Dating over 50 isn’t just about chemistry—it’s about real compatibility. In this episode, Laurie Gerber dives into a topic most people avoid: discussing the things that don’t work about you and your partner in the early stages of dating.

What you’ll learn in this episode: - Why your “liabilities” (quirks, habits, life circumstances) might actually be your secret superpower in love. - Laurie’s eight-step framework for navigating awkward conversations without scaring someone off. - Real-life stories—including Laurie’s own funny and slightly embarrassing moments—showing how honesty can deepen attraction rather than derail it. - How to recognize liability compatibility: the key to knowing if a partner is truly aligned with your head, heart, and hoo-ha (3H method).

Examples of liabilities to consider: - Health issues (past or present, including long COVID) - Lifestyle non-negotiables (location, children, religion, family dynamics) - Financial considerations - Personality traits or bad habits - Relationship history or divorce details

Coaching tips you’ll get: When and how to bring up sensitive topics—yes, even in early dating. How to balance grace and wisdom in every conversation. Laurie’s three P’s method: Prepare, Present, Partner—your guide to honest, respectful communication. How to listen, negotiate, and create new agreements that protect intimacy and clarity in relationships.

Stories from the episode include: Laurie’s first kiss with her husband and the garlic-breath moment. A client navigating fitness expectations and honesty. A coaching story about attraction and difficult truths about a partner’s teeth.

Why this episode matters: If you’re dating after 50 or after divorce, hiding your humanness or avoiding awkward conversations can lead to dating fatigue or missed opportunities for true intimacy. Laurie’s framework teaches you how to speak your truth, understand your partner’s perspective, and build connections that last.

Resources & Next Steps: Watch Laurie’s free webinar: 3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love Without Repeated Disappointments - lauriegerber.com/webinar

Listen to past episodes, including the Three-Date Strategy (Episode 4), to learn how to discover compatibility sooner.

Next week on Love at Any Age: Learn how to prepare for your first three dates, including the right questions to ask, using Laurie’s master list of Spark Questions for successful dating over 50.

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