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Love Better & Life Better

Love Better & Life Better

By: Shazmeen Bank
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Love Better is a safe and loving space where we talk about the real, raw parts of relationships. I’m Shazmeen, and in this podcast, I’ll be sharing my own story and the lessons I’ve learned about attachment styles, relationship healing, and self love. We’ll talk about how attachment styles shape the way we connect, the struggles of addiction your fearful or dismissive avoidant partner may have to pornography or other levels they numb feeling away, what happens when intimacy fades in sexless relationships, and how losing touch with our inner child can impact how we love. You will walk away with lessons and tools to improve your current relationships, walk away from ones that no longer serve you and learn how to build new relationships from a place of secure foundations. We will break down anxious attachment, secure attachment, fearful avoidant attachment and dismissive attachment and the deep role our attachment styles play in the way we intimately relate to others and ourselves. The key will be to grow to be more securely attached. But most importantly, I’ll be here offering support, kindness, and compassion as we explore how to heal these wounds. My hope is that through these conversations, you’ll feel seen, heard, and empowered to rebuild the love and connection you deserve—starting with yourself. I wanted to create a podcast that felt like you are talking and listening to a friend. One that cares deeply for your ability to love better. We will dive deep into how our attachment styles hold a foundation for a lot of the decisions we make. You will gain an insight into your "why's" and learn from a place of no judgement. You will learn how to communicate better, resolve challenges and handle conflict from a new perspective. I hope you enjoy listening to this podcast whilst on a walk, jog, in the tub or taking yourself on a date. Lets get vulnerable together and as we heal remember we can love better. NO more blaming, critiquing and shaming yourself and your partner.


Life better is a segment that drops every Thursday and will teach you self mastery, mastering emotions and how to take responsibility of your life. I will give you tools you can use weekly to grow into the version of "self" you are born to be.

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Episodes
  • "Betrayal & Infidelity Q&A: The Pain, the Healing, and the Hard Truths"
    Jul 17 2025

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    In this Q&A episode, Shazmeen Bank delves into the complexities of infidelity, betrayal, and the emotional turmoil that follows. She addresses listener questions about the pain of being cheated on, the impact of infidelity on children, and the importance of self-worth and accountability in relationships. Through personal stories and insights, she emphasizes the need for open communication, healing, and the courage to move on from unhealthy relationships. Shazmeen encourages listeners to prioritize their emotional health and to seek relationships that foster growth and mutual respect.

    Takeaways

    • Infidelity reveals deep wounds and unhealed parts of ourselves.
    • Communication is key in addressing infidelity and rebuilding trust.
    • Children are deeply affected by their parents' relationship dynamics.
    • Healing from betrayal requires self-reflection and personal growth.
    • It's important to set standards for honesty and accountability in relationships.
    • Repetitive cheating indicates a need for serious self-evaluation.
    • Self-worth is crucial in navigating relationships after betrayal.
    • Understanding attachment styles can help in relationship dynamics.
    • Moving on from long-term relationships can be challenging but necessary.
    • Bravery is required to lead relationships towards healing and growth.

    Thank you for listening to this Q&A episode on betrayal, infidelity, and the road to healing. it means so much to me to have you trust me read your questions and answer them. Your questions allow so many scared to ask, listen and feel seen and not alone in their problem.

    This podcast is to grow a community of people that feel safe to share and grow.

    If this episode spoke to you, or if you’re sitting in the middle of heartbreak right now, please know this: you’re not alone, and you don’t have to carry this pain by yourself.

    If you want to keep learning, healing, and growing with me, make sure to follow me on social media.

    I share daily insights, videos, and tools to help you love better and live better.


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    And if you loved this episode, please leave a review, share it with someone who needs it, and subscribe so you never miss a moment of real talk and healing.

    I’ll see you in the next episode.

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • "What Your Partner Needs After You’ve Cheated And How to Show Up"
    Jul 14 2025

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    In this episode, Shazmeen Bank delves into the complex emotions and challenges faced by couples dealing with betrayal and infidelity. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the pain of both the betrayed and the betrayer, and outlines the steps necessary for healing, including atonement, attunement, and rebuilding trust. Shazmeen encourages open communication, emotional support, and the need for both partners to take responsibility for their healing journey. The episode serves as a guide for those navigating the tumultuous aftermath of infidelity, offering hope and practical advice for rebuilding relationships.

    Takeaways:

    • Dealing with infidelity is complex and not black and white.
    • There is no shame in trying to make a relationship work after betrayal.
    • Atonement involves genuine remorse and understanding the pain caused.
    • Attunement requires actively engaging with your partner's emotional needs.
    • Rebuilding trust takes time and consistent effort from both partners.
    • Coping mechanisms like journaling and physical movement can aid healing.
    • Support systems are crucial for both the betrayed and the betrayer.
    • It's important to create a safe space for open communication.
    • Healing is a journey that may involve ups and downs.
    • Both partners must be willing to work towards a new relationship dynamic.

    "If this episode helped you, or if you're navigating the aftermath of betrayal right now, know that you're not alone. Healing is possible but it takes honesty, patience, and showing up the right way.

    If you’d like more tools for rebuilding trust, understanding attachment, or working through relationship repair, make sure you’re following me on all platforms.

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/shazmeenbank

    TikTok:

    https://www.tiktok.com/@shazmeenbank

    Watch the full video podcast on YouTube:
    YouTube.com/@shazmeenbank

    For coaching or collaboration inquiries:
    📧 Email: shazmeen@shazmeenbank.com

    And if you’re listening on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, leaving a review really helps this message reach more people who need it.

    "Betrayal breaks more than trust, it shakes the entire foundation of a relationship. But if you're the one who hurt your partner, there are ways to begin repairing the damage. This episode is for you."

    🎧 Listen now on Love Better (Spotify, Apple, or YouTube)

    #LoveBetterPodcast #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #RelationshipHealing #CheatingRecovery #AttachmentStyles #SelfHealing #EmotionalRepair #RelationshipAdvice

    See you in the next episode of Love Better.

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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • “Time To Break The Shame That Keeps You Inside a Trauma Bond."
    Jul 7 2025

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    In this episode of the Love Better Podcast, Shazmeen Bank addresses the struggles of individuals in toxic and abusive relationships. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's worth, understanding the cycle of abuse, and finding the strength to leave unhealthy situations. Through personal anecdotes and insights, she encourages listeners to embrace their vulnerability and work towards healing and self-love. The episode serves as a heartfelt reminder that no one deserves to be in a relationship that diminishes their spirit and that there is hope for a brighter future.

    Takeaways:

    • Many people struggle with leaving toxic relationships.
    • Anxious attachment can lead to unhealthy relationship dynamics.
    • It's important to recognize when a relationship is abusive.
    • You are not responsible for the other person's behavior.
    • Healing takes time and support from others.
    • You deserve to be in a healthy and loving relationship.
    • Emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse.
    • Setting boundaries is crucial for self-preservation.
    • You are worthy of love and respect.
    • It's okay to seek help and share your story.

    Listen, you are not alone. you are great and I know your about to begin your greatest chapter. Love yourself! Love Better!


    • 💬 Loved this episode?
      If you’re stuck in a relationship that feels like love but keeps breaking you, know this: you are not alone, and there is a way through.
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    1 hr and 3 mins

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