Are We Dating or Performing? How to Stop Ghosting, Guessing & Getting Hurt

A real-talk dating podcast that feels like a friends podcast—equal parts feel-good, spicy debates, and honest relationship discussions. On this episode of Love & Lies, an NFL vet, a male model, and our hosts unpack love vs. lust, ghosting, high-value men, emotional intelligence, and the balance of masculinity/femininity. We get candid about intimacy & satisfaction, custody & fatherhood, ambition vs. beauty, and how to stop repeating childhood patterns in modern dating. If you’re searching for a new relationships podcast with laughter, depth, and take-home tools, this episode delivers.

Perfect for listeners who:

•want debates that don’t devolve,

•like a feel-good, friends-hanging-out vibe,

•are curious how pro athletes / high-expectation men date,

•crave actionable tools for better love, communication, and trust.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Dating Pro Athletes and Male Models: Real Talk About Modern Love

02:20 – The Meaning of Dap: Respect, Energy, and Connection in Dating

04:50 – Horoscope Signs and Relationship Compatibility Explained

09:30 – Male Friendship, Loyalty, and Brotherhood in Dating Life

13:20 – Why Men Are More Loyal to Their Barbers Than Their Girlfriends

18:10 – Attraction Myths: Do Handsome Men Really Have More Women?

20:30 – Lust vs Love Explained: What Men Really Want in Relationships

25:00 – Why Beautiful Women Without Ambition Disappoint High-Value Men

30:30 – Ambition vs Beauty: What Men Respect Most in a Woman

36:20 – The Queen vs Princess Debate: Wife Material vs Surface-Level Dating

45:00 – Purpose Over Love: Why Men Choose Mission Before Relationships

50:10 – Game Planning Love: Building Relationships Like a Partnership

54:40 – Money, Ambition, and The True Cost of Building a Life Together

59:20 – NFL Mindset: Discipline, Grit, and Surviving the Odds in Love and Life

01:06:00 – Resilience, Confidence, and Dating Lessons From Pro Athletes

01:13:00 – Discipline, Childhood Programming, and Rewiring Your Mind

01:19:00 – Confidence and Presence: Walking With High-Value Energy

01:22:00 – Mommy and Daddy Issues: Childhood Wounds in Dating and Love

01:26:00 – Brutal Honesty in Dating: Building Long-Term Love Without Games

01:31:40 – Do Men Get Better With Age? Value Shifts in Dating and Marriage

01:36:20 – Beauty vs Self-Worth: Why Women Must Offer More Than Looks

01:40:00 – Final Reflections: Emotional Intelligence, Love, and What Men Want

Welcome to the LOVE AND LIES Podcast—where raw truth, emotional intelligence, and real talk about dating and relationships collide.

In this episode, we sit down with an NFL veteran and a top male model to uncover the unfiltered reality of love, intimacy, and modern dating. From lust vs love, to the queen vs princess vs “bad bitch” debate, to why ambition matters more than beauty, this conversation exposes how high-value men really see women—and what women miss when they rely on looks instead of self-worth.

We dive into:

•Why beautiful women disappoint men without ambition or self-awareness

•How to recognize the difference between lust and real love

•Why men are more loyal to their barbers than their girlfriends

•The truth about dating pro athletes and men with options

•Emotional intelligence, confidence, and self-respect in relationships

•What truly makes a woman “queen material”

If you’ve been searching for a podcast that gives you the truth about dating, relationships, love, sex, self-awareness, and emotional growth all in one place, this is your new obsession.

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•Real stories that inspire, heal, and wake you up

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Dating Pro Athletes and Male Models: Real Talk About Modern Love

