Authenticity and Connection: Transforming Public Speaking with Marianne Hickman

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, host John welcomes Marianne Hickman to discuss the importance of authenticity, connection, and ethical speaking in public presentations. They explore issues such as trauma dumping, the power of telling stories from scars, and why confidence without competence can be detrimental. Marianne emphasises the sacredness of the microphone and shares insights on the 'Utah bro' archetype and the Dunning-Kruger effect. The conversation also delves into how humour, open mics, and even onstage mishaps can enhance teaching and engagement. They advocate for continuous learning and maintaining a 'white belt' mentality as they navigate public speaking and personal growth.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Cutting Through Stage Fakery: Real Influence You Can Trust

00:55 Welcome to Present Influence: Live with Marianne Hickman

02:13 The Sacredness of the Microphone: Stories from Scars, Not Wounds

04:46 The Utah Bro Archetype and the Dangers of Manipulation

10:20 The Power of Humour and Authenticity in Public Speaking

11:45 Embracing Comedy: Lessons from Mr Rogers and Robin Williams

20:39 The Yes, And Principle: Turning Mishaps into Moments

28:32 Taking the Pressure Off: Embracing Imperfection

29:55 Facing High-Stakes Situations with Confidence

32:48 Finding Your People: The Importance of Authenticity

38:26 The Role of Confidence in Influence

41:46 The Lifelong Student: Embracing Humility

49:14 The Power of Confidence: A Personal Story

52:16 Final Thoughts and How to Connect

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