Episodes

  • Could You Turn Your Side Hustle Into A Full Time Job?
    Aug 1 2025
    Mic Drop Moments
    Sometimes, life hands you a standing ovation for opening a stubborn jar, and honestly, that’s the kind of energy we need more of. A recent study finds that every day “mic drop moments” are all around us. What is one of yours?
    • Knowing the answer to a quiz show
    • Discovering when you go to pay for something it’s actually discounted
    • Making someone laugh with a perfectly timed joke
    • Sailing through multiple green traffic lights in a row
    • Ticking off everything on your to-do list
    • Catching something which has been thrown at you quickly
    • Fixing a tech issue for someone

    Life Before My Spouse/ My Kids
    As much as you love your significant other, what is something you miss from being single:
    • The lack of responsibility and obligations.
    • The rush of 'firsts' — that first date rush/nervous feeling. Holding hands for the first time, first kisses, the first time having sex with someone.
    • Not ever having to be accountable for random stuff I do around my own house.
    • Being able to come home from work and not speak a single word.
    • Deciding on what to have for dinner without a second opinion.

    Side Hustles That Could Lead To Full Time Work
    According to a recent Gallup poll, more than 60% of Americans want to be their own boss. While a full-time job pays the bills and has benefits, it doesn’t give you the freedom to be in charge, and that’s what makes side hustles so appealing to some people.
    • Tour guide - Being passionate about parts of your city and knowing how to show people around is the key and you can use sites like Facebook, Upwork and Viator to market yourself. Some tour guides report making an average of $100 to $300 per tour, sometimes much more.
    • AI Services - Know your way around ChatGPT or similar tools? There’s a demand for those skills.
    • Online courses - Whether you’ve had some business success others can learn from or have hobbies or skills people are interested in, think about putting together an online course to sell on Etsy, Skillshare or Udemy.
    • Medical coding - If you’re properly certified and know how to review records for accuracy and help with data entry, this income stream can become a full-time job.
    • Fashion designer - Several clothing and jewelry brands started as side hustles, so why not yours? One success story is Kate Sullivan, founder of Sage Vintage, who started the handmade jewelry company as a side hustle and brought in over $500,000 in revenue last year.
    • Graphic design - Know your way around Canva or Photoshop? Sites like PeoplePerHour and 99designs can help you find your client base and as you build a portfolio and establish a reputation, your business could take off.

    Second Date Update
    Felicis calls about Nolan. They met on Hinge. They decided to go for burgers in Alameda After the date, Nolan ghosted.
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    35 mins
  • Why Do We Experience Brain Fog?
    Jul 31 2025
    Why We Forget Things...AKA Brain Fog
    • Medications - Drugs known to impact memory include (anxiety meds like Xanax and Valium, statins (used to control cholesterol), anti-seizure meds, beta blockers, antidepressants, opioids and a certain class of sleeping pills.
    • Depression or anxiety - When you’re depressed, your brain is not working at 100%. It’s not paying attention to things as well as it usually does, and the memory areas are not doing what they usually do.
    • Diet - Research links ultraprocessed foods with cognitive decline and an increased risk of dementia.
    • Sleep - Not getting enough sleep can make it harder to concentrate, learn new things and create new memories, according to the National Institutes of Health.
    • Trouble hearing - New research suggests a connection between hearing loss and brain health, but hearing aids can help. The study links hearing aids with a 19% lower risk of long-term cognitive decline.
    • Multitasking - Being distracted affects your ability to focus and remember things, and one study finds that multitaskers often have trouble recalling information. And they were young people.

    Restuarant Red Flags
    • It’s dirty
    • The place is empty - If it’s a Monday night, this isn’t concerning, but if the dining room is empty during peak hours on a weekend...
    • There’s no management presence - Managers are visible in the dining room, greeting customers, talking to tables and helping servers when needed, but if you can’t tell who’s in charge, it might be because no one is.
    • It’s overloaded with social media influencers - Sure, they can help get people in the door, but they might be getting special treatment and freebies to promote a restaurant.
    • The staff argues with you - Mistakes will be made, but staff members should own it and try to make it up to you when that happens. It doesn’t matter how good the food is, if the staff argues with you, it ruins the experience.
    • Servers don’t know the menu - It shows poor training and “a lack of pride in the product.”
    • You’re being upsold aggressively - When it feels like a script or they’re harassing you, it’s a sign the restaurant is struggling and doesn’t care about hospitality as much as sales.

    New Cheating Emojis
    According to private investigator Paul Jones from ARF Private Investigators, there are some random, innocent-looking emojis that aren’t really so innocent. Jones says that if you find your partner texting the croissant or padlock emojis, they’re probably cheating on you. “On the surface, it might look innocent, but there’s usually a deeper meaning,” Jones explained. “We’ve had people using a croissant emoji as a way of saying ‘meet me for breakfast,’ or the letter emoji as a subtle ‘text me when you’re free.'”