03:00 – The Meaning of Dap and Energy Transfer in Relationships

07:20 – Horoscopes, Zodiac Signs, and How Men See Compatibility

11:50 – Male Friendship, Brotherhood, and Loyalty in Dating and Life

15:40 – Why Men Are More Loyal to Their Barbers Than Their Girlfriends

18:00 – Do Handsome Men Have Fewer Women? Attraction vs Reality

20:30 – Lust vs Love Explained: How Men Decide What’s Real

25:00 – Dating Beautiful Women Without Ambition: The #1 Male Disappointment

30:30 – Ambition vs Beauty in Dating: What High-Value Men Really Respect

36:20 – The Queen vs Princess Debate: What Makes a Woman Wife Material

45:00 – Purpose vs Love: Why Men Choose Mission Over Relationships

50:10 – Relationship Game Planning: Building Love Like a Partnership

54:40 – Money, Ambition, and The True Cost of Building a Life Together

59:20 – NFL Mindset: Discipline, Grit, and Surviving the Odds in Love and Life

01:06:00 – Resilience and Confidence: Lessons From Pro Athletes

01:13:00 – Discipline, Childhood Programming, and Rewiring Your Mind

01:19:00 – Confidence, Presence, and Walking in High-Value Energy

01:22:00 – Mommy and Daddy Issues: Childhood Wounds in Love and Dating

01:26:00 – Brutal Honesty in Dating: Building Long-Term Love Without Games

01:31:40 – Aging, Value, and Why Men Improve While Women Lose Time

01:36:20 – Beauty vs Self-Worth: Why Women Must Offer More Than Looks

01:40:00 – Final Reflections: Emotional Intelligence, Love, and What Men Want

In this episode of the Love and Lies Podcast, our anonymous guest shares his confessions and dives deep into a world of group encounters. " Alex" a business owner and husband who shares his experiences with group s*x and relationships. From his early s*xual explorations in high school to navigating the complexities of college hookups, Alex discusses the importance of consent, communication, and s*xual confidence. He shares stories of his fivesome experience, the dynamics of group s*x, and how his past relationships shaped his views on monogamy and open relationships. Some marriage could never survive off this dynamic , what does that say?? DO YOU HAVE MOMMY AND DADDY IZZUES™ ? Take the free test here:https://izzues.scoreapp.com

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Are you secretly ruining your own love life? In this episode of the Love & Lies Podcast, dating coach Adam Lyons joins me to expose the signs of self-sabotage in dating and relationships.If you’ve ever wondered why your relationships keep falling apart, or why you push away love even when you want it most, this conversation is your wake-up call.

We break down the hidden patterns of fear, insecurity, and emotional habits that destroy intimacy — and how to finally break free.

🔑 What you’ll learn in this episode:

The #1 way people sabotage healthy relationships

Emotional blind spots that keep you stuck in toxic cycles

How to recognize when YOU are the problem (and how to stop)

A fresh perspective on love, trust, and emotional intelligence

This isn’t just dating advice — it’s your chance to take control of your emotional patterns and finally get the love you deserve.

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"Self-sabotage is not about fearing failure; it's about fearing success." "You can't do it yourself; you need someone to point out the lies you tell yourself

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Chapters00:00 Understanding Self-Sabotage06:08 Patterns of Self-Sabotage in Relationships12:09 The Role of Confidence in Dating17:51 Identifying Personal Criteria in Relationships23:59 The Importance of Realistic Expectations29:54 Choosing the Right Partner36:05 The Prize of Selectivity in Dating40:03 Attraction Beyond Looks42:51 Navigating Relationships and Friendships47:04 Understanding Self-Sabotage50:05 The Role of Testosterone in Desire56:12 Communication and Relationship Dynamics59:53 The Love and Lies in Personal Stories

What if your past didn’t define you — but prepared you for something greater? This powerful episode of the LOVE AND LIES Podcast shares the true story of Jeffrey Morgan, who went from childhood abuse, hunger, and life on the streets, to years in prison for bank robbery… and ultimately turned it all into purpose, leadership, and freedom.

This conversation is for anyone who has ever struggled with their past, felt stuck in survival mode, or wondered if real change is possible. It’s more than just a story — it’s a roadmap for self-awareness, healing, and building a life you love.

In this episode you’ll discover:

• The difference between self-awareness and survival mode

• How childhood trauma shapes patterns we must break

• Why confidence is the key to freedom

• How discipline, self-mastery, and emotional intelligence change everything

• Proof that transformation and redemption are possible — no matter where you start

Whether you’re looking for motivation, self-development, inspiration, or confirmation of how far you’ve come, this story will remind you: you are not your past. You are your choices today.

If this moved you, subscribe to the LOVE AND LIES Podcast for more raw, unfiltered conversations that inspire you to face the lies, find the truth, and step into the most powerful version of yourself.

