This week we go over our 2025 ins and outs list.

In: country club activities, tasers, and polycules

Out: hills, run clubs, and meetings before 9am

We also share our experience plugging in our metaphorical avatar hair with the tree of life when exploring the mystical world of plant medicines (think oiud, magic mushrooms, and mother Aya),

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This week we’re giving you a very special bonus episode because we can't stop thinking about the art of dating. We dive into some of our best and worst first dates and share those little details that make the difference.

Remember kids - dating should be fun, splitting the bill at a boujee restaurant is not hot, and the post-date text is more important than you think.

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Taylor’s in her sleepy girl era (mono vibes but make it chic), Zoe dropped racks to frame her vintage poster, and somehow we ended up on a beach drive that gifted us two very unsolicited penises. From there, the chaos unfolds—nude beaches, Prince Alberts, nipple piercings, boob luges well into our 50s, and why we’re officially declaring a celibate summer (boys, it’s not you, it’s… actually, it’s you). We touch on eating ass, when situationships become besties, our celeb crush line-up, and a brand new “Would You Rather” featuring skinny vs short kings. Buckle up, it’s messy in the best way.

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Overpack your bags and light your cig because we’re taking you on our 2-week French fever dream. From late-night burlesque shows, to the wedding of the century, to dance floors we barely remember, our livers and lungs have never worked harder.

By the numbers? 8 cities, 30 Aperol spritzes, 10 bottles of rosé, 40 “cultural, they don’t count in Europe” cigarettes, 3 makeouts, 2 shroomy adventures, 1 jellyfish sting, 1 yacht, and an “it’s always been you” declaration.

14 days of pure, unadulterated bliss in ballgowns and bikinis. Like seriously, are we in a movie or just main characters in our own chaos?

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Zoe’s deep in her feels flipping through 1800s family photos of people she’s never met (hello, historical hotties), and we’re obsessed with anemoia—a word we can’t pronounce but deeply feel.

Meanwhile, Taylor got laid off and honestly? Blessings in disguise. She's free from corporate chaos and packing bikinis for France. We’re asking the real questions: Why did we choose college majors at 18? Is social media turning our minds into soup? Are we losing vocab or just evolving into chaotic geniuses?

Also: AI takeover, memory loss, and the eternal debate—zombies or aliens. Who’s the real threat... and who would we flirt with first?

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We took molly once and never shut up about it—so here we are, reminiscing about nights in the club and rolling to Flume like every other chaotic twenty-something in 2016.

We compare Euro clubs to U.S. ones (spoiler: Europe wins), discuss our imminent return to the dance floor, and plan our very French summer.

Our Venus's are in Leo which means Zoe's into mesh toe shoes (help) and Taylor's either in a dramatic fit or boy-core.

Send us your wildest vacation stories - we'll be reading them poolside with Rosé in hand.

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Zoe’s made the leap to San Francisco—and narrowly dodged sharing a bed with her brother?? Now Zoe and Taylor are cohabiting like feral, spiritual roommates: tan, topless, and thriving. This episode is a cocktail of chaos and clarity, covering everything from SF hotness inflation (a San Diego -11 becomes a SF 9) to bender energy, type A vs. type C dynamics, and why the coworker-on-a-business-trip is the most dangerously single demographic alive.

We dive into the “Taxi Cab Theory,” cheating epidemics, Mormon reality TV, and the existential spiral of wondering if we’ll ever get married—or if that even matters. Through all the madness, one thing is clear: we’re here to explore, stay open, and trust the universe (even if we’re hungover doing it).

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This week Taylor shares her latest stats (3 kisses, 1 week, zero regrets), and discusses pegging with 8 CMOs, CEOs, and whatever other acronym. Then we critique casual dating, and why hook-up culture is so freaking exhausting. Like—how are you forehead kissing me, taking me on dates, saying you like me… then acting confused when I think you like me??

We’ll be brave and just say it. Dating with intention is hot! Respect, curiosity, and emotionally intelligent conversations are sexy! And finally, we ask the hard question: did dating apps and social media ruin romance or are we just dopamine junkies with commitment issues?

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