In this powerful episode of Your Utmost Life, Misty Celli unpacks the quiet, yet devastating, experience that many women face but rarely name: the slow erosion of identity under the weight of being a “good woman.” If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, I don’t even know who I am anymore, this episode is going to feel like someone finally turned the lights on.

You’ll hear the story of how ambitious, loving, high‑capacity women unintentionally make themselves invisible — not because they’re weak, but because they were taught that love equals sacrifice. And you’ll learn the truth that changes everything: if you made yourself disappear, you have the power to bring yourself back.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

• The subtle moment when a woman realizes she’s disappeared into her roles
• Why “being a good mother, good wife, good woman” becomes an identity trap
• The emotional and physical cost of shrinking yourself down to “I’m just…”
• The research behind identity loss in women and why it’s so common
• The validation‑frustration loop that keeps you overfunctioning
• Why reclaiming yourself feels disruptive — and why that’s a good sign
• The exact moment every woman faces when she begins to reappear
• How to start excavating the real you beneath years of self‑abandonment

Key Insight

You didn’t disappear.
You buried yourself under expectations, obligations, and the belief that your worth depends on what you provide.
And what’s buried can be excavated.

Take This With You

Reclaiming your identity isn’t selfish — it’s essential. Your children, your partner, your work, and your future all benefit when you stop living as a ghost in your own life and start showing up as the whole, vibrant, opinionated woman you were always meant to be.

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