Guest: Jeffrey Morgan - Global Leadership Strategist

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Host: Mjaie Mangus

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CHAPTERS:

0:00 – Introduction: Confidence, Discipline & Leadership
2:00 – Body as a Reflection of Choices
4:30 – Confidence = Freedom
6:00 – Prisoner of the Mindset vs. True Freedom
9:00 – Breaking Comparison & Living Your Own Life
12:00 – Transformation Takes Daily Effort (3,650 Steps)
14:00 – Jeffrey’s Childhood: Abuse & Chaos at Home
16:00 – Choosing the Streets Over Abuse
19:30 – Hunger, Survival & Stealing to Eat
23:00 – Hurt People, Hurt People: Understanding Trauma
26:00 – Boxing With Police: Building Community & Trust
30:00 – Intimacy, Relationships & Leadership in Life
33:00 – Growing Up in Survival Mode
36:00 – Bank Robberies, Luxury Cars & Escaping the System
43:00 – Respect Among Criminals & Police Encounters
46:00 – Mentorship: Talking to the Next Generation
50:00 – Prison Lessons: Learning From Accountants & Leaders
54:00 – Redefining Success, Marriage & Discipline
59:00 – Self-Love, Lies We Tell, and Living Authentically
1:05:00 – Building a GPS for Your Life
1:12:00 – Defining Happiness & Designing Your Life
1:19:00 – Power of Environment: Change or Stay the Same
1:23:00 – Lessons From Prison: Self-Education & Discipline
1:29:00 – If I Can, You Can: Transformation is Possible
1:33:00 – The Love, The Lie, The Truth
1:42:00 – Closing: Choosing Freedom Over Survival

SHOW NOTES: This episode is a roller coaster ride exploring dating, relationships and life! The challenges of maintaining trust in a digital age, our hosts explore how online interactions can both connect and divide us. Join us as we discuss the nuances of digital communication, the pressures of online personas, and the quest for genuine connection in a worlddominated by screens. Tune in for an insightful conversation that navigates the complexities of love, trust, and authenticity in the era of social media and modern love. We discuss how to hack talking dirty to your lover among other topics for sexual wellbeing. THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE

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Are you trapped in a toxic relationship and wondering if you're dating a narcissist? Raised by a narcissist parent? In this video, we'll explore the signs that may indicate you're in a relationship with a narcissist, and provide you with self-care strategies to break free from the toxic cycle. From love bombing to gaslighting effects, we'll dive into the common red flags that can help you identify if you're in a toxic relationship. Learn how to recognize the signs of codependency and take the first steps towards emotional healing. By the end of this video, you'll be equipped with the knowledge and confidence to prioritize your own emotional well-being and take back control of your life. So, if you're ready to break free from the chains of toxic love and start your journey towards healing and self-discovery, watch until the end.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Narcissism

05:54 The Lack of Empathy in Narcissism

12:05 The Mask of Narcissism

17:53 Narcissism in Professional Settings

24:09 Manipulation and Control in Relationships

32:14 The Love Bombing Stage

40:57 Identifying Red Flags in Relationships

48:30 The Target of Narcissists

54:04 Mimicking Emotions and Manipulation

01:00:57 The Illusion of Intimacy with Narcissists

01:09:53 The Chemical Dynamics of Love and Control

01:24:54 Breaking Down Trauma Bonds

01:30:45 The Role of Ego in Toxic Relationships

01:40:15 The Roots of Narcissism

01:49:18 The Life Sentence of Narcissism

01:55:03 The Illusion of Change in Narcissists

02:00:04 Understanding Narcissistic Relationships

02:05:33 Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

02:11:07 Gaslighting and Manipulation

02:18:48 The Effects on Children of Narcissistic Parents

02:25:45 Taking Back Your Power

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ABOUT LOVE AND LIES PODCAST:

LIFE COACH and lighthearted host ❤M'JAIE MANGUS❤ in her provocative talk show covers topics that range from sugar daddies, suicide to success and everything in between! Guests opt in to be anonymous or not so anonymous in order to share the truth and empower listeners. SIGNATURE ANONYMOUS INTERVIEWS are modeled after Oscar Wilde's quote, “If you give a man a mask he will tell you everything”. In these interviews the guests remain anonymous and tell all.

LOVE AND LIES PODCAST was inspired by Mjaie’s life and love coaching practice. These episodes are NOT coaching sessions but are interviews hosted by Mjaie and with people whom she finds fascinating and feels their story will educate us, aid us in progress to understand one another while breaking down barriers as we set aside judgment for a better self and world.

M and Friends is brought to you by Love and Lies Podcast and is pure entertainment for listeners as guests go over debates and advice.

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