Let's be real… Loving your spouse and actually liking them are two different things. In this episode, we're talking about some marriage advice Gabrielle Union said in her interview with Angie Martinez that got us thinking: Even after 11 years of marriage, she's still learning about her husband!We kept it light but real in this conversation. We talked about how every marriage is different, why communication matters so much to help you keep from falling out of love, and why Gabrielle said she doesn't like hanging out with couples who don't like each other. That part really stood out to us because it's true. That energy rubs off on you. We talk about that all the time. We also got into what it's like being around couples who bicker all the time (yeah, we've been there. Whew!), and why we think it's so important to actually enjoy spending time with your partner. In this episode, we cover:-What Gabrielle Union said about still learning her husband after 11 years-Why she doesn't hang around couples who don't like each other-Our own experiences with couples who bicker on trips (awkward)-The big question: Do you actually like your mate, or just tolerate them?Drop a comment and let us know: Do you like your mate? And have you ever been stuck on a trip or outing with a couple that had relationship problems who clearly didn't like each other? How did you deal with it?Welcome to the Legacy Journeys Podcast: Where Love, Life, and Laughter After 40 Take Center StageWe’re Liv and Mello, a real couple navigating the joys and challenges of love, marriage, and personal growth in midlife. On the Legacy Journeys Podcast, we spark honest conversations about dating, relationships, and building a fulfilling life together after 40. Our mission is to empower couples to deepen their connection, keep the spark alive, and leave a meaningful legacy.Every week, we bring you candid discussions, eye-opening stories, and practical wisdom on topics that matter: communication, intimacy, emotional wellness, and keeping your relationship fun, no matter your age.✅ Subscribe for new episodes filled with relatable moments, laughter, and insights.✅ Join our community of couples committed to creating lasting love.✨ Explore More:🌐 Website: http://www.LegacyJourneys.net🛍️ Merch: http://www.LegacyJourneys.net/Swag📸 Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/LegacyJourneysPodcast📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/legacyjourneys🎵 TikTok: tiktok.com/@LegacyJourneysPodcastRemember: it’s never too late to write your best love story — let’s take this journey together.Music by DJ Pocket for Serious Knock EntertainmentChapters0:00 Intro2:11 Was Gabrielle Union Right?7:06 Loving Them vs. Liking Them11:18 The Truth About Communication

Is love after 40 easier, or does it just require a different set of tools? We think so. In this episode of Legacy Journeys, we’re getting real about the importance of communication, understanding, and why counseling has been a game-changer for our marriage.We share a personal story about navigating a frustrating medical prescription issue...Proof that sometimes we may handle challenges much different from our partner and it's these times that test our patience the most! Join us as we discuss how we navigate these tension-filled moments and why representing couples over 40 is so important to our mission.In this episode, we cover:-The reality of "Love After 40" and why representation matters.-How we use counseling to strengthen our communication.-Navigating life’s daily frustrations (like pharmacy mix-ups!) together.-Why "Real Talk" is the secret ingredient to a lasting legacy.#LoveAfter40 #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #LegacyJourneys #GenXLove #MarriageCounseling #RealTalkWelcome to the Legacy Journeys Podcast YouTube channel where Love, Life, and Laughter after 40 Take Center StageWe’re Liv and Mello, a real couple navigating the joys and challenges of love, marriage, and personal growth in midlife. On the Legacy Journeys Podcast, we spark honest conversations about dating, relationships, and building a fulfilling life together after 40. Our mission is to empower couples to deepen their connection, keep the spark alive, and leave a meaningful legacy.Every week, we bring you candid discussions, eye-opening stories, and practical wisdom on topics that matter: communication, intimacy, emotional wellness, and keeping your relationship fun... No matter your age!✅ Subscribe for new episodes filled with relatable moments, laughter, and insights.✅ Join our community of couples committed to creating lasting love.✨ Explore More:🌐 Website: http://www.LegacyJourneys.net🛍️ Merch: http://www.LegacyJourneys.net/Swag📸 Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/LegacyJourneysPodcast📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/legacyjourneys🎵 TikTok: tiktok.com/@LegacyJourneysPodcastRemember: it’s never too late to write your best love story — let’s take this journey together.Music by DJ Pocket for Serious Knock EntertainmentChapters:0:00 Intro01:18 Real Talk: Welcome to Legacy Journeys03:19 Why Representation of Black Love Over 40 Matters06:05 Building a Community for Gen-X Couples06:37 The Reality of Dating & Marriage in Midlife18:36 Why We Choose Marriage Counseling (And You Should Too)28:06 Storytime: When Life Stress Tests Your Partnership49:28 Relationship Advice: How to Articulate Your Needs01:13:16 How Love Languages Change as We Mature

What started as a simple intimacy game became a meaningful conversation about communication in relationships, emotional awareness, and how couples work through things together.In this episode of the Legacy Journeys Podcast, we sit down and play a card game called "Intimacy" designed to spark deeper connection. The questions lead us into honest dialogue about boundaries, public affection, personal insecurities, financial stress, and how easily words can be misunderstood when emotions are involved.This episode highlights what it looks like to stay present, listen with intention, and communicate through moments that matter. It is lighthearted, reflective, and rooted in growth...You can literally see it!If you are in a committed relationship, remarried, dating with intention, or focused on building emotional intimacy with your partner, this conversation will resonate with you.Welcome to the Legacy Journeys Podcast, Where Love, Life, and Laughter After 40 Take Center StageWe’re Liv and Mello, a real couple navigating the joys and challenges of love, marriage, and personal growth in midlife. On the show, we spark honest conversations about dating, relationships, and building a fulfilling life together. Our mission is to empower couples to deepen their connection, keep the spark alive, and leave a meaningful legacy.Every week, we bring you candid discussions, eye-opening stories, and practical wisdom on topics that matter: communication, intimacy, emotional wellness, and keeping your relationship fun, no matter your age.✅ Subscribe for new episodes filled with relatable moments, laughter, and insights.✅ Join our community of couples committed to creating lasting love.✨ Explore More:🌐 Website: http://www.LegacyJourneys.net🛍️ Merch: http://www.LegacyJourneys.net/Swag📸 Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/LegacyJourneysPodcast📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/legacyjourneys🎵 TikTok: tiktok.com/@LegacyJourneysPodcastRemember: it’s never too late to write your best love story — let’s take this journey together.Music by DJ Pocket for Serious Knock EntertainmentChapters0:00 Intro2:00 Matching Pajamas and Catching Up8:40 Playing the Intimacy Game19:05 Triggers and Communication Styles29:38 Deep Questions and Real Answers