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I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

By: Raiford Dalton Palmer /E. James Publishing Company Inc.
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 Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).Copyright 2023 All rights reserved, E. James Publishing Company, Inc. Economics Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Nicole Kidman, Kylie Jenner & Shannen Doherty Divorce & Rumors | EP 50

    Nicole Kidman, Kylie Jenner & Shannen Doherty Divorce & Rumors | EP 50
    Feb 3 2026
    In this episode, we dive into the shifting landscape of high-profile relationships and the legal realities that often follow when the cameras stop rolling. From the "optimistic" new chapter for Nicole Kidman following her finalized divorce from Keith Urban to the sudden split of Todd Bridges and Bettijo Hirschi, we look at why even the most seemingly stable long-term unions are reaching a breaking point in 2026. The conversation gets real as we unpack the complicated aftermath of Shannen Doherty’s estate battle and the quiet "trust issues" that led to Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson’s separation after a decade. We also look at the other side of the coin: the "deep dating" trend and why couples like Timothée Chalamet and Kylie Jenner are taking years—rather than months—to move toward engagement. Things take a practical turn as we answer listener questions on the tough logistics of co-parenting and divorce strategy. From navigating relocation disputes and the complexities of hiring outside help for medical care to knowing when it’s finally time to switch attorneys, we break down how to handle the "business" of a breakup without losing your sanity. We wrap the episode with a look at the future of dating. We explore why women are statistically initiating divorce more than ever, the unique "vulnerability gap" in Gen Z dating trends, and essential safety tips for navigating the apps. Whether you’re starting over after a long marriage or just trying to date with more intention, this episode ties together headline news with the common-sense advice you need to move forward. Timestamps: 02:20 Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban 04:30 Rick Springfield's Viewpoint 06:40 Todd Bridges Split Announcement 08:54 Shannen Doherty's Divorce and Legal Battle 15:02 Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson splitting 16:41 Trend of longer dating before marriage 18:24 Timothee Chalamet and Kylie Jenner Rumors of engagement 20:20 Desmond Scott and Kristy Scott Tiktok Influencer’s Divorce 21:50 Why more women are initiating divorce 26:02 Listener Question: Sole Medical and Ex Hires Nurse 30:12 Listener Question: Relocation of Children 36:14 Listener Question: Changing Attorney 3rd time 40:32 STG Divorce Law 41:47 Gen Z Dating Trends 43:36 Safety Tips for Dating Apps Episode Links: Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban Receive Bizarre Advice Two Weeks After Divorce - https://bit.ly/4au4itR 'Diff'rent Strokes' Actor Todd Bridges Splits From Wife, Headed for Divorce - https://bit.ly/3NT0Z6O Shannen Doherty’s Ex-Husband Kurt Iswarienko Challenges Divorce Settlement Less Than 2 Years After Her Death - https://bit.ly/3O3DUOK Jessica Simpson and Husband Eric Johnson Split After 10 Years of Marriage: Exclusive -https://bit.ly/3ZeCP9m Social Media Star Kristy Scott Files for Divorce, Alleges Infidelity - https://bit.ly/4qZolGD Why more women are initiating divorce - https://bit.ly/4qhQAiu Gen Zers Date for Financial Stability, Says Coffee Meets Bagel's CEO - Business Insider - https://bit.ly/3Mlto4X Milwaukee police urge caution after rise in 'bait and switch' robberies involving dating apps - WPR - https://bit.ly/4kbaaLU Handy Divorce Links: Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com. For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
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    47 mins
  • Modern Dating Secrets with Matchmaker Blaine Anderson | EP 49

    Modern Dating Secrets with Matchmaker Blaine Anderson | EP 49
    Jan 24 2026

    In this podcast episode, Raif and Rahul sit down with Blaine Anderson to talk honestly about what actually works in modern dating and why so many people feel frustrated, burned out, or stuck even when they are getting matches. Blaine shares how she built Dating By Blaine from simple profile feedback into a full coaching and matchmaking platform, and why more people are looking for guidance as dating apps leave them confused about what they are doing wrong.

    The conversation dives into Blaine’s focus on coaching men, how she decides who she works with, and why clarity, confidence, and intent matter more than trying to say the perfect thing or play a role. Together, they unpack why dating often feels harder than it needs to be and how small mindset shifts can make a real difference.

    Things get practical as Blaine breaks down the mistakes that quietly ruin dates before they even start. From profile red flags and awkward first messages to texting habits that kill momentum, she walks through patterns she sees every day. Raif and Rahul also guide the discussion toward dating after divorce and long relationships, especially for men over 35, and how to be honest about your life without oversharing or turning early dates into therapy sessions.

