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Growing up as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, higher education wasn’t an option—it was discouraged, shamed, and treated as a waste of time. Like many others, I was told I might not even graduate high school because Armageddon was “just around the corner.”

Jehovah’s Witnesses told me college was not an option. In this video, I share how indoctrination shaped my view of education—and what teachers, parents, and anyone working with JW kids need to know.

You’ll hear my personal story of how I was convinced college wasn’t possible, why I carried a negative attitude about school, and how I eventually broke free to earn my degree years later.

If you’ve ever struggled with:

Feeling “behind” in life after leaving a high-control religion

Being told college or career advancement is pointless

Catching up on opportunities you were once denied

…then my story will resonate with you.

🎥 Stay until the end—I share how I went from failing high school science to graduating at the top of my college class.

✦ If this story speaks to you, please like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more people see they’re not alone in their hidden struggles.

#️⃣ Chapters (optional to add later)
00:00 Intro
00:20 What family didn’t understand after I left
01:30 Growing up JW and being discouraged from school
05:00 Failing science because of indoctrination
09:00 Realizing college was “not an option”
13:00 How I finally went back and earned my degree
16:00 My advice for anyone struggling today

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Leaving Jehovah’s Witnesses comes with questions nobody prepared us for: Who am I? What do I believe? How do I rebuild?

For me, books became lifelines. Authors like Mel Robbins and Viola Davis gave me practical tools for growth and self-confidence. And even in fiction, I found truth — Carl Weber’s novels opened my eyes to real-world situations, relationships, and critical thinking in ways the Watchtower never allowed.

📚 These stories showed me that wisdom isn’t limited to “approved” books. There’s truth in fiction, healing in storytelling, and strength in voices outside the organization.

✨ If you’re leaving Jehovah’s Witnesses or learning how to thrive after Watchtower, this video will remind you: you’re not alone, and the right voices can help guide your path.

Recommended Books

Mel Robbins - Let Them - https://a.co/d/8TtUHmx (audio book)
The Heart in the Bottle, Oliver Jeffers - https://a.co/d/hNqeFNc (paperback)
Finding Me: A Memoir, Viola Davis - https://a.co/d/i7SHg4W (audio book)
Hustle Harder, Hustle Smarter, 50 Cent - https://a.co/d/6RbJVn7 (audio book)

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In this episode of Hidden Struggles, Lady Cee sits down with Ra'Shuna — an award-winning teacher, wife, and mother — to share her extraordinary story. From navigating a terrifying medical crisis under Watchtower pressure, to being shunned by her own family, Ra'Shuna reveals how she and her husband flipped the script: cleaning houses by night, studying by day, and ultimately creating a life on their own terms. This is Part One of a two-part conversation you won’t forget.

👉 Don’t miss Part Two, where Ra'Shuna opens up about the power of books, literacy, and reclaiming her own voice. LINK HERE.

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In her first interview on our sister channel EXJW Critical Thinker, Gail shared the heartbreaking story of her father’s deathbed confession after serving as a Jehovah’s Witness elder for decades.

In this Hidden Struggles follow-up, Gail returns to reveal what happened next — how her mother cut her off from seeing her father before he died, and how no one in her Jehovah’s Witness family told her when her mother passed away. Gail only learned about her mom’s death by stumbling across her obituary on Facebook.

This is the devastating reality of being shunned until death — where Watchtower loyalty and the Governing Body’s Paradise promise can destroy family bonds forever.

📌 Watch Part 1 here: https://youtu.be/1D59WhdbKzs
💬 Share your story or connect with us: ladyceepodcast@gmail.com

Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome Gail
00:57 Deathbed Confession Recap
07:48 Branded an Apostate for reading Crisis of Conscience
26:39 Learning about Mom's Death on Facebook
33:51 The Cost of Watchtower loyalty

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Contact Joe & Fran:
YouTube channel Joe and Fran every Wednesday, 7 pm est.
https://www.youtube.com/@UCVJ8KInz-MesI345Frv_aqw
Phone: 315-221-0130
Email jandfguerino@gmail.com

Fran and Joe left the Jehovah’s Witness organization in their 70s — proving that courage has no age limit. Nearly four years after waking up to “the truth about the truth” and two and a half years after officially disassociating, they’ve built a new life centered on freedom, connection, and helping others.

In this conversation on Hidden Struggles, we talk about:

What life looks like after leaving in your 70s

How they’ve built community and connection post-organization

The importance of courage and hope at any age

Fran and Joe’s story is a powerful reminder that you are not alone — and it’s never too late to reclaim your freedom.

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If you’re an ExJW, PIMO, or just starting your journey out, share your thoughts in the comments. Your story matters, and your voice can encourage someone else.

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In this powerful final part of my 3‑part conversation with Daria, we talk about what happens when you stop letting the Governing Body control your choices—and start taking ownership of your health and your life.

Daria, a former Jehovah’s Witness and breast cancer survivor, opens up about:
• The life‑saving medical decisions she was free to make after leaving the Jehovah's Witness faith
• How Watchtower policies keep members trapped in fear and silence
• The hidden costs—financial, emotional, and physical—of following harmful doctrines
• Her advocacy work helping women navigate the healthcare system and claim their rights

If you’ve ever wondered what freedom looks like outside the control of the Governing Nobodies, this is an episode you need to watch.

📌 Watch Part 1 here → https://youtu.be/0j33mFdhCvA
📌 Watch Part 2 here → https://youtu.be/ENq9eJCSRFk

🔗 Catch Parts 1 to 3 in the playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_ykTLA0AaRTCu8RdouOwixpVLUjZIIW1

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In Part 2 of my conversation with Daria, we talk about what happens when you find your voice in a high-control group — and what it costs to use it.

From speaking her mind to challenging silence in the congregation, Daria opens up about the challenges of being heard in a system that discourages independent thinking.

📌 Watch Part 1 here → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0j33mFdhCvA
📌 Watch Part 3 here → https://youtu.be/Br7VdkCgZeU

🔗 Catch Parts 1 to 3 in the playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_ykTLA0AaRTCu8RdouOwixpVLUjZIIW1

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In the first conversation of my three-part series with Daria, we talk about what it was like growing up as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, the pressure to conform, and the moment she realized she needed to walk away.

Leaving isn’t just about closing the door on a religion — it’s about finding yourself again. From childhood indoctrination to discovering her own identity, Daria’s story will resonate with anyone who’s questioned the life they were told to live.

📌 Watch Part 2 here → https://youtu.be/ENq9eJCSRFk
📌 Watch Part 3 here → https://youtu.be/Br7VdkCgZeU

🔗 Catch Parts 1 to 3 in the playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_ykTLA0AaRTCu8RdouOwixpVLUjZIIW1

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