If you’re ready for a spiritual wake-up, this one is for you. Your relationship with Jesus might be more lifeless than you think. TJ breaks down the subtle drift from authentic discipleship into imagination, routine, and spiritual numbness.
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🔑 Key Highlights & Talking Points

1. The Statue Moment
• TJ describes sitting in church staring at a beautifully ornate statue of Jesus.
• This sparks the central question: Is my relationship with Jesus real—or has it become decorative, familiar, but lifeless?

2. When Intimacy With Jesus Slips Away
• We often intellectualize Jesus until He becomes a concept rather than a companion.
• The drift happens gradually, almost invisibly.

3. Fulton Sheen’s Insight
• Referencing Sheen: Mary’s closest experience of sin was losing Jesus for three days—because sin feels like separation.
• This becomes a frame for understanding spiritual dryness and distance.

4. How to Know You’re Not Walking With the Real Jesus
• If you’ve ever walked closely with Him, you know the difference.
• The heart recognizes when closeness has turned into routine, idea, or memory.

5. Discipline, or Lack of It, Makes or Breaks Intimacy
• Prayer life, sacraments, meditation, Scripture—these are the oxygen of closeness.
• Like exercise: fall off once and the decline begins.

6. Falling and Rising is the Normal Cycle
• Holiness is not perfection—it’s perseverance.
• The first goal: spend more time close to Jesus than far from Him.
• This grows into a hunger that keeps you from ever wanting to drift again.

7. A Warning Worth Hearing
• Jesus will not force Himself on you.
• He will allow you to drift if you neglect the relationship.
• The responsibility is yours to guard the friendship.
8. A Call to Arms
• Fight the appearances of failure.
• Reject the “I suck; I can’t do this” lie.
• Get up. Keep going. Jesus is real—don’t replace Him with a statue.
9. The Algorithm Rant (Hilarious but True)
• TJ blows up about TikTok’s constant pop-ups and the cruelty of algorithms.
• Hidden message: You must intentionally signal what you value—or the algorithm (and your spiritual life) won’t know you care.