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“If only they would stop blaming me…”

In this episode, we go deep into one of the most painful loops couples get stuck in — blame, defense, and disconnection.

For years, we both thought the other person was the problem.
I wanted Adam to change.
He wanted me to stop overreacting.
And nothing ever changed.

The truth?
You cannot make your partner change.
But you can influence them — not through criticism or control, but through calm ownership and emotional safety.

“When I stopped pointing the finger and started leading with love and responsibility, everything changed.”

If you are tired of the same fights and ready to create real change in your relationship, this episode is for you.

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