    The episode wraps with first date strategy and real life stories, including where to go on a first date, coffee versus drinks, and the small details that actually make someone feel comfortable. Along the way, Blaine shares unforgettable client requests and matchmaking moments that reveal what people say they want versus what actually leads to real connection. Raif and Rahul close the episode by tying dating, intention, and common sense together in a way that feels refreshingly real.

    Timestamps:

    02:23 Getting to know Blaine Anderson

    08:05 Matchmaking Criteria and Courses

    10:01 Dating as a Marketing Problem

    11:11 Confidence and Intent

    12:06 Reprogramming and Intentionality

    12:59 First Date Do's and Don'ts

    14:41 Red Flags on Dating Apps

    17:38 Messaging and first impressions

    18:11 Texting etiquette

    20:23 Choosing the right first date

    22:23 Creating the Perfect Setting

    23:38 Considerate Gestures

    23:41 Leftovers on First Date

    25:29 Client's Oddball Demands

    28:07 Criteria for Choosing a Partner

    30:11 Opposites Attract

    35:31 Prenup and nerdy hobbies

    36:38 Last-minute prenup and undo duress

    37:30 Values Conversation and Prenup Timing

    38:29 Postnuptial Agreements

    40:21 Unusual Matchmaking Story

    42:58 Niche Interests and Online Dating

    Episode Links:

    Blaine Anderson is a well-known dating coach and matchmaker who specializes in helping men improve their dating lives and build long‑term relationships.​ She runs Dating By Blaine, a brand that includes coaching, online courses, matchmaking, and free online content aimed at guys. A couple months ago, Blaine launched a fun and helpful new podcast, “Help Me, I’m Single,” where she helps singles figure out how to improve their dating lives - featuring Blaine and a comedian in every episode. https://www.youtube.com/@DatingByBlaine

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
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    48 mins
  • Nicole Kidman’s Divorce Settlement, Dan Gilbert’s Split & the Rising Gray Divorce Trend | EP 48

    Nicole Kidman’s Divorce Settlement, Dan Gilbert’s Split & the Rising Gray Divorce Trend | EP 48
    Jan 19 2026

    The hosts kick things off with a breakdown of Nicole Kidman’s divorce settlement, followed by a discussion of Dan Gilbert’s (RocketMortgage) divorce and what high-asset cases can teach us about planning, leverage, and expectations when money is on the line.

    From there, the focus shifts to broader cultural patterns, including the continued rise of “gray divorces” and the surprising emergence of divorce rings as a new post-split status symbol. The episode also detours into the tech world to talk about a Dutch couple who used AI to write their wedding vows with unexpected results, sparking a deeper conversation about legal tools, artificial intelligence, and the real risks of AI hallucinations when people rely too heavily on technology for legal advice.

    Raif and Rahul share practical “divorce month” tips for anyone contemplating or navigating a separation, before answering listener questions on parenting plans and how courts handle future terms when spouses want different paths to resolution. The episode wraps up with a forward-looking take on dating, highlighting habits to ditch as 2026 approaches, and closes with final thoughts that tie law, relationships, and common sense together in a way only they can.

    Timestamps:

    09:00 Nicole Kidman's divorce settlement

    14:19 Dan Gilbert's divorce

    16:53 Gray Divorce Trend

    18:41 Divorce Ring Trend

    21:17 Dutch AI Speech Fail

    22:57 Legal Tools and Hallucinations

    26:43 Divorce Month Tips

    34:30 Question: Parenting Plan

    39:55 Question: Future Terms, Differing Resolution

    43:37 Dating Habits to Ditch in 2026

    46:40 Closing Remarks

    Episode Links:

    • Nicole Kidman Scores Big Win in Keith Urban Divorce Settlement https://bit.ly/45B6UDJ
    • Oakland County judge OK's settlement agreement for Dan and Jennifer Gilbert divorce - https://bit.ly/49OEPtU
    • Rocket Mortgage Founder Dan Gilbert’s Soon-To-Be Ex-Wife Is Now A Billionaire - https://bit.ly/49qwBsT
    • Rachel Zoe joins 'divorce ring' trend with giant diamond after Rodger Berman split - https://bit.ly/4qqpqXL
    • Dutch couple are "not married" due to ChatGPT speech fail - https://bit.ly/49sZdBS
    • 5 Dating Habits to Ditch in 2026 (Before They Ruin Your Year) - https://bit.ly/4jMUGh9

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
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    48 mins
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