• 302 Part 2 Tonia Sina: Champion of Consent and Theatrical Intimacy
    Aug 24 2025

    In part two of this interview, hosts Ann and Carly continue their engaging conversation with intimacy choreographer Tonia Sina. They delve into critical questions about the evolving landscape of intimacy coordination and its impact on actor autonomy, safety, and the broader cultural shift within the industry. Tonia shares her personal challenges, including her battle with a rare terminal illness and eventual cure, and how these experiences fueled her relentless drive to advocate for safer and more respectful working conditions in theater. The discussion touches on the importance of community, the collective effort in shaping this burgeoning field, and hopes for future collaboration and support among intimacy professionals. They also explore the notion of establishing a unified code of ethics to guide intimacy work and foster a more inclusive, accountable, and compassionate industry.

    00:00 ICIC Tonia Sina Part 2

    02:51 Personal Reflections and Burnout

    03:08 Impactful Moments and Gratitude

    05:37 Stepping Back and Observing Change

    08:36 Medical Breakthrough and Recovery

    11:12 Future Plans and Writing a Book

    15:23 Intimacy Direction and Collaboration

    26:51 Grace, Accountability, and Community

    31:18 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    Tonia Sina (She/Her)

    Tonia Sina is the first ever Intimacy Choreographer and created the term in her master’s thesis, Intimate Encounters: Staging Intimacy and Sensuality, at VCU in 2006. Along with teaching workshops internationally while traveling with her service dog, Daphne Rose, she has choreographed intimacy at the Chicago Lyric Opera, Stratford Festival, Steppenwolf, Marriott Theatre, the Great River Shakespeare Festival, and the Guthrie Theatre among many others. Featured in the NY Times, the LA Times, The New Yorker, The Washington Post, American Theatre Magazine, CBC Radio, Huffington Post, and hundreds of other publications and podcasts, Tonia has been researching Intimacy for the Stage and Sexual Harassment in the industry since she began research for her thesis in 2004.

    Also a playwright, director, and performer, Tonia is a triple kidney transplant recipient and rare and chronic disease patient ambassador and national motivational speaker She attended Virginia Commonwealth University where she studied movement and stage combat, and she earned her MFA in Movement Pedagogy with a specialty in Intimacy for the Stage. She was the Executive Director of Intimacy Directors International, the first non-profit intimacy direction organization. She is currently writing a book about her life and the origins of the intimacy direction movement. Tonia is reemerging into the theatre field as a teacher and advocate after five years of severe health challenges with her now cured rare terminal illness.

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    32 mins
  • 302 Part 1 Tonia Sina: Champion of Consent and Theatrical Intimacy
    Aug 17 2025

    In this two-part episode of ICIC (Intimacy Choreography In Conversation), co-hosts Ann James and Carly DW Bones interview Tonia Sina, a pioneer in the field of intimacy direction. Tonia shares her profound origin story, detailing her transition from actress to intimacy director, how she arrived at the term 'intimacy choreography,' and her struggles with chronic kidney failure and a rare disease. Despite personal and professional challenges, including advocacy for actor's rights and fighting gender inequality in academia, Tonia has made significant contributions to the field. Her journey includes promoting empathy, proper choreography for intimate scenes, and fighting against abuse in the theater industry. Tonia's story is one of resilience, dedication, and the ongoing effort to better the industry for all actors.

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    00:33 Meet Tonia Sina: Origin Story

    02:38 Challenges and Breakthroughs in Academia

    04:08 Pioneering Intimacy Direction

    10:28 Personal Struggles and Advocacy

    14:51 Controversies and Consequences

    20:08 Empowering Students and Facing Backlash

    26:12 Personal and Professional Turmoil

    29:24 Reflection and Future Directions

    Tonia Sina (she/her)

    Tonia Sina is the first ever Intimacy Choreographer and created the term in her master’s thesis, Intimate Encounters: Staging Intimacy and Sensuality, at VCU in 2006. Along with teaching workshops internationally while traveling with her service dog, Daphne Rose, she has choreographed intimacy at the Chicago Lyric Opera, Stratford Festival, Steppenwolf, Marriott Theatre, the Great River Shakespeare Festival, and the Guthrie Theatre among many others. Featured in the NY Times, the LA Times, The New Yorker, The Washington Post, American Theatre Magazine, CBC Radio, Huffington Post, and hundreds of other publications and podcasts, Tonia has been researching Intimacy for the Stage and Sexual Harassment in the industry since she began research for her thesis in 2004.