    Second Date Update
    Dean and Ariel met on Hinge, and after a fun back-and-forth over messaging, they decided to meet in person. Their first date was sushi and sake bombs in Fremont. She has pulled a Casper.
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    33 mins
  • Smart People Ignore These Phrases During Work Meetings
    Jul 30 2025
    Tsunami Warning
    After the earthquake in Russia, we got tsunami warning. We talked about what you should really worry about and what to stay away from.

    Things Smart People Ignore In Meetings
    1. The obvious blame shift
    2. Buzzwords with no substance
    3. Recycled ideas presented as new ones
    4. Passive-aggressive digs
    5. When someone is constantly interrupting others
    6. People who talk a lot just to be heard
    7. Vague promises with no timeline
    8. A humble bragger
    9. The unrealistic deadlines
    10. The endless tangent
    11. Credit misdirection
    How Do You Tell Someone They Wear Too Much Perfume At Work?

    Second Date Update
    Lorenzo and Heather went for Italian in Mountain View on Castro St. She thought he was charming and the date was awesome, but he has vanished.
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    33 mins
  • How Much Is Too Much When It Comes To Cyberstalking?
    Jul 29 2025
    The Right Amount of Cyberstalking
    Experts say this is how to decide on the right amount of pre-first-date research:
    • Focus on sensible “cyberstaling” - Start with verifying what you already know about them. Confirm they work where they say they do by checking out their LinkedIn and get a feel for their personality by scrolling through their Instagram.
    • When it becomes overkill - Things like running a paid background check or combing their social media profiles to do a deep dive into their past and looking at their ex’s tagged photos are definitely too much.
    • Check for red flags - Not having an online footprint is a major one. Even if they don’t like social media, most people have a LinkedIn profile, if they don’t and you feel like something is off, you may want to reconsider meeting up in person.
    • Don’t overprepare - This is a date, not a job interview, so don’t spoil the genuine way you get to know someone by researching more than you need to.

    Feeling Financially Comfortable
    We are not talking annual salary, this is total.
    • Americans don’t need a million dollars to be financially comfortable, just $839-thousand will do it, according to new research from Charles Schwab.
    • Their survey reveals that figure is much lower than the $2.3-million people consider wealthy.
    • When asked to define what “wealthy” means to them, respondents’ top three are happiness (45%), “amount of money I have” (44%) and physical health (37%).

    Corey's Brain
    When I am trying to sleep, it is like three movie screens are playing. One is playing music from the 'Mary Poppins' soundtrack, another is questioning whatever happened to my college boyfriend...this third is me counting back from a 100, version of counting sheep. Does anyone else have a multiplex churning when they just want to rest?

    Second Date Update
    • Maya met Eric online. They are both into fitness and health, so take a yoga class for their first date. They even enjoyed smoothies afterwards. Why would he ghost?
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    35 mins
  • What Would You Do For A Million Dollars?
    Jul 28 2025
    What Would You Do For Million Dollars?
    • For the chance to score a seven-figure payday, 43% of Americans would ditch their romantic partner, according to a new survey.
    • More than half (59%) would disappear and start a new life for a million bucks, while 41% would give up sex forever and 27% would marry someone they didn’t love.
    • Nearly half (46%) of the 2-thousand respondents would even participate in a real-life “Squid Game” competition for a shot at winning $33-million.⠀

    Wildest Things Kids Brought To School
    • “A baby opossum — in his backpack that he found at the bus stop that morning.”
    • “Sixth grader brought ‘brownies’ and gave them to the ENTIRE grade level. There were students sitting against the walls on both sides of the hallway in the main office waiting to get interviewed by law enforcement.”
    • “A life-sized cardboard cut-out of Ruth Bader Ginsburg. We propped her up in the window of the door overnight and scared extended-care folks and the janitor.”
    • “Fifth grader brought weeks-old Jello shots from Mardi Gras.”
    • “A kitten he found on his walk to school.”
    • “Aztec death whistle.”
    • “An expired Twinkie they had found on the bathroom floor.”
    • “First grader brought his mom’s copy of ‘Kama Sutra’ and asked me to read it to the class.”
    • “All the rent money from a mom’s purse.”
    • “Student ... unzips hoodie to reveal a boa constrictor snuggled around her neck.”
    • “Grandma’s wig. The good one. Gave it to me for Christmas.”
    • “Fuzzy handcuffs that she said her mom loves.”

