In today’s episode, we’re digging into the real story behind rejection, abandonment, and the confidence it takes to shut down the negative narratives trying to shape your life.

I share how my dad’s early years were marked by abandonment and self-rejection—and how everything changed when he met Jesus. I was raised in love and safety, but that same generational thread still tried to attach itself to my story.If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting patterns you didn’t choose… this conversation is for you.

What we cover:

• Why rejection and abandonment often feel “normal” in our thoughts

• The moment I realized those same narratives were knocking on my door

• How generational patterns try to repeat themselves

• The choice we all face when negative thoughts show up

• What it looks like to reject self-abandonment and stay connected

• How God actively orchestrates healing, confidence, and freedom

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God’s voice doesn’t just speak to your present—it calls you from your future. He already sees the life He designed for you, and He’s inviting you to step into it.

What does it look like to live a life you actually want to wake up to? How might unprocessed grief or disappointment be holding you back from pursuing your God-given dreams? In this episode, Havilah unpacks the power of Spirit-led living and how to partner with the future God has already written for you.

Ask yourself:
→ What is my future self trying to tell me?
→ When I leave this earth, will I know I’ve fulfilled my God-given potential?

It’s time to rise up, shake off the past, and move toward the future He’s calling you into.

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This week, I’m wrapping up our series on The Art of Preaching by talking about something that’s so close to my heart: sustainable preaching. After almost 30 years of ministry, I’ve learned that it’s not just about having a great message—it’s about protecting the rhythm of your life so you can last for the long haul. In this episode, I share practical ways to guard your energy, keep your connection with the Holy Spirit fresh, and even raise up others to carry the message with you. If you’ve ever felt the weight of burnout or wondered how to keep preaching with passion decade after decade, this conversation is for you!!