    Also a playwright, director, and performer, Tonia is a triple kidney transplant recipient and rare and chronic disease patient ambassador and national motivational speaker She attended Virginia Commonwealth University where she studied movement and stage combat, and she earned her MFA in Movement Pedagogy with a specialty in Intimacy for the Stage. She was the Executive Director of Intimacy Directors International, the first non-profit intimacy direction organization. She is currently writing a book about her life and the origins of the intimacy direction movement. Tonia is reemerging into the theatre field as a teacher and advocate after five years of severe health challenges with her now cured rare terminal illness.

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    31 mins
  • 301 The Return of ICIC in 2025
    Aug 10 2025

    Reconnecting After Four Years: Exploring Transformations in Intimacy Coordination

    In this episode, the hosts reunite after a four-year hiatus to discuss the latest developments in intimacy coordination. They share personal and professional updates, revealing significant transformations in their lives, including remarkable achievements and health journeys. The discussion delves into the evolving field of intimacy coordination, addressing changes in practices, the industry's increasing acceptance, and the ongoing need for more representation and community building. They also introduce a comprehensive survey aimed at capturing a snapshot of the current state of the intimacy field, inviting listeners to contribute their experiences and insights.

    00:00 Welcome Back After Four Years!

    00:53 Exciting Updates and New Beginnings

    02:28 Personal Transformations and Achievements

    10:37 Industry Changes and New Practices

    16:38 Launching the Intimacy Survey

    20:39 Diving into Demographics and Identities

    27:45 Embracing Transness in Storytelling

    28:53 Transitioning to Professional Intimacy Work

    30:35 Mentorship and Training in Intimacy Coordination

    32:19 Personal Journeys and Training Backgrounds

    40:10 Challenges and Community Building

    42:49 Contracts and Professional Practices

    45:31 The State of the Intimacy Field

    55:21 Conclusion and Future Directions

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    59 mins
  • 203 - Lizzy Joshua Interview
    Jul 28 2025

    Welcome to Intimacy Choreography in Conversation — a podcast that brings intimacy professionals, artists, and storytellers into dialogue about the evolving practices of intimacy choreography across film, television, and live performance. Hosted by Ann James and Carly DW Bones, each episode explores the tools, language, and politics shaping this essential field.

    🎙️ About this episode:


    Originally recorded as part of Season 1/2, this conversation focuses on consent-forward practices, the impact of training, and challenges in institutional settings. While it was first released in 2021, its insights continue to resonate.

    ✨ What you'll hear:

    • Behind-the-scenes perspectives from working intimacy choreographers
    • Reflections on training, advocacy, and creative collaboration
    • Tools and techniques for safer and more intentional storytelling
    • Honest discussion about the state and future of the field

    📣 Connect with us:

    • Ann James: @annjamesintimacy
    • Carly DW Bones: @thespomancer
    • Co-produced by: David Gonzalez (@dgonzalezmusic) and Hazel Lozano

    📢 Support the show:


    If you find these conversations valuable, please rate, review, and share with your community. Follow and subscribe to stay updated as we launch Season 3 — coming soon.

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    57 mins
  • 202 - Discussion with Diana Wyenn
    Jul 28 2025

    Welcome to Intimacy Choreography in Conversation — a podcast that brings intimacy professionals, artists, and storytellers into dialogue about the evolving practices of intimacy choreography across film, television, and live performance. Hosted by Ann James and Carly DW Bones, each episode explores the tools, language, and politics shaping this essential field.

    🎙️ About this episode:

    Originally recorded as part of Season 1/2, this conversation focuses on consent-forward practices, the impact of training, and challenges in institutional settings. While it was first released in 2021, its insights continue to resonate.