    Kids Embarrassing Their Parents
    • “I made the mistake of telling my kid that if he didn’t eat, he wouldn’t grow. He told a person with dwarfism in the checkout line at the store that they needed to eat so they would grow.”
    • “My son at 5 years old dropped a deuce in the toilet display at Lowe’s.”
    • “Just paid for an item at Walmart and walked out without it in a bag. My kid said loudly, ‘Are you stealing that?? We have to pay!’”
    • “My daughter would ask every man she saw if they were her dad. Me and her dad were, and still are, together. She saw him daily, she just insisted on asking every man .... she even asked people when her dad was with us.”
    • “When my daughter was 4, we were having breakfast in a restaurant and she asked the elderly lady next to us why she wasn’t in heaven yet.”
    • “I told my son he couldn’t eat chips until we got home. He responded loudly, ‘But Mom, we don’t have a home.’ We very much did, and everybody at the store started offering housing resources.”
    • “Walked into Wendy’s and my 2 and 1/2 year-old looks at a lady and said in her loud, squeaky voice, ‘That lady is OLD. She’s going to die soon.’ Every head turned to look at said woman. We did not eat at Wendy’s that night.”
    • “My 5-year-old son asked if the gas station guy with the turban was a genie.”
    • “My son loved to fake drown at water parks.”
    • “My son told the pediatrician when he was 7 or 8, ‘My mom doesn’t make us wear seatbelt and we duck if we see a cop.’ NEVER HAPPENED and I was so speechless, I couldn’t even react.”
    • “My daughter asked the .... cashier (who was missing some teeth) if she ever brushed her teeth before.”
    Second Date Update
    Amanda calls us about Eli. They went out for drinks in Mountain View after meeting online. She thought he was attractive and smart, and they had a few hours of great conversation. Now nothing.
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    28 mins
  • There's Proof Pasta Makes You Happy
    Jul 25 2025
    Benefits To Attract Top Talent
    Employers are going the extra mile to attract and keep quality workers. Here are a few niche offerings:
    • Free college tuition
    • Adoption and surrogacy assistance
    • Mortgage rate buyouts
    • Paid vacations with a stipend
    • Medical benefits for domestic partnerships
    • Company retreats to music festivals

    Why Is This Okay For Men, But Not Women?
    • “Being topless in public.”
    • "Not changing their name when they get married. (This varies by location.)"
    • "Making their careers their first priority."
    • “Not shaving.”
    • "Saying we don't want to have kids. I don't know why women can't say that without being told it's the reason why they're here on earth. My boyfriend even said that only women who used their wombs would go to Heaven because they fulfilled God's purpose for them."
    • "Be a single parent. 'Oh, he’s so amazing for looking after his own children!'"
    • "Being introverted and reserved. And not smiling. Women who are quiet are deemed stuck-up, get accused of having an attitude, and get told to smile more. Men don't deal with that particular issue as much."

    Pasta Makes You Happy
    According to the study, eating pasta is linked to feelings of increased happiness, reduced stress and greater mindfulness, especially when it’s enjoyed in a social setting with loved ones.

