Episode 30: It’s Not Loyalty If You’re Just Scared to Be Alone

When Sunshine calls fear “loyalty,” she ends up staying where God’s already said go.

In this episode, Lindsay Brown dives deep into emotional dependency, obedience, and the fear of being alone—and how these patterns delay the divine connection God actually has for you.

You’ll learn how to tell the difference between godly loyalty and emotional fear, why obedience to God’s will impacts the timing of your relationships, and how to build a full, purpose-filled life before partnership even enters the picture.

This one is for the woman who’s been praying for love but still holding on to confusion. It’s time to let go, trust God’s timing, and live fully in the season you’re in.

In This Episode:

💜 The difference between loyalty and codependency

💜 How disobedience to God’s will can delay the partner meant for you

💜 The five ways to build a full life first — spiritually, emotionally, purposefully, relationally, and practically

💜 Why volunteering and serving others add meaning and joy to your single season

💜 A deep reflection on 2 Timothy 1:7

💜 A guided journaling moment to help you reconnect to your purpose and peace

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💜 Relationship Red Flag Journal by Lindsay Brown: the perfect tool to unpack patterns, spot the signs, and grow stronger before you give again.

✨ It also makes a beautiful holiday gift for a friend who’s ready to heal, reflect, or reset her relationship standards. Available now ➡️ Get Your Copy on Amazon

🎧 Listen to related episodes:

• Episode 22 — Apologizing Isn't Weakness
• Episode 25 — Don't Drag Baggage into a Blessing

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Coming Next:

Episode 31 — “Sunshine, That’s Not Intuition—That’s Insecurity.”
When suspicion isn’t discernment, it’s unhealed fear. We’ll unpack how to tell the difference between godly wisdom and emotional wounds.

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Hosted and developed by Lindsay Brown for the Sunshine Why™ Program.

Keep your light on and your standards high. Thank you for listening. Enjoy today!