    ✨ What you'll hear:

    • Behind-the-scenes perspectives from working intimacy choreographers
    • Reflections on training, advocacy, and creative collaboration
    • Tools and techniques for safer and more intentional storytelling
    • Honest discussion about the state and future of the field

    📣 Connect with us:

    • Ann James: @annjamesintimacy
    • Carly DW Bones: @thespomancer
    • Diana Wyenn: @dianawyenn
    • Co-produced by: David Gonzalez (@dgonzalezmusic) and Hazel Lozano

    📢 Support the show:


    If you find these conversations valuable, please rate, review, and share with your community. Follow and subscribe to stay updated as we launch Season 3 — coming soon.

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 201 - Empower The Actor
    Jul 28 2025

    Welcome to Intimacy Choreography in Conversation — a podcast that brings intimacy professionals, artists, and storytellers into dialogue about the evolving practices of intimacy choreography across film, television, and live performance. Hosted by Ann James and Carly DW Bones, each episode explores the tools, language, and politics shaping this essential field.

    🎙️ About this episode:

    Originally recorded as part of Season 1/2, this conversation focuses on consent-forward practices, the impact of training, and challenges in institutional settings. While it was first released in 2021, its insights continue to resonate.

    ✨ What you'll hear:

    • Behind-the-scenes perspectives from working intimacy choreographers
    • Reflections on training, advocacy, and creative collaboration
    • Tools and techniques for safer and more intentional storytelling
    • Honest discussion about the state and future of the field

    📣 Connect with us:

    • Ann James: @annjamesintimacy
    • Carly DW Bones: @thespomancer
    • Co-produced by: David Gonzalez (@dgonzalezmusic) and Hazel Lozano

    📢 Support the show:


    If you find these conversations valuable, please rate, review, and share with your community. Follow and subscribe to stay updated as we launch Season 3 — coming soon.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • 109 - Restorative Justice
    Jul 28 2025

    Welcome to Intimacy Choreography in Conversation — a podcast that brings intimacy professionals, artists, and storytellers into dialogue about the evolving practices of intimacy choreography across film, television, and live performance. Hosted by Ann James and Carly DW Bones, each episode explores the tools, language, and politics shaping this essential field.

    🎙️ About this episode:


    Originally recorded as part of Season 1/2, this conversation focuses on consent-forward practices, the impact of training, and challenges in institutional settings. While it was first released in 2021, its insights continue to resonate.

    ✨ What you'll hear:

    • Behind-the-scenes perspectives from working intimacy choreographers
    • Reflections on training, advocacy, and creative collaboration
    • Tools and techniques for safer and more intentional storytelling
    • Honest discussion about the state and future of the field

    📣 Connect with us:

    • Ann James: @annjamesintimacy
    • Carly DW Bones: @thespomancer
    • Co-produced by: David Gonzalez (@dgonzalezmusic) and Hazel Lozano

    📢 Support the show:


    If you find these conversations valuable, please rate, review, and share with your community. Follow and subscribe to stay updated as we launch Season 3 — coming soon.

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    53 mins
  • 108 - Intimacy Metal Health
    Jul 28 2025

    Welcome to Intimacy Choreography in Conversation — a podcast that brings intimacy professionals, artists, and storytellers into dialogue about the evolving practices of intimacy choreography across film, television, and live performance. Hosted by Ann James and Carly DW Bones, each episode explores the tools, language, and politics shaping this essential field.

    🎙️ About this episode:


    Originally recorded as part of Season 1/2, this conversation focuses on consent-forward practices, the impact of training, and challenges in institutional settings. While it was first released in 2021, its insights continue to resonate.

    ✨ What you'll hear:

    • Behind-the-scenes perspectives from working intimacy choreographers
    • Reflections on training, advocacy, and creative collaboration
    • Tools and techniques for safer and more intentional storytelling
    • Honest discussion about the state and future of the field

    📣 Connect with us:

    • Ann James: @annjamesintimacy
    • Carly DW Bones: @thespomancer
    • Co-produced by: David Gonzalez (@dgonzalezmusic) and Hazel Lozano

    📢 Support the show:


    If you find these conversations valuable, please rate, review, and share with your community. Follow and subscribe to stay updated as we launch Season 3 — coming soon.

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    1 hr and 3 mins