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Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships

Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships

By: Aiden & Anna
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Welcome to "Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships," the podcast where we explore the transformative power of ethical non-monogamy within modern relationships. Hosted by Aiden and Anna, a committed couple who have navigated the challenges of divorce, heartbreak, ultimately creating a rare and deep connection. This podcast is designed to introduce listeners to new ways of thinking and loving, while challenging the conventional norms of love and commitment. Join us as we dive into our personal stories, share our experiences, and discuss the complexities of open relationships, from swinging to polyamory and everything in between. Whether you're a seasoned veteran of the lifestyle or just beginning to consider new ways to deepen your relationships, Aiden and Anna offer insights, honesty, and a touch of humor to help you on your journey. Expect candid conversations about jealousy, desire, emotional growth, and radical honesty. Each episode provides a safe space for listeners to question, learn, and discover new possibilities for their own love lives. Tune in for an intimate and enlightening look at what it really means to "hack love" and build richer, more authentic connections.

📩 Email us: AnnaAiden@gmx.com

Hacking Love Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1YFEEPwYeB/

Instagram @HackingLove_Podcast

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Episodes
  • Ep 48 — We Got Married!! 👰🏼🤵🏻 Now What? Our Open-Life Debate Gets Real

    Ep 48 — We Got Married!! 👰🏼🤵🏻 Now What? Our Open-Life Debate Gets Real
    Nov 12 2025

    Come for the vows, stay for the vibes 💍🔥

    Fresh off our festival-themed specatacle of a wedding (let's just say it got a little crazy 😜), we get real about what married life looks like for two people who want slightly different things from an open lifestyle. This one’s candid, tender, and a little spicy—as we do.

    In this episode:

    • 💫 Wedding recap: festival-formal fits, our first marital disagreement (in the form of a DJ battle), roller skates, and a sky that cleared just for us
    • 🔄 “Team sport” vs. “solo sparks”: navigating mismatched play styles without keeping score
    • 🧠 Jealousy, communication, and growth: sitting with big feelings instead of running from them
    • 🎯 Our new ground rules(ish): less pressure, more presence, and letting experiences unfold
    • 📲 The texts to another man that re-opened a door… and how inclusion keeps trust strong.

    If you’re exploring openness as a couple (or even newlyweds!) or just trying to honor two truths in one relationship—this convo is your permission slip to be honest, messy, and loving at the same time. 🖤 Enjoy!

    With love,

    Anna & Aiden 💕

    Email us! annaaiden@gmx.com

    👉 join the convo: Hacking Love Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1YFEEPwYeB/

    Instagram @HackingLove_Podcast
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Ep. 47: Unfiltered Q&A; Solo Date Recap; Anna's 'Playful Probing' 👉 🍑 😉

    Ep. 47: Unfiltered Q&A; Solo Date Recap; Anna's 'Playful Probing' 👉 🍑 😉
    Sep 23 2025

    Hey loves! Episode 47 of Hacking Love is here 💫 After a little hiatus, we’re back—ready to dive into your questions and celebrate some juicy milestones.

    This episode, we unpack our solo date processing… and let’s just say things have only gotten hotter. Expect a steamy recap of our recent intimate adventures—emotional, physical, and yes, how Anna probed Aiden’s “depths” 🤌🍑😉

    We also dig into: ✨ How substances ❄️ 🥃 🐴 💊 can affect play in the lifestyle ✨ The growth (and heat) that comes from leaning into discomfort ✨ Why complacency in monogamy can be a hidden trap.

    As always, you’ll get our raw, funny, and deeply personal take on love, sex, and the messy magic of open relationships. 🔥
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    51 mins
  • Episode 46 — Anna Finally Gets Her Solo Date 👫: What Happens When Fantasy Becomes Reality

    Episode 46 — Anna Finally Gets Her Solo Date 👫: What Happens When Fantasy Becomes Reality
    Aug 26 2025

    In this milestone episode, we dive into a story that’s equal parts unexpected, vulnerable, and thrilling. Solo dates have always fascinated (and unsettled) us — the idea of stepping into new experiences alone, with all the possibilities and what-ifs. For Anna, that curiosity became very real during a recent work trip.

    What started as a simple evening away turned into an unforgettable adventure: an intriguing doctor, a flirtatious dinner, and a set of circumstances neither of us saw coming. In real time, we share the emotions, the anxieties, and the excitement of what happens when trust is tested — and when desire sparks in new ways.

    Join us for the full play-by-play: the lead-up, the encounter, and the raw reflections afterward. This episode is packed with honesty, vulnerability, and the sexy tension that comes when love and adventure collide.

    Tune in to hear how one solo date deepened our connection, challenged our comfort zones, and left us closer than ever. 💬❤️

    With love,

    Anna & Aiden 💕

    Email us! annaaiden@gmx.com

    Hacking Love Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1YFEEPwYeB/

    Instagram @HackingLove_Podcast
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    53 mins
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