In this episode of Kayotic, I’m sitting down with my girl Angel and trust me… this one gets DEEP. We go all the way back to teenage chaos, fixer-upper boyfriends, DUI rock bottoms, and the relationships that shaped (and nearly broke) us. Angel opens up about choosing the wrong partners, ignoring red flags, losing herself in survival mode, and what it actually took to walk away from a marriage that wasn’t aligned anymore.

We unpack the raw, uncomfortable parts of dating toxic men, becoming a mom with someone you weren’t meant to build a life with, and the identity shift that hits you like a freight train after having a baby. Angel shares how motherhood forced her to choose stability, how divorce cracked her open, and how rebuilding her life led to the gym, healing, and eventually meeting a man who actually shows up.

If you’ve ever settled, loved someone’s potential instead of their reality, stayed too long, or felt like you had to rebuild from scratch… this episode is your reminder that choosing peace isn’t weakness, it’s power.

We cover:

• Why teenage “bad boys” felt like destiny
• Seven years in a situationship that was straight out of a trailer park
• Being the other woman without realizing how deep it went
• Marrying fast, missing red flags, and motherhood’s brutal clarity
• Divorce, shame, therapy, and learning to stop fixing broken men
• Rebuilding your identity through fitness, sobriety, and soul-searching
• Dating after divorce + unhinged Hinge stories (Stroke Boy… we’re looking at you)
• Meeting Trevor, letting love in again, and unlearning survival mode

This episode is for you if:
You’re healing from a toxic relationship, navigating co-parenting chaos, rebuilding after heartbreak, or rewriting your life as a woman and a mother who finally knows her worth.

📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Intro + “How did I end up here?”
01:30 – Angel’s childhood + fixer-upper boy pattern
03:45 – The 7-year toxic situationship & being the “other woman”
06:00 – Rock bottom, getting fired, and the final explosive breakup
08:15 – DUI, jail, and jumping into her next relationship
10:30 – Fast engagement → marriage → pregnancy → separation
12:45 – Red flags, financial chaos, and therapy saying “this won’t work”
15:00 – Motherhood forcing clarity + choosing stability for her son
17:30 – Co-parenting struggles, loss of control, and identity shifts
19:45 – Leaving toxic relationships & what people don’t understand
22:00 – Healing, learning self-worth, and advice to her younger self
24:30 – Fitness, sobriety, and rediscovering herself after divorce
26:00 – Dating again: roster era + the “Stroke Boy” saga
28:30 – Meeting Trevor + the Hawaiian-shirt love bombing
30:00 – Unlearning survival mode & letting in a healthy relationship

Ep.10 In this episode, we’re keeping it chaotic (as always) with my longtime bestie Carlie — and trust me, it’s a ride. From fake IDs and bar brawls to potty training and co-parenting, we dive deep into how motherhood flips your entire identity upside down. We laugh through the wildest Uber rides, spill the tea on that one questionable girls trip, and open up about the emotional weight of solo parenting, dating as a single mom, and learning how to set boundaries after heartbreak.

If you're a mom who's evolved from the party scene to preschool pickup — or you're somewhere in between — this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe texting your best friend mid-listen.

We cover:

• Girls trip chaos, fake IDs, and why we don’t travel with strangers anymore
• The emotional rollercoaster of motherhood after a breakup
• Co-parenting wins and real-talk boundaries with your ex
• Potty training fails, toddler wakeups, and parenting through exhaustion
• Why dating as a single mom is a hard pass (for now)
• Teaching our daughters what healthy love looks like

This episode is for you if:

• You’re navigating single motherhood and trying to keep your sanity intact
• You’ve outgrown your party girl era but still want to laugh about it
• You want honest, unfiltered talk about co-parenting, identity shifts, and dating post-baby
• You’re figuring out how to protect your peace and raise your daughter with intention
• You need a reminder that you’re allowed to change, grow, and set the damn tone

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📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Kayotic + meet Carlie
02:00 – If the bar bathroom walls could talk…
05:50 – Fake IDs, fights, and blackout stories
10:25 – The wildest Uber ride (and the girl who stole my bed)
16:30 – Motherhood now: potty training, moving, and starting over
23:15 – Dating as a single mom: “who has the time?!”
27:50 – Boundaries, co-parenting, and keeping things respectful
33:00 – Teaching our daughters how to spot healthy love
36:45 – Current obsessions: books, Love Island, and toddlers with DVDs
41:00 – Wrapping it all up: you’re allowed to evolve and protect your peace

Ep. 9 - In this episode, we’re getting raw, funny, and real about what it’s like to date a single mom—from the early awkward stages to building a blended family that actually works. Kaylee and her boyfriend Seth sit down for a vulnerable conversation about dating after heartbreak, breaking the “used goods” stigma, and what it takes to show up for kids who aren’t biologically yours. From single mom guilt to dad jokes and “jungle time,” this one’s packed with laughter, truth bombs, and heartfelt advice for anyone navigating love with a little extra chaos.

We cover:

• What it’s really like being a single mom trying to date again
• The fears and stigma men face when dating women with kids
• How to build trust with your partner’s kids (and survive the “you’re not my dad” stage)
• Red flags to watch for when dating as a single mom
• Why men need to stop wasting moms’ time if they’re not all in
• What real commitment to a blended family actually looks like
• Why dating a “hot mom” hits different when the jungle starts playing 😏

This episode is for you if:

• You’re a single mom who wants to date again without guilt
• You’re wondering how to blend families and make it work
• You want a partner who shows up for you and your kids
• You’re tired of low-effort men and ready to raise your standards
• You love a little romance, realness, and chaos in your earbuds 🎧
• ✨ If you’re a mom with a messy love life or a guy thinking about dating one—this one’s for you.

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📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Intro chaos, laughs, and awkward mic moments
01:00 – Finding out she was pregnant young + dealing with a toxic relationship
03:46 – Pregnancy stress, morning sickness, and single mom strength
05:21 – Andre as a baby: Lightning McQueen & toddler cuteness
06:30 – Living with parents, losing friends, and mom life at 21
07:45 – The newborn fog and dating again (with a little drama)
09:00 – “Used goods” stigma & dating fears as a new single mom
10:05 – Guys reacting to dating a mom & why it freaks some out
11:34 – Primal fears, paternity issues, and caveman-level jealousy
12:05 – Seth’s first time meeting Andre (and why Taco Bell saved the day)
13:50 – Why Seth didn’t care the kids weren’t biologically his
14:26 – Kaylee’s “no dating guys with kids” rule—and why she made it
16:00 – How step-parenting works when your partner has your back
17:50 – The turning point: respect, trust, and building family roles
19:23 – “We knew each other more than just two dates, y’all…”
20:06 – The fully developed brain test: What women really want
21:04 – Realizing men actually want families too
22:00 – The almost-crossed-paths story & banking together during Covid
23:13 – Seth’s advice to men: If you’re not committed, don’t waste her time
24:10 – Why Christmas is better with kids & making your own magic
25:28 – Moms: don’t lower your standards just because you have kids
26:25 – A message to all the meatheads: kids notice everything
27:01 – Final Q: What’s the best part of dating a hot mom?
27:20 – “When the jungle starts playing…” 🐆🔥