In this episode, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel dive into a conversation many believers struggle with but rarely unpack honestly: forgiveness, boundaries, and what it really means to "lock the door." Together, they explore the difference between accountability and access, and why setting boundaries can be both biblical and necessary for healing. With transparency and spiritual insight, they break down how forgiveness is freedom, and how wisdom and wholeness work together in our walk with God.

What We Talk About:

• Can you forgive and still protect your peace?
• What does it look like to release offense without reopening the same door?
• Forgiveness does not automatically mean restored access
• Navigating forgiveness when it's your spouse, children, or family
• Can you "lock the door" and still love well?
• Is it rejection or discernment?

In this heartfelt conversation, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel talk about what it truly looks like to try to live holy when life, background, circumstances, and growth are still in progress. They explore the reality that everyone’s effort does not come wrapped in perfection, polish, or “church culture,” yet God honors the sincere heart that is pressing toward Him. This episode challenges the church to create space for imperfect effort, compassion, and grace so people can grow without feeling shamed or disqualified.

What We Talk About:

• Why “trying” doesn’t always look church-ready or put together
• The danger of judging someone’s effort by outward appearance
• Remembering that what is small to us may feel enormous for someone else
• Allowing people room to mature without crushing their effort
• How God looks at the heart, while people often only see presentation
• Encouraging believers to keep trying, even when it feels imperfect

In this episode, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel dig into the importance of spiritual mentorship, discipleship, and guidance in the church. They discuss why emerging ministers, leaders, and believers need strong spiritual covering, intentional coaching, and real-life modeling rather than simply observation. Together, they explore the difference between preaching and being developed, calling and preparation, and how healthy mentorship protects the church, strengthens faith, and nurtures authentic growth in Christ.

What We Talk About:

• The role of pastors in mentoring and developing younger ministers
• Why observation alone is not enough for spiritual formation
• The difference between gifting, calling, and preparation
• How mentorship prevents unhealthy imitation and spiritual confusion
• Discipleship beyond the pulpit...Why every believer needs guidance
• Why mentoring strengthens both the church and the individual