Hey friends, today we’ve got something special for you: a bonus episode straight from the Pardon the Mess podcast!

Every Monday, host Courtney DeFeo shares a short prayer to help you lift up your kids. This year’s series follows Christian Parenting’s brand new prayer journal, A Great Cloud of Witnesses.

Each week highlights a biblical hero of the faith, paired with Scripture-based prayers for your kids. Here is a sneak peek into week one:

This first week is all about Noah—a man of incredible faith and obedience. While the world around him turned away from God, Noah walked in righteousness. Building the ark probably looked foolish to everyone else, but Noah trusted God’s word even when it didn’t make sense. That’s the kind of faith we want for our kids: to listen to God’s voice over any others and walk confidently with Him even when it means standing apart.

If you love this episode and don’t have your copy of A Great Cloud of Witnesses yet, it’s not too late to get yours! Go ChristianParenting.org to get your copy and follow along. And don’t forget to tune in to Pardon the Mess every Monday for more prayer episodes.

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What if the “Jesus” you’ve been following isn’t the Jesus of the Bible? In this episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay Holland talks with Shane Pruitt—National Next Gen Director for the North American Mission Board and author of the brand-new Bible study Not My Jesus: Reclaiming the Truth, Rejecting the Idols—about how cultural counterfeits of Jesus can creep into our homes, churches, and parenting.

Shane shares powerful insights from decades in student ministry and parenting six children (four through adoption), along with stories of walking through profound joy and deep grief. Together, Jay and Shane explore:

• Common false versions of Jesus such as:



• Eternity-Only Jesus – cares only about your afterlife, not your daily walk.

• American Dream Jesus – blesses comfort, accumulation, and nationalism over mission.

• Non-Judgmental Jesus – loves but never calls for repentance.

• Comfortable Jesus – keeps life safe and easy, rather than calling us into obedience and sacrifice.

• National Jesus – conflates the Kingdom of God with any earthly nation.

• How parents may unintentionally model a counterfeit Christ through their attitudes and actions.

• Why your family’s faith is “caught” more than it’s taught.

• How to lead your kids in authentic discipleship by living consistently for Jesus at home and in public.

• The danger of making comfort the measure of God’s blessing—and how to evaluate if you’re living beyond yourself on mission.

• A biblical view of love that both accepts us as we are and calls us to holiness.

Shane and Jay also talk about practical ways to stay anchored in Scripture, model genuine faith for your kids, and resist the cultural pull to create a Jesus in our own image.

Shane serves as the National Next Gen Director for the North American Mission Board, leading ministry to students and young adults across more than 50,000 churches. He’s a sought-after conference speaker, podcast host, and the author of 9 Common Lies Christians Believe and Calling Out the Called. His latest Bible study, Not My Jesus, is available in both student and adult editions and helps believers spot cultural distortions of Christ and embrace the true Savior found in the Gospels.

Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Resources mentioned:

Resources & Links:

• Check out www.youthministry.coach

• Daily Devotional Podcast Guided by Faith: www.guidedbyfaith.net

• Get Not My Jesus (adult and student versions): https://amzn.to/4mPefFT

• Follow Shane Pruitt: Instagram | X/Twitter | Website

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In this powerful and uplifting conversation, Jay Holland sits down with beloved pastor and best-selling author Max Lucado to explore the themes of his newest book, Tame Your Thoughts. With decades of pastoral experience and 40+ books to his name, Max shares deep biblical wisdom and practical tools to help both adults and children manage their thought lives through faith and truth.

Together, Jay and Max discuss:

• Why our internal narratives shape our lives—and how to rewrite them

• How brain science is finally catching up to biblical truth

• Three powerful tools for mental and emotional health:

1. Practice Picky Thinking
2. Identify UFOs (Untruths → False Narratives → Overreactions)
3. Uproot and Replant with Scripture

• How lies about identity and failure can derail both teens and parents

• Why recognizing and correcting our own thought patterns as parents can transform our relationships

• The surprising story behind Max Lucado’s first tattoo at age 70 (hint: it’s a Greek word from the cross)

This episode is packed with insight, encouragement, and tools to help you and your family live freer, more Christ-centered lives.

• “You get to control the story in your head, but the story in your head will control you.” – Jay Holland

• Belief leads to behavior. Shaping your belief begins by shaping your thoughts.

• Studies show people with a belief in a loving God recover from disease at exponentially higher rates.

• Scripture and neuroscience both affirm that your brain can be renewed.

• Parental overreactions often stem from unexamined false narratives—recognize and replace them with truth.

• Teaching your kids to identify untruths and replant with Scripture equips them for lifelong emotional resilience.

• Proverbs 4:23 – "Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts."

• Romans 12:2 – "Be transformed by the renewing of your mind..."

• Philippians 4:8 – “Whatever is true... think about such things.”

• Romans 8:1 – “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

• Step 1: Practice Picky Thinking – Don’t believe every thought you think. Guard your mind’s door.

• Step 2: Identify UFOs – Trace overreactions back to false narratives and root lies.

• Step 3: Uproot and Replant – Replace toxic thoughts with Scripture and truth.

Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Bio

Max Lucado is a pastor, speaker, and best-selling author of more than 40 books for adults and children. Known for his warmth, biblical insight, and storytelling, Max’s work has encouraged millions to embrace the grace of God. He serves as Teaching Pastor at Oak Hills Church in San Antonio, Texas, and continues to write, speak, and share God’s love globally.

Resources mentioned:

Tame Your Thoughts by Max Lucado – Available wherever books are sold

MaxLucado.com – Devotions, YouTube channel Fresh Hope, and more

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