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  • 278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

    278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
    Mar 10 2026
    We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can start sharing it better to make sex great again! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Better Share Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself The Flirtation Experiment ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Opening and setup — 0:00–1:12 Sponsor break and guest intro — 1:12–2:04 Guest background and motivation — 2:04–7:01 Defining the mental load and its three domains — 7:01–12:54 The triple threat and implications for home life — 12:54–15:58 Externalizing the mental load and renegotiation as a team — 15:58–16:56 Mental load and sex dynamics — 16:56–23:07 Practical fairness conversations and communication — 23:07–28:03 Narration experiments and practical tools (appreciation, storytelling, and experiments) — 28:03–41:13 Closing, resources, and prayer — 41:52–44:27 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 mins
  • 277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas

    277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas
    Mar 2 2026
    We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Tune in as Lindsey Maestas opens up about her journey through the ups and downs of marriage, sharing real-life tips on how to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive. Lindsey's insights are super practical, so whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or just need a little encouragement, this conversation is for you! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Living Easy with Lindsey podcast Don’t Burn Your Own House Down Ruthless Elimination of Hurry Atomic Habits @livingeasywithlindsey ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Sponsor Break - 0:28 Introduction of Guest: Lindsey Maestas - 0:34 Lindsey's Background and Book Introduction - 1:25 Discussion on Marriage and Relationships - 2:04 Lindsey's Personal Story and Challenges - 4:27 Marriage Challenges and Overcoming Them - 6:15 Importance of Intimacy and Connection - 12:24 Practical Tips for Marriage - 13:12 The Role of Prayer in Marriage - 16:54 The Impact of Technology on Relationships - 37:18 Final Thoughts and Closing Prayer - 47:56 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    49 mins
  • 276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other

    276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other
    Feb 23 2026
    We love our listeners, and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! https://forms.gle/2bYPts9fi1aBP8saA Want to vote on which episodes release? Become a patron today! Can having sex when you're in the middle of a disagreement be a helpful tool...? Is "make-up sex" actually better than normal sex? Tune in as the KS team explores how heart posture affects intimacy and practical ways to foster connection amidst ongoing conflicts. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Called to Peace Ministries ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Title and Listener Engagement - 0:35 Verse of the Day - 1:03 Disclaimer on Conflict and Abuse - 1:28 Setting the Scene: Conflict and Intimacy - 2:19 Initial Reactions to the Episode Topic - 2:37 Discussion on Sex During Conflict - 3:05 Story from "Awaken Love" - 4:01 Personal Experiences and Reactions - 5:14 Exploring Anger and Intimacy - 10:38 Physical and Emotional Responses - 11:07 Conflict Resolution Strategies - 18:21 Compromise and Communication - 20:48 Makeup Sex and Emotional Intensity - 23:32 Sex as a Relationship Glue - 26:48 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 27:46 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 mins
  • 275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove

    275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove
    Feb 16 2026
    We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares his personal journey of healing from trauma, balancing leadership in church planting, and intentionally leading his family. He shares practical advice on nurturing emotional health, fostering deep relationships as men, and becoming the man God has called you to be! Resources: Use the code KINGDOM15 and get 15% of all products at Lead Your Home @leadyourhome ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Podcast Introduction by Kyle - 0:39 Introduction of Guest, Landon Hargrove - 1:27 Landon's Background and Story - 1:36 Journey into Church Planting - 4:01 Challenges and Personal Struggles - 7:31 Realization and Change - 9:21 Importance of Family and Personal Health - 10:19 Balancing Career and Family - 12:05 Leading from a Place of Identity - 13:06 Steps for Men to Start Leading - 18:10 Finding Balance and Managing Tension - 22:32 Importance of Community and Friendship - 40:10 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 52:27 Where to Find Landon and Resources - 54:29 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 mins
  • 274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser

