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Identity and Possession: Who Are You Without the Things You Have?

Identity and Possession: Who Are You Without the Things You Have?

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We live in a world that glorifies having—titles, possessions, success, control. But as Erich Fromm warned decades ago, the more we have, the less alive we often feel. In this episode, we explore the quiet, difficult work of being.

Ryan and MJ unpack what it really means to become instead of acquire—through stories from Jiu-Jitsu, entrepreneurship, and everyday life. They examine why every dream comes with a shadow side, how our culture confuses ownership with identity, and what fulfillment actually requires once the novelty fades.

You’ll hear:

  • Why every desire carries its own cost—and why that’s not a bad thing

  • The black belt lesson: having a belt vs. being a practitioner

  • How to recognize when you’re chasing possession instead of depth

  • Practical ways to shift from consuming to creating, from collecting to becoming

  • The power of “I am” journaling and seeking depth in a surface-level world

If you’ve ever achieved something and still felt empty, this conversation reframes success—not as what you earn, but who you become in the process.
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