Ari tears down the outdated idea of “getting good” with women through a just and honest path to genuine connection.

This episode is a guide to turning inward, understanding the roots of self-sabotage, and building a relationship life that’s rooted in values, not surface tricks.

Whether you’re frustrated with dating apps, tired of the ghosting and failed relationships, or simply want to stop overthinking about every text you send - this episode gives you the deeper framework to shift from shame and confusion to clarity and confidence.

Topics Discussed:

• Why “getting good with women” is the wrong goal

• What makes some men naturally magnetic (and why it’s not what you think)

• The danger of manosphere content and the "high value man" narrative

• Ari’s early journey in the dating world, the book that started it all and why was it different

• The 3 essential steps to changing your dating life from the inside out:

  1. How to find women who align with your values (and why this matters more than chemistry)

  2. Breaking comfort-seeking dating loops that lead to pain

  3. Healing inner shame and self-judgment so you can show up fully and freely

  
  

  And then some.... for instance:

  
  

• Why cold approaches and dating apps often reinforce your anxiety

• The power of “creating a well” - places and communities where connection is natural

• How to stop being self-conscious by becoming self-aware in a different way

  
  

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The show is back after a long hiatus - hopefully for good this time.

I feel like I want to provide explanations to why I disappeared... I want to be honest about what happened because burnout, as I've come to see and experience, a real thing.

Apart from what has been going on with me personally and professionally, I have many different and exciting things planned for the show.

It's important for me to say that I want to do things differently from now on, firstly for myself, but also for my audience.

I believe I need to give my best, and I want you all to get it.

Here is how you can support the show:

Buy me a cup of coffee

Support me on Patrion

About my coaching:

Watch my client's success stories

Get my eBook + Video Course about conscious ethical dating

Book a free consultation call