Our desire for sex can vary greatly across relationships, especially when we meet someone that we feel fully safe with. In this episode, Kelby discusses her experience with sexuality from her dating years up into her current relationship of 7 years.

If you've ever questioned what was going on with your sexuality after entering into a long-term relationship, this conversation is for you.

In the very first episode of Love Under the Scope, host and certified relationship coach Kelby Lauren sets the stage for a raw, honest, and deeply personal exploration of long-term relationships. Kelby shares her vision for the show: to peel back the layers of what it truly means to be in a committed partnership—not the highlight reel we see on social media, but the messy, beautiful, and often challenging realities that happen behind closed doors. With vulnerability and insight, she reflects on her own six-year relationship, the self-work that’s fueled it, and the conditioning we all carry into love. From emotional triggers and intimacy to disconnection, arguments, and unconscious patterns, this episode invites listeners to rethink what a “healthy” relationship really looks like. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, Love Under the Scope is here to shine light on the hidden corners of love—and to remind you that you're not alone in the struggle to love and be loved.