Ep.10 In this episode, we’re keeping it chaotic (as always) with my longtime bestie Carlie — and trust me, it’s a ride. From fake IDs and bar brawls to potty training and co-parenting, we dive deep into how motherhood flips your entire identity upside down. We laugh through the wildest Uber rides, spill the tea on that one questionable girls trip, and open up about the emotional weight of solo parenting, dating as a single mom, and learning how to set boundaries after heartbreak.

If you're a mom who's evolved from the party scene to preschool pickup — or you're somewhere in between — this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe texting your best friend mid-listen.

We cover:

• Girls trip chaos, fake IDs, and why we don’t travel with strangers anymore
• The emotional rollercoaster of motherhood after a breakup
• Co-parenting wins and real-talk boundaries with your ex
• Potty training fails, toddler wakeups, and parenting through exhaustion
• Why dating as a single mom is a hard pass (for now)
• Teaching our daughters what healthy love looks like

This episode is for you if:

• You’re navigating single motherhood and trying to keep your sanity intact
• You’ve outgrown your party girl era but still want to laugh about it
• You want honest, unfiltered talk about co-parenting, identity shifts, and dating post-baby
• You’re figuring out how to protect your peace and raise your daughter with intention
• You need a reminder that you’re allowed to change, grow, and set the damn tone

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📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Kayotic + meet Carlie
02:00 – If the bar bathroom walls could talk…
05:50 – Fake IDs, fights, and blackout stories
10:25 – The wildest Uber ride (and the girl who stole my bed)
16:30 – Motherhood now: potty training, moving, and starting over
23:15 – Dating as a single mom: “who has the time?!”
27:50 – Boundaries, co-parenting, and keeping things respectful
33:00 – Teaching our daughters how to spot healthy love
36:45 – Current obsessions: books, Love Island, and toddlers with DVDs
41:00 – Wrapping it all up: you’re allowed to evolve and protect your peace

Ep. 9 - In this episode, we’re getting raw, funny, and real about what it’s like to date a single mom—from the early awkward stages to building a blended family that actually works. Kaylee and her boyfriend Seth sit down for a vulnerable conversation about dating after heartbreak, breaking the “used goods” stigma, and what it takes to show up for kids who aren’t biologically yours. From single mom guilt to dad jokes and “jungle time,” this one’s packed with laughter, truth bombs, and heartfelt advice for anyone navigating love with a little extra chaos.

We cover:

• What it’s really like being a single mom trying to date again
• The fears and stigma men face when dating women with kids
• How to build trust with your partner’s kids (and survive the “you’re not my dad” stage)
• Red flags to watch for when dating as a single mom
• Why men need to stop wasting moms’ time if they’re not all in
• What real commitment to a blended family actually looks like
• Why dating a “hot mom” hits different when the jungle starts playing 😏

This episode is for you if:

• You’re a single mom who wants to date again without guilt
• You’re wondering how to blend families and make it work
• You want a partner who shows up for you and your kids
• You’re tired of low-effort men and ready to raise your standards
• You love a little romance, realness, and chaos in your earbuds 🎧
• ✨ If you’re a mom with a messy love life or a guy thinking about dating one—this one’s for you.

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📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Intro chaos, laughs, and awkward mic moments
01:00 – Finding out she was pregnant young + dealing with a toxic relationship
03:46 – Pregnancy stress, morning sickness, and single mom strength
05:21 – Andre as a baby: Lightning McQueen & toddler cuteness
06:30 – Living with parents, losing friends, and mom life at 21
07:45 – The newborn fog and dating again (with a little drama)
09:00 – “Used goods” stigma & dating fears as a new single mom
10:05 – Guys reacting to dating a mom & why it freaks some out
11:34 – Primal fears, paternity issues, and caveman-level jealousy
12:05 – Seth’s first time meeting Andre (and why Taco Bell saved the day)
13:50 – Why Seth didn’t care the kids weren’t biologically his
14:26 – Kaylee’s “no dating guys with kids” rule—and why she made it
16:00 – How step-parenting works when your partner has your back
17:50 – The turning point: respect, trust, and building family roles
19:23 – “We knew each other more than just two dates, y’all…”
20:06 – The fully developed brain test: What women really want
21:04 – Realizing men actually want families too
22:00 – The almost-crossed-paths story & banking together during Covid
23:13 – Seth’s advice to men: If you’re not committed, don’t waste her time
24:10 – Why Christmas is better with kids & making your own magic
25:28 – Moms: don’t lower your standards just because you have kids
26:25 – A message to all the meatheads: kids notice everything
27:01 – Final Q: What’s the best part of dating a hot mom?
27:20 – “When the jungle starts playing…” 🐆🔥

Ep. 8 - In this episode, we’re keeping it 100 about the messy, chaotic life of motherhood — the mom guilt, the “I’m failing” moments, and the wild ride of trying to start a creative biz while juggling all the chaos. From a funny hospital story to real talk on pushing through doubt and overwhelm, Haley gets honest about what it really takes to keep going when you feel like you’re drowning. If you’re a busy mom trying to make moves without losing your mind, this one’s for you.

We cover:

• The messy, real side of mom guilt and overwhelm
• How to keep going when you feel like you’re failing at everything
• The wild chaos of juggling motherhood and starting a creative biz
• Why it’s okay to embrace the chaos instead of trying to control it all
• Pushing through doubt and finding your own kind of hustle
• What self-care really looks like when you’re drowning in to-dos

✨ Grab your coffee (or wine), hit play, and let’s get real about motherhood, creativity, and keeping your sanity in the madness.

This episode is for you if:

• You’re a busy mom trying to make moves but feel stuck in the chaos
• You battle mom guilt and overwhelm daily (and want to feel less alone)
• You want honest, no-BS advice about balancing biz, motherhood, and yourself
• You’re ready to embrace your messy, chaotic journey instead of pretending it’s perfect

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> https://www.tiktok.com/@kay.lee.lou
> https://www.tiktok.com/@kayotic.pod

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📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Kayotic: Chaos, crying, and calling it what it is
03:15 – Closet cries & motherhood burnout: The day everything cracked
07:00 – I was made for more: The itch to create something of my own
11:32 – Working full-time, parenting, and still chasing a dream
16:18 – Why I almost quit before I started (and how I kept going)
21:40 – Real talk: relationships, mental health, and not having it all together
26:27 – Letting go of guilt and making room for passion
31:15 – What “showing up” looks like when life feels messy
35:22 – You don’t need a plan—you need permission
39:44 – Ending with love: You’re allowed to change, grow, and come undone