In today's episode, we sit down with Shivani Berry, CEO and Founder of Career Mama, to talk about the raw realities of balancing career and motherhood. Shivani is a Harvard MBA, a LinkedIn Top Voice in Leadership, and has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, and Nasdaq. But more importantly, she is a mom of two who has lived through burnout, identity shifts and even a near-death experience just days after giving birth to her second child.

Shivani shares candidly about the identity shift that came with becoming a mother, the burnout she faced during her second pregnancy, and the life-changing perspective she gained after her postpartum health crisis. We explore how cultural expectations as a first-generation Indian-American shaped her motherhood journey, why supportive partnerships matter in sharing the mental load, and what ambitious moms need most to thrive both at work and at home.

If you're a new mom or even a seasoned mom who has wondered what it means to "do it all," Shivani's story reminds us that leadership and motherhood are not about perfection, but about presence, intention, and creating space for support. This is not just for the career mamas out there, but for any mama wondering if they have to choose between career and motherhood.

Find more of Shivani:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shivaniberry/
Website: https://careermama.com/

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Peggy and Jasmine are back for a third season of Healing the Tigress! This opening episode goes over a few updates and recaps, and we also answer some listener questions that we collected from you guys!

One of the biggest updates over the summer is that we've switched to Buzzsprout Subscriptions! This is a way that you can give us a little more support if you resonate with our mission to continue to destigmatize mental health and open up more conversations in this space for AAPI parents. We go over how to sign up if you're interested and once you're subscribed, we'll have bonus episodes available for you to listen! (We even tease our next bonus episode coming up VERY soon!)

As always, we appreciate if you can drop us a rating or review and if you follow the show! These steps can help boost our show visibility in searches and that's what we really hope to accomplish so an AAPI mom struggling with her perinatal mental health can find the stories she may need to feel seen and find the resources to heal.

Please follow along, share the show, catch us on IG, and we'll be back really soon with our first bonus episode and guest of the season! Thank you for all your support; we couldn't do this without all of YOU amazing listeners!

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On our final episode of the season, we were thrilled to interview another AAPI mom duo, who host a podcast named "Not a Tiger Mom Podcast." We have been wanting to bring on AAPI moms who identify as neurodivergent or are raising neurodivergent children, and both of these moms identify as neurodivergent themselves AND are raising autistic children AND work with neurodivergent children in their careers (behavioral analyst and speech therapist)!

Jenny Lai, MA, BCBA and Bettina Lopez-Lam, MS, CCC-SLP, IBCLC, are the amazing duo behind Not a Tiger Mom Podcast. Jenny is Chinese-Cambodian American, and Bettina is Filipino American and they met on Instagram in 2023 through their shared experiences of raising autistic sons. Bettina is a late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD (AuDHD) individual, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and birth trauma, and has navigated postpartum depression and anxiety. Jenny is self-diagnosed with ADHD, identifies with highly sensitive person (HSP) traits, and has a clinical history of anxiety and depression.

In 2024, they launched the Not a Tiger Mom Podcast, where they speak candidly about their lives as neurodivergent AAPI mothers raising autistic children. Through heartfelt and relatable conversations, they aim to break cultural stigma and encourage others in the community to find connection, healing, and acceptance.

On our podcast episode today, we discuss:

• The journey of how Jenny and Bettina discovered they were neurodivergent themselves (both found out later in life)
• How being neurodivergent may have impacted Jenny and Bettina's postpartum experience
• The experience of getting autism diagnoses for their kids and how it affected their mental healths
• The importance of using neurodivergent-affirming language
• How being AAPI adds another layer to being neurodivergent and raising neurodivergent children
• The importance of having neurodivergent-identifying providers such as Jenny and Bettina in the space of support for neurodivergent kids
• The controversy behind traditional ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) therapy versus neuro-affirming ABA therapy.
• Addressing the harmful comments and misrepresentation of the autistic community

We encourage those who want to learn more about Jenny and Bettina's journeys to check out their pages and podcast!

Find more of Jenny and Bettina:

• Not a Tiger Mom Podcast
• Jenny's Instagram: @msjennybx
• Bettina's Instagram: @beeingaudhd
• NATM Instagram: @notatigermompodcast

Note: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed are the speakers' own. This podcast is not a replacement for therapy or professional/medical advice. If you need more support or advice, please reach out to your own medical professional who can answer your questions with your individual medical history and background in context.

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