In this episode of Power Through the Mess, I open up about a season of quiet, loss, and self-reckoning — and the truth about what really happens when you choose yourself.

I talk honestly about the desire to be chosen, the patterns we unknowingly repeat in relationships, and the confusion that comes from inconsistency — especially when love feels different in private than it does in public. This episode isn’t about blaming anyone. It’s about recognizing where self-abandonment shows up, how isolation can be part of the process, and what alignment actually looks like on the other side.

Choosing yourself doesn’t always feel empowering at first. Sometimes it costs you connections, friendships, and familiarity. Sometimes it brings silence before it brings clarity. But in that quiet, something truer begins to form.

If you’ve ever felt like you were asking to be chosen instead of choosing yourself — this conversation is for you.

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