• Are They Really Your Friend?
    Jul 22 2025

    In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of friendship and ask the tough questions. Are friendship rosters a sign of immaturity or just boundaries with style? Do some women intentionally keep their friends single? Should loyalty mean cutting someone off just because your friend did? And could you be with someone who doesn’t believe in giving gifts at all? We break it all down with honesty, laughs, and real-life takes. We get into this ad much more. Tap in—you might rethink your circle after this one. Sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.


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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • The Art of Emotional Detachment
    Jul 8 2025

    In this episode, the crew dives deep into The Art of Emotional Detachment—when it’s healthy, when it’s harmful, and why so many people are mastering it in today’s dating scene. We also ask the tough question: Why is everybody single looking for the same thing, but nobody can seem to find it? From the struggles of the infamous “Mr. Nice Guy,” to whether accountability can actually be taught, we get real about the patterns that keep us stuck. Plus, we break down how single girlfriends might be unknowingly holding each other back from real relationships. It’s honest, unfiltered, and full of gems you don’t want to miss. So, sit back and listen as Vance, Ash and Ant make sense of it all.


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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • A Little Bit of Everything
    Feb 11 2025

    The team is back for another week, and we get into a lot of topics. We touch on the topic of trauma dumping from both views, the listener and the person that's getting the trauma dumped on them. Do opposites really attract or is that a myth? We also touch on the topic of the guy that shows up during a womans healing stage and how it can be hard for that guy. We have our "Ants Tweets" segment, black parents not letting daughters date till their 20s, bad first dates and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • No More Low Vibration Conversations
    Feb 4 2025

    Yes, we have been on a little hiatus, but your favorite podcasters are back and it's a new year! As we get back into it, we talk about which low vibration conversations we should leave in 2024. We touch on the topics of how long is too long to be in the talking stage. We also touch on having, finding, making, and spending time and what they all mean. Can someone being a breadwinner of their family cause you to not want to date them? We touch on this, things grown women love and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • What Is Your Breaking Point
    Sep 10 2024

    We missed you guys, but the team is back after a little hiatus! We get into the topic of what is someone's breaking point when it comes to relationships, friendships and just life in general. We ask the question why is the relationship only at risk when the woman is unhappy? Are men softer or are women harder in today's society? Is love a good enough reason to stay in a relationship? We get into these topics, our "Make Sense of this Scenario", "Ant's Tweets" segments, and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Experiencing People Differently
    Jul 2 2024

    The team is back after a little hiatus, and we are right back to the advice giving. We get into the topic of is it appropriate to take a significant other to a restaurant you took a previous person? Which is harder to do, moving on, letting go, or starting over? Do you believe the narrative "we experience people differently"? Is a women's sex drive based on how you treat her? Could you stay with someone if your parent didn't like you? Does having three babyfathers/baby mothers lower a person's worth? We get into this and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.

    Live Show July 14, make sure you get your tickets!!

    https://citywinery.com/philadelphia/events/lets-make-sense-of-it-presents-something-to-talk-h41po5

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Big Announcement
    May 13 2024

    Join us Vance & Ashley for our first live podcast show, a night of laughter, great conversation and special guest. Sit down with us and join in as we discuss topics on everyday life, relationships, and the craziness of the world we live In. As always we're giving, 'The truth you don't want but definitely need! Ticket Link Below!!!

    https://citywinery.com/philadelphia/events/lets-make-sense-of-it-presents-something-to-talk-h41po5




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    1 min
  • Trauma Survivors
    Apr 23 2024

    The team is back for another episode as we speak on the topic of being a trauma survivor. Whether its everyday life trauma, relationship trauma, family trauma etc. we speak on it all. We also speak on the topic of different types of anxiety and how certain things can affect your everyday life. We get into what are the signs that a woman and a man need to mature. Women hate to see another woman bring the best out of a man she failed with, do you agree? We speak on these topics and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.

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    1 hr and 4 mins