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You Are The Problem

You Are The Problem

By: Cole
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Most people want change.
Almost nobody wants accountability.

YOU ARE THE PROBLEM is the podcast that forces you to confront the version of yourself you’ve been avoiding — the patterns you repeat, the excuses you protect, and the truths you refuse to say out loud.

Hosted by Cole, this show cuts deeper than motivation and cleaner than therapy.
Every episode is a mirror: honest, uncomfortable, revealing.
If your relationships feel like déjà vu…
If your life keeps repeating the same cycles…
If “everybody else” is always the issue…

This show will tell you what nobody else will:

It’s not them.
It’s you.

Through raw conversations, psychological insights, real-life scenarios, and surgical storytelling, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM exposes the blind spots holding you back — in love, in growth, in discipline, in everything.

This isn’t for people who want to feel better.
This is for people who want to get better.

New episodes every week.
Brace yourself.

© 2025 You Are The Problem
Episodes
  • YOU ARE THE PROBLEM | Episode 1: No More Running
    Dec 15 2025

    Episode 1: “No More Running”
    You blame an entire generation for being toxic… but you never stop to ask the only question that matters:

    What is it like to date YOU?

    This episode cuts through the excuses, the delusion, and the lack of accountability that’s taken over modern relationships. If you’re uncomfortable while watching this, good — it means something finally hit where it needed to.

    In this episode you’ll learn:
    • Why blaming “everyone else” keeps you stuck
    • The psychology of self-sabotage
    • The patterns you repeat without realizing
    • The 30-Day Rewire Protocol to reset your mindset
    • How to finally take responsibility for the person you bring to the table

    If you’re serious about becoming a better partner, a better man or woman, and a better human — start here.

    Subscribe to the podcast and follow the journey. Accountability isn’t a trend — it’s a lifestyle.

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