On November 14th, 2025, 14-year-old Kylie Toberman was reported missing in Vandalia, Illinois. Hours later, her body was discovered right behind her own home.

Kylie was a bright middle schooler and her wrestling team's "most improved wrestler." When her adoptive mother left for medical treatment, she left Kylie and her sisters in the care of 43-year-old Arnold Rivera Jr.—a man with a disturbing criminal history including charges of child sexual abuse.

Months before Kylie's death, warnings about Arnold's interactions with Kylie were reported to DCFS. They were ignored.

This is a story about a child failed at every turn—by family, by the system, and by adults who looked the other way.

**This episode contains content involving sexual violence against a child.

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Fundraiser for Megan Zeller by Tiffany Walker : Help Kylie’s family seek justice!

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