You ain’t over that — and this episode proves it.
Temptation, trauma, and “what the strap do” collide as TEE and Ebony get real about love, identity, and the baggage we pretend doesn’t exist.

Watch the full video episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/WucmTFAz6EQ

In Just Dykes on the Mic Episode 4, the conversation jumps from experiences with older partners to navigating sexuality, identity, and the beliefs we carry into relationships. The hosts unpack how past relationships shape present choices, why temptation is always lurking, and what it really means to live life fully instead of just surviving it.

Along the way, they dive into cultural commentary, social media engagement, reflections on celebrity deaths, family expectations, and the everyday moments that remind us growth is messy — and usually loud. Honest, hilarious, and painfully relatable, this episode is for anyone who’s ever said they were healed… and then got triggered anyway.

🎧 Laugh with us
🖤 Reflect with us
🔥 Be honest with yourself

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The conversation covers topics such as food preferences, friendship challenges, emotional well-being, and societal perceptions. It delves into the importance of open dialogue in friendships, the impact of societal expectations, and the concept of self-affirmation. The hosts also discuss the influence of social media and the constitution's statement on equality. The conversation covers topics related to gender identity, societal norms, sexual preferences, and disabilities. It explores the definitions and perceptions of terms like 'stud' and 'feminine,' as well as the complexities of sexual attraction and preferences. The hosts also discuss the portrayal of disabilities and the boundaries of humor in such contexts.

Takeaways

• Open dialogue is crucial in maintaining strong friendships.
• Societal expectations can impact how people perceive and interact with others. Gender identity and sexual preferences are complex and diverse, and individuals may have unique perspectives and experiences.
• The portrayal of disabilities and the boundaries of humor in such contexts are topics that require sensitivity and understanding.

Chapters

• 00:00 Food Preferences and Friendship
• 05:44 Emotional Well-being and Self-Affirmation
• 25:16 Societal Perceptions and Equality
• 30:16 Sexual Preferences and Attraction
• 37:02 Boundaries of Humor and Disabilities

The conversation covers the frustrations of grocery shopping, the concept of fast lanes and left lane driving, experiences at Trader Joe's and parking lot woes, navigating past relationships, and discussions about age and appearance. The conversation covers a range of topics including the concept of 'Black Don't Crack', discussions about food and recipes, experiences in the military, and conversations about social issues and privilege.

Takeaways

• Grocery shopping frustrations
• Navigating past relationships
• Age and appearance Black don't crack
• Food and recipes
• Military experiences
• Social issues and privilege

Chapters

• 00:00 Grocery Shopping Frustrations
• 05:01 Left Lane Driving and Fast Lanes
• 09:59 Trader Joe's and Parking Lot Woes
• 24:27 Social Issues and Privilege