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Is This A Thing?

Is This A Thing?

By: Alli Hoff Kosik + Abby Wolfe
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Welcome to ITAT! On each episode, best pals Abby and Alli seek to answer that age-old friendship question: "Is this a thing?" From arguing with a pet and weird food icks to crying at your child's preschool and swag addictions, we're unpacking the personal, vulnerable (often absurd) and making it universal. Plus, we're laughing, yapping, and attempting to save the world along the way!

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Alli Hoff Kosik + Abby Wolfe
Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Episode 19: PARKING ANXIETY... Is This a Thing?
    Mar 5 2026

    Get in losers, we're going shopping. Beep beep! Or actually, maybe we're not. Because Alli is driving (which she likes) but the parking situation is uncertain, and that makes her nervous, and so...maybe we'll just stay at home and shop from our laptops instead? In case it's not obvious, today we're talking about PARKING ANXIETY.

    We also chat about:

    • Lingering coughs, and how coughing is annoying
    • The tempting tendency to pathologize people
    • Alli's fascinating and fervent disdain of Rob from Traitors
    • Why this season of Traitors doesn't feel as good as last season
    • ...and more!


    The usual links:

    • ITAT on Instagram
    • Alli on Instagram
    • Abby on Instagram
    • ITAT on Substack
    • Pre-order Alli’s book!


    Subscribe on Substack for access to FULL episodes, including this one! We appreciate your support :)



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    28 mins
  • Episode 18: THE PITT AS A COMFORT SHOW...Is This a Thing??
    Feb 12 2026

    Last week we talked about “hate listening” to podcasts. This week, we’re talking about media consumption again—but this time, we’re talking about comfort TV. But there’s one more twist: Abby wants to know if high-stress shows like The Pitt and ER can be comfort shows (because they definitely are for her).


    We also chat about:

    • Going on a cross-country road trip and the roles each of us would play
    • How it feels for Alli to hold THE FIRST COPIES of her debut novel!
    • The current and future state of hardcover books
    • ...and more!


    And, of course, here are links to things we mentioned in the episode:

    • LITTLE ONE by Olivia Muenter
    • The Pitt
    • HEART THE LOVER by Lily King
    • GLOSSY by Marisa Seltzer


    The usual links:

    • ITAT on Instagram
    • Alli on Instagram
    • Abby on Instagram
    • ITAT on Substack
    • Pre-order Alli’s book!


    Advocacy corner:

    The state of the country (and world) is weighing heavily on us right now. As such, we wanted to provide some suggestions of how to stay involved. Every little thing counts.

    • Call your representatives using 5 Calls (there’s also a great mobile app)
    • Donate to mutual aid orgs. Here are some suggestions:
    • Food For All
    • Immigrant Defense Network
    • List of mutual aid orgs in Minnesota
    • Project Relief Maine
    • Stay in the know by following these creators:
    • Emily Amick of Emily In Your Phone
    • Aaron Parnas


    Subscribe on Substack for access to FULL episodes, including this one! We appreciate your support :)


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    20 mins
  • Episode 17: "Hate listening" to podcasts... IS THIS A THING?
    Jan 29 2026

    Raise your hand if you've ever opened up your Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, or [Insert your social media platform of choice] and navigated toward the profile of someone you, well, really don't like.


    We won't say you hate that person, per se, but you definitely don't like them, and you may not even know them. Yet you often find yourself scrolling through their page to see what they're up to. (By the way, if you're not raising your hand, I don't believe you!! – Love, Abby).


    Many in the world refer to this as "hate following."


    In this episode, we discuss something in a very similar vein: "Hate listening" to podcasts, something Alli does on pretty much a daily basis. We also chat about:

    • Our ideal morning routines (and how soggy socks can interfere)
    • Hiring a personal driver for two-year-old Will (note: this is a joke)
    • Throw pillows and commitment issues
    • Cookie Fridays
    • ...and more!


    And, of course, here are links to everything we mentioned in the episode:

    • Busy Phillips on Pod Meets World
    • Abby's super cool new mechanical keyboard (I'm sorry that it's from Am*zon!!)
    • Watch What Crappens episode about the RHOSLC finale
    • Workhorse by Caroline Palmer


    The usual links:

    • ITAT on Instagram
    • Alli on Instagram
    • Abby on Instagram
    • ITAT on Substack
    • Pre-order Alli’s book!


    Subscribe on Substack for access to FULL episodes, including this one! We appreciate your support :)



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    29 mins
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