net
Deeper by Dane C Ortlund - https://a.co/d/ft43HrK
Riverside FM for recording - riverside.fm
Men of Valor Ministries - https://www.movministries.org/
John Beasley, Mind and Body Fitness - https://mindandbodystrength.com/
Huberman Lab podcast - https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast
The Diary of a CEO podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen discuss the challenges of maintaining spiritual health during the holiday season. They explore the importance of gratitude, creative ways to engage spiritually with family, and how to interact with non-believers during family gatherings. The conversation emphasizes the need for a positive attitude, the significance of being present with loved ones, and the value of loving others where they are in their spiritual journey.

Chapters

00:30 Navigating Spiritual Health During the Holidays

8:28 The Importance of Gratitude

16:39 Creative Ways to Engage Spiritually

24:22 Interacting with Non-Believers During the Holidays

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In this deeply honest episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen confront the often-ignored topic of male trauma and the coping mechanisms men use to mask their pain. From emotional shutdown to explosive behavior, they unpack how trauma distorts spiritual growth—and how the gospel offers a path to real healing.

Through biblical insight and real-life application, Dustin and Luke explore the spiritual consequences of unresolved pain and the need for repentance and inner healing. This conversation calls men to acknowledge their brokenness, reject shame, and embrace the restorative power of Christ.

With practical advice for both ministry leaders and everyday men, this episode equips listeners to break free from cycles of dysfunction and walk in emotional wholeness and spiritual strength.

🧭 Key Takeaways:

Men often use coping mechanisms to avoid dealing with trauma.

• Coping mechanisms can manifest as addictions or disobedience.
• Men often use coping mechanisms to avoid dealing with trauma.
• Understanding one's past is crucial for emotional healing.
• Spiritual truths can guide men in overcoming their struggles.
• Repentance begins with recognizing the need for change.
• Coping mechanisms can strain relationships with loved ones.
• The gospel offers hope and healing for emotional wounds.
• Ministry leaders play a vital role in supporting men.
• Asking questions can help uncover underlying issues.
• Transformation requires both acceptance and action.

🕐 Time Stamps

5:48 Spiritual Insights on Coping and Sin
12:33 Identifying and Confronting Coping Mechanisms
18:21 The Journey of Repentance and Transformation
23:19 The Beauty of Brokenness and Healing
24:30 Understanding Addictions and Coping Mechanisms
27:30 Embracing Emotional Injuries and Healing
33:25 The Role of Ministry Leaders in Healing
39:36 The Gospel's Power in Transformation

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Kenny Sexton unpacks Proverbs 10:1–11 to uncover the foundational traits of a righteous man. From the wisdom of your words to the integrity of your work, this passage highlights how godly men are called to build lives that leave a legacy.

Join us as we explore how to develop wisdom, speak with life-giving words, and work with purpose — not just for personal gain, but for God’s glory. Whether you're leading a family, influencing others, or rebuilding after failure, these truths will help you lay the right foundation.

This conversation will challenge you to evaluate what your life is built on — and empower you to become the man God created you to be.

👉 Key Takeaways:

✔️ Righteous men build with wisdom, not impulse
✔️ Your words shape more than conversations — they shape your legacy
✔️ Hard work matters when it’s done for the Lord
✔️ Living rightly brings real joy — to you and those around you

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In this Monday Bible Study episode of the Men After God podcast, guest host Pastor Aaron McBride dives into Proverbs 12:1–14, offering powerful wisdom on how correction shapes character and how that character, in turn, builds a lasting legacy.

Aaron explores how godly men respond to correction—not with pride, but with humility—and how that response determines their spiritual growth, family impact, and long-term influence. Through Scripture and practical insight, this episode challenges men to evaluate how they receive feedback, steward their words, and build lives rooted in righteousness.

Whether you're leading your home, your church, or simply striving to become the man God has called you to be, this study will equip you to turn godly correction into generational blessing.

🧭 Key Takeaways:

✔️ Loving correction is the first step toward wisdom
✔️ Your response to discipline shapes your destiny
✔️ Righteous words build up others—and your legacy
✔️ God honors those who walk in integrity, not perfection

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Effective mentoring is the foundation of a strong men's ministry. In this episode, we break down practical models for mentoring within the church and how leaders can create intentional discipleship pathways to grow men spiritually.

Time Stamps

03:37 Understanding Vision in Leadership
6:23 The Role of Teamwork in Achieving Vision
12:29 Purpose-Driven Men's Ministry
15:36 Adapting Vision for Modern Ministry
18:31 Casting a Compelling Vision
20:24 Understanding Working Genius and Leadership Dynamics
22:45 The Power of Communication in Vision Casting
25:45 Modeling Leadership: Setting the Example
29:33 Building Connections and Community in Ministry
36:32 Seeking Wisdom and Moving at God's Pace

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