    Second Date Update
    Jake and Vanessa met online and went to a play at a community theater for their first date. He says they had a great dinner that night as well. Why would she ghost?
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    32 mins
  • Was Marcus The Reason Corey & Her Husband Got In A Fight?
    Jul 24 2025
    Hey there, Happy Friday Eve. Here's some stuff.Corey Got In A Fight With Her HusbandAnd she blames Marcus. Marcus bullies her in the morning, Jeff bullies her in the afternoon. She needs a break.Foods You're Storing IncorrectlyButter: Salted butter can hang out on the counter for a couple of days and still be safe, especially if your kitchen stays below 70 degrees Fahrenheit. Unsalted butter, though, is more delicate and should live in the fridge.Opened Canned Goods: Once you open that can of tuna, soup, or beans, it’s time to pop it in the fridge. While some fruits may last a little at room temp, it’s best to transfer leftovers into a glass or plastic container to preserve flavor. Eggs: In the U.S., eggs are washed before sale, which removes their protective layer and makes refrigeration essential. Leave them out for too long and bacteria can sneak in through the shell. Keep them in their carton, in the coldest part of your fridge.Flour: White flour is pretty chill in the pantry, but whole wheat flour is a little high-maintenance. It can go rancid faster because of its oils. To make it last, keep it in an airtight container and consider stashing it in the fridge or even the freezer. Bonus: no surprise funky smells when you bake.Hot Sauce: Hot sauce doesn’t have to be refrigerated, but doing so helps preserve its punchy flavor for longer. If you’re not a frequent hot sauce user, go ahead and pop it in the fridge. The spice level won’t fade, and your tacos will thank you. The USDA says you should consume the bottle within six months of putting it in your pantry.Jams and Jellies: Once opened, these sugary spreads belong in the fridge to prevent mold and yeast growth. Low-sugar varieties are especially sensitive and can spoil faster. Keep them cool and they’ll stay delicious for up to a year. Ketchup: You can leave ketchup out if stored at room temperature, but it’ll stay fresher much longer if you refrigerate it after opening. You can even stash it in the fridge door for easy access because it’s less temperature-sensitive than milk or eggs. Maple Syrup: Unopened syrup lasts ages in the pantry, but once it’s open, move it to the fridge. According to the USDA, unopened syrup in plastic bottles can last two years in the pantry and up to two years if its refrigerated. If the syrup is sold in glass bottles, it will remain fresh in the pantry for a whopping four years from date of purchase…and indefinitely if you stick it in the refrigerator.Mayonnaise: That creamy jar of mayo is not something to mess around with. After opening, keep it in the fridge door and use it within two months. And don’t freeze it or it’ll separate and get weird.Peanut Butter: Regular peanut butter is fine in the pantry. It can stay fresh for up to two years unopened, and another three months after its opened. But if you go the natural route, it’s best to keep it chilled to prevent the oils from going off.Pickles and Olives: If they’re swimming in brine and sealed tight, pickles are generally safe at room temp for short periods. But once opened, keep them in the fridge for max crunch and freshness. The same goes for olives, just make sure they’re always submerged in liquid. For best freshness, refrigerated pickles in brine should be eaten within one to three months after they’ve been opened, but canned olives should be eaten within two weeks.Salad Dressing: If your dressing was sold cold, it should stay cold even before opening. Once that seal is broken, creamy dressings last about a month and vinaigrettes a little longer. Unopened creamy or vinaigrette salad dressing that weren’t sold cold can stay ok in the pantry for up to six months, but they should be put in the fridge once you open them.Signs You're Struggling With Bore-OutCommon signs experts say might indicate you’re experiencing boreout include:Feeling uninterested in tasks and mentally checked outFaking being busy to look productiveSeeing no opportunity for growth or promotionSpending time on non-work activities like scrolling or taking extra-long breaksMaking careless mistakes, feel sluggish, and question your value at workIsolating from coworkers and experience low mood or apathyTo fix boreout, experts suggest:Acknowledging the problem — Recognizing boreout is the first step toward changeTalking to your manager — Ask for new challenges or more meaningful responsibilitiesAdding variety — Volunteer for different projects or collaborate with new peopleGamifying your tasks — Turn boring work into a competition with yourself or coworkersChanging your environment — If possible, mix up your routine or workspaceReconnecting with others — Build relationships beyond small talk to boost engagementSecond Date UpdateDeclan and Taylor got coffee in Sausalito, then took a drive through the Marin Headlands. What could have caused her to ghost?
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    36 mins
  • Do Parents Judge Other Parents' Parenting Skills?
    Jul 23 2025
    Parenting Habits That Other Parents Judge
    • Letting her kids run wild in public - Some moms let their kids climb on furniture, run around stores and yell in restaurants, and they definitely get the side-eye for it.
    • Pretending that her kids are perfect - We all brag about our little ones, but no kid is perfect and acting like yours has no flaws is bound to make people roll their eyes.
    • Over-posting her kids online - There’s nothing wrong with sharing milestones of your family’s life, but documenting every little thing can be too much.
    • Letting her kids interrupt adult conversations - Kids deserve to be seen and heard, but that doesn’t mean they should be constantly interrupting people talking.
    • Using her kids as an excuse for everything - Sure, life is hectic with kids, but they can’t be the reason you’re late for everything or always back out of commitments.
    • Publicly shaming or harshly disciplining her kids - Hitting, shaming or embarrassing your kid in front of other people is emotionally damaging.
    • Ignoring her child’s bad behavior - Enabling your kid when they misbehave isn’t doing them any favors. If you don’t correct them when they’re rude, aggressive or entitled because you think it’s okay for your child to behave that way, don’t be surprised when people judge you harshly for it.⠀

    Things Relaxed People Do
    1. Shake off self-doubt
    2. Own everything that’s happened to them
    3. Indulge in a daily pleasure
    4. Master their mind
    5. Turn off the news
    6. Accept people as they are
    7. Refuse to indulge in drama
    8. Pay close attention to their mood
    9. Ask one question every single day

    Social Dilemma On IG
    Lauren on Instagram DMs writes: My boss follows me on social media and likes my old photos, sometimes comments on vacation pics, and even once referenced a post during a meeting. It’s never been inappropriate, but it’s starting to feel a bit invasive. I want to block or mute her, but I’m afraid it’ll cause drama or negatively affect my job. Is there a professional way to set boundaries on social media or do I just have to live with it?

    Second Date Update
    Brad and Trina go for a nice dinner. He is a true gentleman, not really a fan of dating apps. However, now she has ghosted.
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    33 mins