Luna shares how she prioritizes communication across all areas of her life—as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, a podcast host, a photographer, and a human with limited time and lots of love to give. With humor and clarity, she breaks down how she likes to connect in-person, virtually, and in writing, offering thoughtful guidance on what kinds of messages get her attention (and which ones don’t). A loving, detailed guide for anyone curious about how to connect—online, at the Ranch, or in the world.

00:00 In-person connection: bar chats, tours, and party etiquette

03:24 Anti-convincing, negotiation boundaries, and respectful kink invites

05:23 What not to do at the bar (touching, smoke, fake names, leering)

09:02 Connecting through photoshoots, retreats, and co-creative play

11:29 Navigating public space and irresistible invites

14:22 Virtual connection: video for intimacy, audio for creativity

15:14 Podcast guest invites, structure, and storytelling

17:57 Livestream etiquette, staying on topic, and tipping culture

20:08 Premium messages: sharing fantasies, setting the frame, getting a yes

23:26 Written communication: email do’s, don’ts, and appreciation

29:34 How I prioritize communication depending on where I am

35:46 TL;DR and an important reminder

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