Let’s be clear—I’m not dragging myself… but I am holding myself accountable. 😭

In this episode, we’re talking about that moment when you realize the common denominator in the chaos might be you—and instead of spiraling, you finally start evolving.

We get into self-sabotage in disguise, why “I’m just protecting my peace” sometimes means avoiding growth, and how unhealed habits can sneak into your dating life, friendships, and boundaries wearing a cute outfit and good intentions.

This isn’t a self-hate episode. It’s a self-awareness with edges episode. Because once you recognize where you’re the problem, you also realize you have the power to be the solution. And that? That’s grown.

If you’ve ever said “why does this keep happening to me?” and immediately followed it with “wait…”—this one’s for you. Pull up, laugh a little, get checked gently, and leave better than you came. 💅🏽🎧

In this episode of Hey Girl Hey, Destiny keeps it all the way real about setting boundaries — and why people love to call you the villain the moment you say “no.” From family dynamics to friendships and everything in between, Destiny shares personal stories and hard-earned lessons about closing doors, protecting her peace, and refusing to feel guilty about it. Boundaries aren’t walls — they’re locks, and you hold the only key. Tune in for laughter, truth, and a reminder that choosing yourself doesn’t make you the bad guy — it makes you free.