In this episode, Rae shares a raw and personal account of coming out as transgender, navigating family rejection, and carving out a path toward authenticity. It’s an honest reflection on identity, boundaries, and what it means to choose yourself in environments that don’t always make space for you.

What we talk about

• Returning home after transition and the emotional weight of it
• Family dynamics, rejection, and navigating deadnaming
• Setting boundaries while still holding space for love
• Choosing a name and what that process really means
• Living authentically in socially conservative environments
• Legal gender markers and their impact on identity
• Being outed versus coming out on your own terms
• The complexity of gender beyond binary thinking
• Safety considerations during transition
• Building resilience and self-understanding

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction and tech hiccups

00:30 Returning home and feelings of liberation

01:29 Perspective shifts during the gender marker process

02:20 Reaching out to family and sending a video

02:50 Navigating deadnaming and identity boundaries

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