    274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser
    Feb 9 2026
    If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/kingdom We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with our show! In this episode, we explore how generational patterns and wounds impact our understanding of sexuality, marriage, and family life. Brook Mosser shares insightful perspectives on recognizing these cycles, involving God in the healing process, and practical steps to create a legacy of health and wholeness for the next generation!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Habits of the Household Ronald Rolheiser Sacred Fire Brook Mossers prayer book Intentionalparents.org Intentionalfatherhood.org ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Episode Timestamps Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Guest Introduction: Brooke Mosser - 1:02 Discussion on Generational Patterns - 2:41 Brooke's Personal Story and Family Background - 3:10 Understanding Generational Sin and Curses - 5:21 Epigenetics and Trauma - 8:09 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex - 10:16 Creating a Healthy Sexual Culture in Families - 12:01 Balancing Parental Influence and Personal Responsibility - 24:16 Practical Steps for Healing and Involving Christ - 31:17 The Role of Therapy and Overcoming Financial Barriers - 38:09 Supporting a Spouse Through Generational Challenges - 40:54 Advice on Changing Legacy and Staying Committed - 47:42 Recommended Books and Resources - 50:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement - 53:36 Closing Prayer - 57:12 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 273: Christians Are Missing God's Design for Sex, Food, and Rest with Justin Whitmel Earley

    273: Christians Are Missing God's Design for Sex, Food, and Rest with Justin Whitmel Earley
    Feb 2 2026
    Unlock the secret to growth with Justin Whitmel Earley as he reveals how everyday physical practices like breathing and eating can transform your spiritual life! Dive into this episode to discover how your body can teach your soul, leading to a life full of gratitude and joy. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Friendship, Sex, and the Way of Jesus with Justin Whitmel Earley Does More Sleep = More Sex? Our Products: Habit Guide Resources: Habits of The Household Made For People The Body Teaches The Soul JustinWhitmelEarley.com @JustinWhitmelEarley ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamp: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Guest Introduction: Justin Whitmel Earley - 1:34 Discussion on Habits and Spirituality - 2:38 The Importance of Physical and Spiritual Disciplines - 5:09 Breathing and Its Spiritual Significance - 8:06 The Metaphor of the Body as a Garden - 15:16 Feasting as a Spiritual Discipline - 20:28 Date Night and Its Importance - 27:35 Ordinary Fare and Eating for Love - 30:14 Discussion on the Chapter about Sex - 35:05 The Importance of Sleep - 40:41 Closing and Prayer - 46:25 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    51 mins
  • 272: The Love Language That Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman

    272: The Love Language That Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman
    Jan 26 2026
    This episode is sponsored by the Cozy Earth! ⁠Click here⁠ to get your luxurious Cozy Earth products for up to 20% off! Give yourself the gift of comfort this year! **GIVEAWAY CLOSED** Use the code KINGDOM to get $5 off the Premium 5 Love Languages Assessment before February 28, 2026! Join us for an enlightening episode with Dr. Gary Chapman as we explore the profound impact of the Five Love Languages on relationships worldwide. Discover how personalizing how you love on your spouse can transform your connection, and why his latest book is set to be a game-changer for couples everywhere!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Is There A 6th Love Language?? Our Products: Love Language Date Night Resources: The 5 Love Languages Book The Love Language That Matters Most ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Episode Timestamps Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast - 00:45 Getting to Know Dr. Gary Chapman - 11:02 The Origin of the Five Love Languages - 23:05 Impact and Reach of the Five Love Languages - 43:13 Understanding Love Language Fluency - 58:55 Exploring the Five Love Languages - 78:27 The New Book's Central Premise - 92:58 Final Thoughts and Closing - 109:20 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 mins
  • 271: Have A Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

    271: Have A Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
    Jan 19 2026
    This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth! ⁠Click here⁠ to get your luxurious Cozy Earth products for up to 20% off! Give yourself the gift of comfort this year! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis join the KS team to discuss the importance of prioritizing marriage during the many seasons of life. They share insights on maintaining intimacy, debunk myths about marriage, and so much more. Want a marriage that is naked in every way? Tune in! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Seasons of Sex Dave & Ashley’s Website Do Marriage Better @daveandashleywillis ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 00:45 Special Guest Introduction- 01:05 Guest Background and Introduction- 01:38 Discussion on Marriage Ministry- 02:48 Origin of Naked Marriage- 05:55 Current Challenges in Marriages- 07:32 Addressing Spiritual Differences in Couples- 09:32 Myths in Christian Marriages- 11:28 Changes in Marriage Over Time- 18:37 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    48 mins